Deeper Sex - A podcast about deeper connections and incredible sex11 Maalis 2025

Fighting with erections and performance anxiety? Here’s what you didn’t know you can do | E18

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Will and Chiara tackle another taboo topic that many men (and their partners) struggle with, but rarely discuss openly: erections.

From performance anxiety to the pressure of always staying hard, they explore how much of the struggle is psychological rather than physical.

They discuss how shame, unrealistic expectations, and overthinking can interfere with arousal, and share practical ways to overcome these challenges. From breaking free of the traditional sex script to exploring the benefits of unconventional practices like non-ejaculation, they offer unusual yet groundbreaking perspectives on male sexual confidence.

You’ll also hear how women often feel responsible for their partner’s arousal, why they may misinterpret erection issues, and how couples can learn to have open, reassuring conversations that remove pressure.

Whether you’ve felt anxiety around performance or simply want a more relaxed, fulfilling intimate life, we guarantee this episode will change the way you think about erections and intimate connections.

TIME STAMPS

00:00 When Did Your Dick Stop Working?

00:48 Let's Talk About Erections

02:11 The "Erectile Dysfunction" Label Does Not Serve You

03:07 Level 1 of "Mind-Fucking"

05:55 What About Cialis or Viagra?

08:40 More Pressure On The Man

09:44 You Naturally Have Things On Your Mind

11:28 The Mojo App for Erectile Dysfunction (20% off code: DEEPERSEX20)

12:44 Cock Rings Can Help With Performance

15:17 Do Women Like Cock Rings?

16:02 How To Talk About Cock Rings

18:43 Mind-Fucking Is The Problem

19:32 I'm Not Hard: How To Address The Elephant In The Room

20:26 10 Prompts To Start Difficult Conversations

21:02 Never Say "I'm Sorry If I'm Not Hard"

21:58 Have Some Fun With Sex Toys

22:46 Are You Saying I Shouldn't Ejaculate? Ever...?

23:25 Benefits of Non-Ejaculation: Increased Libido

24:35 Overcoming The Initial Resistance to Non-Ejaculation

24:58 Coming Is Not The Best Bit!

25:59 What Women Think Of Non-Ejaculation

26:25 The Pleasure Of Giving Pleasure

26:52 Benefits of Non-Ejaculation: Higher Sensitivity

27:42 Soft Dicks Are Nice!

28:46 Have You Tried A Tantric Massage?

30:37 The Secret of "No Goals" During Intercourse

32:57 The Importance Of Feeling Safe

34:19 Become A Better Lover

36:42 For Women: Tell Your Man You Like His Dick!

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The fine line making or breaking your sex life: 4 nervous system regulation hacks for wild adventures | E28

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