Cancer Put Me Into Menopause… Here’s What It’s Taught Me

Cancer Put Me Into Menopause… Here’s What It’s Taught Me

Cancer put me into menopause at 42 and this week, seeing my latest hormone results in black and white hit me much harder than I expected.

I cried. I felt robbed. And I started wondering: why am I so bloody sad about something I already knew was happening?

Because I don't think I'm only grieving menopause. I'm grieving what it represents: fertility, ageing, the body I had before cancer, and that little door I'd kept open to maybe having another baby.

In this episode, I'm talking honestly about treatment-induced menopause, denial, fertility after cancer, toxic positivity, and why being unbelievably grateful to be alive doesn't mean we're not allowed to grieve what cancer took from us.

There is, obviously, some light relief, including my ovaries taking early retirement, my rapidly disappearing tolerance for bullshit, the absolute fucking audacity of my new turkey neck, and why Instagram can keep its “second spring” for now.

If cancer has thrown you into menopause before you were ready, this one's for you.

You don't have to find the positive straight away. You don't have to be grateful every minute.

You can sit in winter for a bit. Spring will come when you're fucking ready.


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