134: He Thinks He's Making Progress Helping Her Feel Safe, She Doesn't

134: He Thinks He's Making Progress Helping Her Feel Safe, She Doesn't

March 18th: Join the free 5 Day 'Overcome Your Urges' Challenge to get tools to resolve the root cause of your urges so you can eliminate them instead of resisting them.

It can be very discouraging when there is a mismatch between husband and wife, and how they view their progress.

If hey husband thinks he's making strides towards creating safety and rebuilding trust, but the wife doesn't agree, it's easy to feel overwhelmed and lose hope.

This episode, I share three specific things you can do to get on the same page together with your partner and create safety.

There are some activities that move the needle more than others. So in this episode I talk about the ones that matter most so you can focus your efforts on those.

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110: Identifying Source of Urges and Triggers: Habit vs Emotional Coping

110: Identifying Source of Urges and Triggers: Habit vs Emotional Coping

When a man struggles with pornography, identifying the root cause and the source of the urges and triggers is critical. Without knowing what's driving, the urges and the behavior, most solutions will ...

14 Syys 202323min

109: When He’s Doing Well, But She Can’t Reciprocate the Love

109: When He’s Doing Well, But She Can’t Reciprocate the Love

Many couples feel overwhelmed by feeling stuck despite trying to take positive steps forward. A woman can often feel afraid to bring her wall down, or she might feel so hurt that she can't really give...

7 Syys 202328min

108: In Session (Behind the Scenes): Repair Your Marriage With THIS Conversation

108: In Session (Behind the Scenes): Repair Your Marriage With THIS Conversation

This is a very special episode I am super excited about! I'm working with a wonderful couple who allowed me to record our sessions together. This episode is a snippet of our second session together an...

1 Syys 202336min

107: Reprocessing Triggers & New Habits: The Key to Avoiding Relapse

107: Reprocessing Triggers & New Habits: The Key to Avoiding Relapse

In order to sustain progress and avoid relapse in the future, it's so important to not only develop new habits but actually reprocess your triggers. Most men get triggered by being home alone, stress,...

25 Elo 202323min

106: How to Guard Against Temptation and How She Can Help

106: How to Guard Against Temptation and How She Can Help

The nagging feeling of an urge or temptation can become so powerful it's hard to resist. In this episode I share with you specific approaches and tools you can implement to conquer any urges without n...

17 Elo 202325min

105: How to Know If You’re Ready For Sexual Intimacy Again in Your Marriage?

105: How to Know If You’re Ready For Sexual Intimacy Again in Your Marriage?

Navigating sexual intimacy after the impact of pornography can be so difficult! In this episode we do a deep dive to help you know how to integrate sexual intimacy back into your relationship in a way...

10 Elo 202330min

104: 3 Ways to Have Hard Conversations More Productively So You Can Find Closure

104: 3 Ways to Have Hard Conversations More Productively So You Can Find Closure

Having hard conversations in your marriage after pornography addiction is one of the most important skills you can learn. However, there are many things that can get in the way of having productive co...

3 Elo 202326min

103: Slip vs Relapse and Should He Tell His Wife?

103: Slip vs Relapse and Should He Tell His Wife?

Is there a difference between a slip and a relapse, and at what point should he tell his wife? In this episode I detail not only the differences between a slip and a relapse but exactly how you can fi...

28 Heinä 202329min

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