129. Perfectionism and black & white thinking in relationships

129. Perfectionism and black & white thinking in relationships

Does your brain have a very all-or-nothing way of looking at yourself and your relationships? You either did it perfectly or you're terrible. You're a good friend or a bad friend. Your partner either says the exact right thing or they must not care about you at all. If so - you're not alone! Our brains are actually predisposed to be very black & white in the way they think - preferring things to fit neatly into set categories - leaving very little room for nuance or shades of grey. In tod...

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13. If it’s not my partner’s job to ‘make me feel good’, what’s the point of relationships?

13. If it’s not my partner’s job to ‘make me feel good’, what’s the point of relationships?

Once we learn that other people don't exist to 'make' us feel good and validate us, some clients tend to ask... 'so if my partner isn't supposed to make me feel secure and validate me, what's the poin...

1 Joulu 202219min

12. How to set and uphold boundaries

12. How to set and uphold boundaries

In this episode - I look at some of the common errors we make when trying to set boundaries, what a boundary actually is, and why it doesn't require anything from anybody else for it to be a huge succ...

24 Marras 202228min

11. Are you on red alert for people being upset with you? (How to handle other people's negative emotions)

11. Are you on red alert for people being upset with you? (How to handle other people's negative emotions)

Do you often find yourself feeling anxious if you sense a change in mood in your partner, friends, co-workers, or family members?This was probably one of my biggest struggles that I’ve really worked o...

17 Marras 202223min

10. All circumstances are neutral (until you have a thought about them)

10. All circumstances are neutral (until you have a thought about them)

Do the things that happen in your life just constantly throw you and leave you feeling like an emotional boomerang? Feeling like you need things to change...Your partner to changeYour job to changeYou...

11 Marras 202224min

9. Don't get mad, get curious

9. Don't get mad, get curious

Find yourself feeling angry about the way other people act? Or maybe you feel rejected, hurt or disconnected when people don't behave in the ways you thought they would. Our brains naturally make ass...

4 Marras 202221min

8. Your relationship to your thoughts

8. Your relationship to your thoughts

If you're trying to improve your relationships in any way - DO NOT SKIP THIS EPISODE.Your thoughts are what create the way you feel, which drive the way you act - which means they're verrrrrry importa...

28 Loka 202219min

7. Wishing you could change their behaviour? (Manuals & expectations of others)

7. Wishing you could change their behaviour? (Manuals & expectations of others)

Do you find yourself wishing you could just get your partner or friends or family members to just STOP doing that thing, or START doing something else?Do you wish you could just write them a guide for...

20 Loka 202228min

6. Listener Q&A - Breakups, cheating, and is he a narcissist?

6. Listener Q&A - Breakups, cheating, and is he a narcissist?

In today's episode, I answer six questions written in by people on my email list. If you're not on my email list already - head to www.rebeccaorecoaching.com and get on it! Topics in this episode inc...

14 Loka 202225min

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