Ep 153: Erotic Poetry about her 63 Lovers, and Counting, Karla Linn Merrifield Shares Her Sensual Writings

Ep 506: Exploring the Depths of BDSM with Lorenzo, The Voice! A deep dive into the world of BDSM with special guest, Lorenzo. With 45 years of experience in the sexuality, kink, fetish, & lifestyle community, Lorenzo brings a wealth of knowledge and unique insights into extreme impact play, sensory deprivation, and more. He also shares his experiences from over 35 years in law enforcement, offering a rare perspective on how these two worlds intersect.  Discussion includes the allure of BDSM, the importance of trust and communication, and the dangers of diving in without proper knowledge. Lorenzo emphasizes the significance of understanding the anatomy and mental states involved in BDSM to ensure safe and consensual play. The talk also touches on the differences between BDSM acts and a 24/7 BDSM lifestyle, highlighting the depth and commitment required for the latter. Additionally, Lorenzo shares his experiences as a voiceover artist and his involvement with ASN Lifestyle Magazine, where he recently graced the cover of the August issue and is up for a social media personality award. He also just was an announcer for the annual ASN awards! Watch the Interview Video on YouTube: https://youtu.be/ItNE3ZQSaxc 02:31 What do you think draws people into engaging in BDSM acts? 09:13 Do you think there's a crossover between your interest in BDSM and your work? 12:59 Types of BDSM do you enjoy the most 17:48 Contract? 21:11 What about these people saying, "I'm training my sub." 24:06 There are some fetishes that people like, that you will never see. 25:59 ASN Lifestyle magazine will host its annual awards 27:47 ASN cover 30:45 What are certain people that should not consider going into BDSM? 39:50 How do people find each other if they are interested in getting into BDSM? 43:43 Do you regret anything 54:40 You know, social media has too much control over people, right 57:30 I hear too much about suicides from bullying on Twitter Connect with Lorenzo: - Twitter/X: @lorenzo4016 - Instagram: @lorenzoG2920 - Fetlife: Sir Lorenzo Quotes from Lorenzo "You have to learn the anatomy of a body before you start playing with a body." "A real dominant is not going to brag or advertise. You don't have to do that." "Imagine the strength that it has to take to give up everything." "If you control the mind, you control the body, but when things go wrong with the mind, that's long lasting, more than a physical." "Everyone wants everything now. Just take your time. It's no rush." Bio: Lorenzo has 45 yrs experience in the kink, fetish, and lifestyle community...Specializing in Extreme Impact Play and Sensory Deprivation. Lorenzo has over 35 yrs of law enforcement and specialized training in hand to hand combat, special weapons, anti terror, prostitution, human trafficking, narcotics, civil disturbance, etc. Lorenzo is also a voice over artist, working with several organizations in radio, narrations, commercials, erotic readings, websites, podcasts, events. Show notes by headliner.app Ruan's books: http://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/ Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

6 Syys 20241h

Ep 504: Road Head Rage: After a party, Shayley and Paul are headed home. Both of their libidos can't wait, and their flirtations erupt into playful banter on the way to their truck. The steamy competitive race of edging each other to max heights is on as their hormones have them raging to get the other so hot they near explosion. Sexy fun, and a wedgie kink, on the road trip ensues and lands them in a prickly situation, but whew do they have a good time! Erotic fiction story written and narrated by erotica author and podcast host Ruan Willow. Enjoy this spicy erotic romance fiction short story audio erotica for entertainment and self care love purposes. Erotic fiction is a fabulous way to explore, expand, and enjoy your sexuality with stories of saucy hot intimate relationships. Exercise your sexuality health and fitness today! Get the Indie Audiobook Deals: http://indieaudiobookdeals.com/ Get my audiobook The Sugar Daddies for only $0.99 cents through 9/5/2024 https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/thesugardaddiesaudiobook and stay tuned for Decadent Erotica to go on sale next! https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/decadenteroticaaudiobook Find the audiobook Filthy Fiction, Dirty Daydreams on these online sellers: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/dirtydaydreams Get Ruan Willow's books and audiobooks: http://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/ Some of Ruan's favorite sex toys and recommendations: The Rose Clit sucker (affiliate link, podcast may receive a commission on purchases, which help to support this podcast being free, thanks for the support!) https://amzn.to/4e6VxFc Zumio Clit stimulator https://shareasale.com/r.cfm?b=1815950&u=3101443&m=98393&urllink=&afftrack= Get the toy that was used in this story, Lush: https://www.lovense.com/r/teyxqq Dual pleasure with Nora! https://www.lovense.com/r/mniiet Podcast Merch! Wear Oh F*ck Yeah! Get Oh F*ck Yeah Podcast Merch T-shirts, tank tops, long sleeve shirts, mugs! Wear it sassy and hot! Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you. Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

