Is Moving Abroad the New American Dream? | Ep 70

Garrett Vanderwielen—aka @tallredbeard—joins Mickelle to trace a winding path from LA film sets to life in the Netherlands, where identity, humor, and heartbreak collide. Raised with strong Dutch pride by immigrant grandparents, Garrett reflects on being “Dutch by blood, culturally American,” and how inherited stories shape belonging. A partner visa, a sudden breakup, and six months of couch-hopping became a crucible—teaching him to ask for help, rebuild community, and claim Amsterdam as part of his story.

He also lifts the curtain on creator life: how an accidental viral video about Dutch surnames powered a channel now blending wit with research—and a very vocal Dutch comment section. From the joys of bike lanes and herring stands to tougher conversations about colonial history, Garrett’s work walks the line between affection and accountability. He’s channeling it all into a forthcoming “365 Dutch Facts” book and steady improv shows with The Welcome Distraction.

In this episode:

• Reverse immigration, identity, and “Dutch by blood, culturally American”
• The partner-visa power shift, breakup, and rebuilding from zero
• Making friends fast via improv (Boom Chicago to monthly shows)
• Creator craft: iterate, don’t be precious, let comments fuel learning
• The messy pride/critique dance: humor, history, and Dutch directness

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Follow Garrett: @tallredbeard (TikTok, YouTube, IG). Improv: The Welcome Distraction. Book: 365 Dutch Facts (coming soon). Comic: Sadie’s Sword (Amazon).

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