152. Guilt and the Narcissistic Mother: What Do I Actually Owe Her?

152. Guilt and the Narcissistic Mother: What Do I Actually Owe Her?

Guilt can be one of the hardest parts of healing from a narcissistic or emotionally limited mother. How do you know when guilt means you’ve actually done something wrong and when it’s the result of breaking an old rule about what a “good daughter” is supposed to be?

This week, we’re talking about guilt, obligation, boundaries, and complex grief in difficult mother-daughter relationships. How do you decide what you actually owe a parent who hurt you? And how do you make painful decisions about contact, caregiving, or family relationships without allowing guilt to make those decisions for you?

This episode includes discussion of childhood physical abuse, sexual boundary violations, racism, and disturbing revelations about a family member’s sexual behavior involving a child. Please take care of yourself while listening.

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153. When Your Narcissistic Mother Turns the Family Against You

153. When Your Narcissistic Mother Turns the Family Against You

What happens when your narcissistic mother turns the family against you and everyone starts treating you like the problem?This week on Mayhem, we’re talking about what can happen when a difficult moth...

23 Syys 55min

151.Why Ordinary Things Can Feel Threatening After Narcissistic Abuse

151.Why Ordinary Things Can Feel Threatening After Narcissistic Abuse

What happens when something ordinary in your life suddenly makes your body feel unsafe, even when you know there’s no real danger?In this episode, we look at why trauma triggers can persist long after...

9 Syys 58min

150!! How to Take Up Space After a Narcissistic Mother

150!! How to Take Up Space After a Narcissistic Mother

What does it actually mean to "take up space" after growing up with a narcissistic or emotionally limited mother?We’re talking about why taking up space feels so vulnerable for daughters, how childhoo...

2 Syys 21min

How to Stop Feeling Like a Burden

How to Stop Feeling Like a Burden

Do you feel guilty asking for help, putting yourself first, or even having preferences? If you've spent your life feeling like a burden, I’ve got you. In this episode, we're talking about the invisibl...

26 Elo 33min

148. Why Making Friends Feels So Hard After a Narcissistic Mother

148. Why Making Friends Feels So Hard After a Narcissistic Mother

Why does making friends and finding community feel so much harder after growing up with a narcissistic or emotionally immature mother? This week, we talk about how childhood trauma shapes connection, ...

19 Elo 43min

147. My Narcissistic Mother Started Therapy. Now What?

147. My Narcissistic Mother Started Therapy. Now What?

What happens when your narcissistic mother starts therapy? What if your emotionally immature or narcissistic mother seems to be changing after years of hurt, manipulation, or emotional abuse? How do y...

12 Elo 46min

146. Word Salad, Love Bombing, Gaslighting & DARVO: How to Stop Getting Pulled Into Narcissistic Mind Games

146. Word Salad, Love Bombing, Gaslighting & DARVO: How to Stop Getting Pulled Into Narcissistic Mind Games

If you've ever walked away from a conversation with your mother feeling confused, doubting yourself, or wondering how you somehow ended up apologizing...I've got your back.Today we're unpacking some o...

5 Elo 36min

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