11. Do you often try to guess or assume the emotions and feelings of others to keep yourself safe?
I've always found myself guessing and assuming the emotions and feelings of others to keep myself safe. Growing up in a household where one parent always had unstable emotions and often blamed me for ...
28 Joulu 202014min
10. Your suicidal thoughts are valid
In this episode, I talk about suicidal ideation and your thoughts being valid. I don't talk too much about my own experience but more so just my thoughts about having them and how I think it should be...
12 Marras 202010min
9. Fear of abandonment: the fear of being left alone
In this episode, I talk about why we fear abandonment and ways in which it shows up in our lives. I do focus on romantic relationships, as it relates back to my life, but you can have this fear in any...
28 Loka 202010min
8. What codependency is and what it's like to be codependent
In this episode, I get into what codependency is and what it's like being codependent. For me, it's like getting into a relationship and throwing away all of my wants and needs without considering if ...
20 Loka 20209min
7. Do you feel safe and secure when you worry and are in control?
In this episode, I get into how worry and controlling behaviors give you a false sense of security and safety. It's common for trauma survivors to continue to create chaos or create the same outcome o...
13 Loka 202014min
6. Blame your parents or transgenerational trauma but don't blame yourself
In this episode, I talk about the whether we should "blame" transgenerational trauma or our parents. I say, as long as you don't blame yourself and you do whatever helps you heal your inner child woun...
29 Syys 202017min
5. The roles of a narcissistic family
In this episode, I briefly talk about the roles that are in a narcissistic family and how getting out of that family might be what saves you. I know that leaving family isn't always easy and isn't acc...
22 Syys 202011min
4. Your experience doesn't need to be validated by others to be real
In this episode, I talk about invalidating comments, how invalidation can cause more suffering and releasing the need for invalidation. I also threw in a few validating comments that maybe we could st...
16 Syys 202022min
