Live IFS23 Marras 2024

453: Mimi A. revisits

🔸 Where the buzziness drops off.

🔹 Parts:

Anxious deer on the spot: other peoples anger. dangerous to be perceived in a way that’s not true to me . Dream “massive misunderstanding, im expected to do x, the struggle to stop things to say ‘this should not be happening’”
Pattern seeker. How do I map this?
No, if you stop to write it down or think about how it comes across, that’s not the real experience
E wanting to connect, be liked, be witnessed
P push down that part
P the learner
E on the other side of the cliff. Re physical punishment?

🎓 What I'd like to do differently:

Could have stepped in more at the end, but, this being new, wanted to see what happened.

I'm talking a lot, assuming her system prefers my guessing/guiding, even if wrong, over feeling unmoored, overrun by doubting parts. But I should let her know that, and just ask how it is for her.

She feeling something, and sounds like Self is present, so I wonder if it's the narrator or mapper describing it as "nothing", as in being beyond the map, and with no story to tell about it. Just something I'm wondering today, months after the call.

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