3 Syys 202437min

Ep 503: Today, we dive deep into the world of erotic fantasy and Sci-Fi romance with the incredibly talented indie author, Megan Landon. She weaves intricate tales inspired by her Colombian and Dutch roots, linguistic training, and a touch of magic. With a PhD in linguistics and a passion for sexuality in storytelling, she crafts intelligent heroines, supportive heroes, and slightly off-center worlds that captivate and enthrall. Her erotic flash fiction has appeared in Bust Magazine. In this episode, Megan shares her journey into writing erotica, starting from high school love letters to boyfriends to rediscovering the genre in the aughts. She discusses the evolution of erotic literature, the impact of indie writing and publishing, and how the genre has exploded with diverse voices. Megan also reads an excerpt from her series on Medium, "Grow Lights," giving us a taste of her captivating storytelling. We delve into the themes of BDSM in her writing, the challenges of developing such dynamics in short stories, and her approach to writing both fiction and nonfiction. Megan also shares her experiences with anthologies, collaborations with the Erotica Consortium, and her thoughts on the power of words in storytelling. Find more about Megan www.meganlandon.com/links https://www.goodreads.com/author/show/37071182.Megan_Landon https://www.amazon.com/stores/author/B0BMGYH9KV "Love Potion 69" Anthology featuring her "Botany and Brujería" short story (affiliate links, podcast may receive a commission on sales. Thanks for the support!) https://amzn.to/3XalUDc Of Broken Bots and Tempting Techs Audiobook https://amzn.to/4g4LHpc 01:38 What ticked your desire to start writing erotic literature 19:28 You include some bdsm in your stories 21:57 Where are your books 31:01 I think we should be celebrating sensuality and sexuality, not censoring it 34:03 What do you tend to start with when you're writing a story 37:57 Are you more of a pantser or a plotter 44:14 You've done several anthologies with erotica consortium 47:24 What was an early experience where you learned that language had power 51:17 Do you do research when writing about space or something like that 57:24 so what to you is the definition of being a success? 01:01:18 So what are you working on now that you can share with us Quotes from Megan: "You can't turn your back on a passion, right?" "Human sexuality is kind of the essence of what it is to be a living, breathing person." "I think that success is being able to do what you love in a way that nourishes you and sustains and nourishes the people around you." Ruan: "We are living in the most amazing time ever, because never in the history of the world have storytellers been able to disseminate to large groups of people." Ruan's books: http://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/ Summary with headliner  Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

30 Elo 20241h 6min

Episode 502: A delectable heterosexual spicy short romance story with teasing oral fun! Perfect for his and for her pleasure! It's another erotica fiction episode for your saucy entertainment pleasure! Listen for indulging in your well-deserved, and much needed self care time! It's your sexuality and it matters! Sexual health is a part of your mental health! The story: Around Her World: Marlayna and Jason are headed to their favorite hidden away resort for a long weekend of hotel intimacy and reconnection in their relationship. The teasing fun begins when Jason drops hints about a new oral technique he plans to pleasure Marlayna with once they are in the hotel room. Her anticipation runs wild as their flirting reaches inferno levels on the road trip up north. The culmination of their saucy conversation leaves both members of the couple panting heavy with satiated smiles. The resort holds repeat magic for them! It's sexual magic! Ruan's Latest Audiobook Release: Wicked & Spicy Tales: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/wickedandspicytalesaudiobook Hot & Satisfying Quickies Audiobook: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/hotandsatisfyingquickiesaudiobook Hotwife books: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/hotwifebooks Friends with Benefits Threesome Stories book: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/friendswithbenefitsaudiobook Group Fun, Spicy Unions of Three Threesome Stories Collection: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/groupfunatworkspicyunionsofthreeaudiobook NSFW sexy erotica and erotic fiction, erotic romance books and audiobooks: http://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/ Podcast Merch! Wear Oh F*ck Yeah! Get Oh F*ck Yeah Podcast Merch T-shirts, tank tops, long sleeve shirts, mugs! Wear it sassy and hot! Ruan's Beach Getaway book by Ruan Willow A spicy age gap erotic romance novel where the couple enjoys their sexy time at the beach. Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you. Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

