Getting Unstuck From Unhelpful Patterns in Relationships, w/ Lena Nicodemus, LMFT

Getting Unstuck From Unhelpful Patterns in Relationships, w/ Lena Nicodemus, LMFT

Can we find a balance when it comes to attachment where we don’t completely lose ourselves in a relationship? Lena Nicodemus, LMFT (she/they), is dedicated to showing others with BPD that we can. I still have a lot to learn about breaking out of relationship patterns and I felt a lot better after talking to Lena.


In this episode, Lena and I got to chat about:

  • Breaking patterns of unhealthy forms of attachment
  • What is it like to have a partner with secure attachment?
  • Forming your own sense of personal identity outside of relationships
  • When and how do we tell our partner about our BPD?
  • How can we learn to develop trust in relationships?
  • How we can co-regulate with a partner during times of conflict
  • Tips for dealing with conflict with partners
  • Having patience with ourselves during conflict and during healing


Follow Lena on TikTok: @yourhumantherapist - Instagram: @lenanicodemustherapy


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Recorded with: Podcastle

Music: Limbanja by ODDBAHL

Paper Ghosts by ODDBAHL

Intro: Vanilla Sky by Lunareh

Outro: Sonic Sepia by Lunareh



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