28 Elo 202439min

Writing about Love, Sex, Relationships: Rachel Kramer Bussel, an accomplished erotica author and editor, shares her inspiring journey into the world of erotic writing. Starting in 1999 while in law school, her first published story "Monica and Me" launched a successful career exploring diverse sexual fantasies and desires through short stories, anthologies, and teaching. Bussel highlights the joys of writing erotica fiction, from creative exercises with word limits to collaborating with other authors for varied perspectives and anthologies & fiction books (affiliate links below, podcast may receive commissions, thank you! "The Big Book of Quickies" https://amzn.to/3YL9dB9 Enjoy the excerpt read by Rachel her story in the anthology "Mile High Hotness") She celebrates normalizing diverse sexualities through the genre while lamenting external efforts to restrict its accessibility. The speakers discuss erotica's nuances, challenging perceptions of it being a "lesser" form, which it's not! They emphasize its diversity in exploring fantasies safely, its potential for self-discovery, and the pains authors suffer from some societal attitudes dismissing its literary merits. Writing intimate scenes requires developing characters' emotions & motivations beyond just physical details. Researching unfamiliar experiences brings authenticity, exposing authors and readers to new perspectives. The speakers advocate understanding that personal tastes vary, but skilled writing can engage readers regardless of specific content. Summary cleanvoice ai Rachel Kramer Bussel (rachelkramerbussel.com) is the author of craft guide How to Write Erotica https://amzn.to/4dLcFA4 as well as Lap Dance Lust: A Collection of Erotica Stories https://amzn.to/3X5iV06 She is the editor of over 70 erotica anthologies, including 10 volumes of the Best Women's Erotica of the Year series, The Big Book of Quickies, The Big Book of Orgasms Volumes 1 and 2, Come Again: Sex Toy Erotica, and more. Her anthology Surrender won the National Leather Association Samois Anthology Award and she won the 2021 National Leather Association John Preston Short Fiction Award for her short story "Necessary Roughness" in her anthology Best Bondage Erotica of the Year, Volume 1. Rachel's essays and journalism have been published in The New York Times, The Washington Post, Glamour, Marie Claire, Salon, The Village Voice, and many other publications. Follow her @raquelita on X  @rachelkramerbussel on Instagram. Website https://rachelkramerbussel.com/ Substack newsletter https://rachelkramerbussel.substack.com/ Twitter/X https://x.com/raquelita Instagram https://www.instagram.com/rachelkramerbussel/ TikTok  https://www.tiktok.com/@rachelkramerbussel Ruan's books & audiobooks http://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/ Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

23 Elo 202458min

Episode 499: Head in the Woods, Forest Magic, The Strangers Hookup, an erotica, erotic romance fiction short story for entertainment, erotic arts purposes, celebrating and enjoying sexuality, and relationships, plus taking self care time. Take it baby, it's yours! Make sure you come today!   The story in a nutshell: A common male fantasy of primal horny sex in the woods, complete with a surprise hookup with a female cock worshiping partner.  Logan gets his ultimate fantasy of bumping into a sexy stranger, Meredith, in the woods who is an athletic friendly woman who loves sex. He is elated when she comes on to him. She steps up her game even more when she drops to the forest floor for some sensual cock worshipping. All this hotness explodes before they both launch into juicy big O's from their spicy spontaneous union. How does this stranger meetup start? Meredith has spent the afternoon playing tennis and was walking home on the walking path. She spied something in the woods--someone moving in an odd way. She entered the forest with trepidation, but her curiosity propelled her on and came upon Logan. They met face to face and found each other intriguing. They decide to hike together. Things turn spicy when Meredith's libido erupts, and she gets bold. Ruan's books and audiobooks: http://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/ Wicked & Spicy Tales: Four short stories of erotic paranormal magic and erotic horror, eerie Twilight Zone-ish... not your typical Ruan Willow book as these stories are mystical, devious, and explore the darker side. These stories are not HEA, but instead are wicked and spicy. Audiobook: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/wickedandspicytalesaudiobook in Ebook and paperback: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/wickedandspicytales Hotwife book: An alternative lifestyle book of wife sharing called Servicing the Dryer Repairman, Laney Gives a Tip https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/servicingthedryerrepairman Podcast Merch! Wear Oh F*ck Yeah! Get Oh F*ck Yeah Podcast Merch T-shirts, tank tops, long sleeve shirts, mugs! Wear it sassy and hot! Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you. Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

20 Elo 202445min

Dr. Joel Pash, an expert in penile enlargement procedures, discusses his work at The Upsize Clinic using a more natural process using dermal fillers to safely and reversibly increase penis girth. He compares the growing acceptance of these procedures to breast augmentation for women. The fillers are made of hyaluronic acid and typically last around 2 years before needing a refill. Doctor Pash shares insights into patient motivations, comparing it to getting interested in getting more tattoos. He discussed relevance of augmentation in men's mental health, sexual health, and relationships. While not directly impacting sensation, the procedures can indirectly enhance sensation for patients and partners. He explains his journey into this field after initial skepticism. The speakers discuss treating porn stars and those interested in OnlyFans, describing the injection process and how it can address issues like Peyronie's disease. They emphasize that while surgical implants carry risks, injectable fillers are a safer option with easier treatment of complications. Various penis enlargement methods like injections, tissue expansion, and weight hanging are discussed, noting potential risks and the importance of consulting medical professionals. The use of procedures like Botox for treating erectile dysfunction in older men is also covered. We're never too old for sex! Dr. Pash shares amusing stories, highlighting the sometimes comical situations he encounters while emphasizing the typically routine nature of the procedure. Find out more http://www.upsizematters.com/ https://twitter.com/UpsizeClinic https://www.instagram.com/upsizeclinic/ https://www.tiktok.com/@upsizeclinic https://www.youtube.com/@upsizeclinic Key Lessons  The growing acceptance and safety of non-surgical procedures, such as dermal fillers, to increase penis girth. The use of Botox and other treatments for erectile dysfunction, even in older men. The importance of safety and consulting medical professionals before pursuing any enhancement procedures. What to watch out for and be aware of in hacks and enlargement procedures in penile enlargement. Get the education to be safe and mindful of your health. Get Dr. Pash's men's health tips on this topic. Ruan's books and audiobooks of erotica and erotic romance: http://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/ Wicked & Spicy Tales in ebook, paperback, and audiobook https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/wickedandspicytales On Spotify https://open.spotify.com/show/1GyEDeUbZc0hOnq4O7UDBg Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

16 Elo 202456min

Episode 494: Teasing Her Swollen Bean Erotic Fiction Short Story+Ruan Shares Secrets of Making Women Climax! Josie and Mason, a heterosexual couple who just moved in together, both had a long day & planned a fuck sex session, but Josie fell asleep before Mason got upstairs. When she wakes early, she's tempted to wake him for sex, but opts for playing with her clit sucker toy next to him in bed instead--because he's sleeping so peacefully. When he wakes to her moans, the flirty teasing sexy fun erupts as he enjoys teasing her clit with the toy. Her arousal peaks as they continue to flirt in bed, and their passion ignites! Mason knows just how to get her hot with clit teasing, and it launches her, and him into the juiciest satisfying satiating, and wonderfully gratifying mutual big giant O's! Her in the multiple! Then stay tuned in for after the story as Ruan shares how to make a woman climax, and how to make her cum using clit teasing! There are so many ways! Clit teasing is edging that intensifies female orgasms. These toys below are her favorites for such wonderful sexy times! Also learn why orgasming is your birthright! Ruan speaks out on sexuality, sexual health, & relationships! Sex toys for female pleasure: The Zumio sex toy talked about on the episode (affiliate links, podcaster might earn a commission on sales, thank you!):  https://shareasale.com/r.cfm?b=1558338&u=3101443&m=98393&urllink=&afftrack=  Clit Sucker Rose https://shareasale.com/r.cfm?b=2204307&u=3101443&m=65394&urllink=&afftrack= 2 in 1 Clit & G spot https://shareasale.com/r.cfm?b=1842951&u=3101443&m=114935&urllink=&afftrack= Ruan's erotica & erotic romance books: Wicked & Spicy, erotic horror fiction, paranormal magical fantasy fiction, sci fi, ebook, paperback, coming in audiobook! https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/wickedandspicytales Work Merger Work Threesome (on sale for $0.99 cents for a limited time)  Work Merger, An Interracial: The Doctor, the Nurse, and the Janitor Makes Three by Ruan Willow | 2940192595602 | Audiobook (Digital) | Barnes & Noble® (barnesandnoble.com) https://www.chirpbooks.com/audiobooks/work-merger-an-interracial-the-doctor-the-nurse-and-the-janitor-makes-three Work Merger, An Interracial: The Doctor, the Nurse, and the Janitor Makes Three | Audiobook on Spotify Ruan's books/audiobooks: http://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/ Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

13 Elo 202436min