Ep 153: Erotic Poetry about her 63 Lovers, and Counting, Karla Linn Merrifield Shares Her Sensual Writings

Ep 493: Unlocking the Secrets of Relationships to get more fulfilling ones with Todd Baratz.  Ruan Willow welcomes the renowned psychotherapist and sex therapist Todd Baratz. Todd's innovative approach to mental health, sexual health, and relationships has made him a leading figure in his field. He joins the podcast to discuss his new book, "How to Love Somebody Without Losing Your Mind: Forget the Fairy Tale and Get Real," which offers a nuanced portrait of relationships and love. (Get the book! affiliate book link, https://amzn.to/4fwLc7b commissions on sales through the link support this podcast, thank you!) Todd and Ruan dive into the complexities of romantic relationships, communication challenges, and the unrealistic societal expectations that often surround love, intimacy, and sex. We need a more realistic approach to relationships than the one our culture feeds us. Ruan and Todd explore how to navigate these challenges, emphasizing the importance of self-awareness, meaningful communication, and the willingness to work through discomfort for the sake of growth and connection. Whether you're looking to improve your current relationship, understand the dynamics of love better, or simply enjoy a thought-provoking conversation, this episode is packed with valuable insights and practical advice. Guest Bio: Todd Baratz is a renowned psychotherapist and sex therapist whose innovative approach to mental health and relationships has established him as a leading figure in his field. In addition to his clinical practice, Baratz is a prolific writer and speaker. His insights are regularly featured in various media outlets, where he discusses topics ranging from romantic relationships to individual mental wellness. He lives in New York City and Los Angeles. Learn more on Instagram under his handle YourDiagnonsense. Connect with Todd:  On Instagram as YourDiagnonsense https://www.instagram.com/yourdiagnonsense https://www.toddsbaratz.com/ Quotes from Todd: "Life is mindfuck at times, especially love and relationships." "No one is a good communicator because communication is a skill, especially when talking about our feelings." "The idea of a forever relationship is appealing, but the reality is relationships now are ending more than ever before." "Sex is a really big deal, especially at the beginning of a relationship." "Learning how to talk about sex is so important, even if it feels excruciatingly uncomfortable." "A relational ending is not a failure; it's a huge learning opportunity and the beginning of a new life." More from Podcast Host Ruan Willow: Get the podcast hosts erotic fiction/ erotic romance books and audiobooks to spice up your love life, your libido and sex life, and your personal intimacy: http://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/ Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

9 Elo 202427min

Ep 492: Hot Spontaneous Car Sex, They Couldn't Wait, an erotic audio, erotic fiction. This couple is hot for each other after their dinner date and their flirty banter raises their turn on level even higher, so much higher that they have to pull the car over for some sexy intimate fun! Enjoy this 2nd person POV narration, where as the listener of this erotic romance fiction narrative, this deliciously yummy erotica, you will experience the heights to ignite your passion for a personal and satisfying good time! Come on in...lend me your ear and let's get hot!  Written and narrated by author, narrator, and podcast host Ruan Willow Get Ruan's books and audiobooks: http://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/ Get Ruan's latest audiobook release Hot & Satisfying Quickies! https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/hotandsatisfyingquickiesaudiobook Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

7 Elo 202425min

Ep 491: Blow Job at the restaurant date night narrative, in second person. Immerse yourself in a sexy scenario where a BJ and an orgasm are on the menu! Nothing like orgasms as appetizers! Am I right? Sneaking beneath the tablecloth and getting half naked is not on the short order list, it's on the long agenda! Enjoy this saucy satisfying tale of a quickie oral sex treat, where orgasms abound for both! An erotic improv fictional narrative for self care and entertainment. Sexual health is important to mental health! Erotica straight from Ruan's brain in an impromptu on the spot free flowing narrative she created right off the top of her head! Be sure to marinate in your sexuality everyday! You own it, it belongs to you! Find more of Ruan's work on online book sellers, audiobook sellers, Spotify, Amazon, Audible, Barnes and Noble NOOK, Kobo, Walmart, Storytel, Apple, Google Play, Audiobooks.com, Libro FM, Smashwords, Chirp, and so much more! Find them at this link: http://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/ Try Audiobooks on Audible for FREE and get a FREE audiobook, Friends with Benefits (affiliate link, this podcast may receive a commission on signups. Thank you for the support!) https://www.audible.com/pd/B0D885WCH9/?source_code=AUDFPWS0223189MWT-BK-ACX0-404394&ref=acx_bty_BK_ACX0_404394_rh_us Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

6 Elo 202419min

Ep 490: Erotic Literature Featuring Powerful Women with Author John Stone. John Stone, an author of erotic novels, joined the podcast to discuss his writing process, storytelling, and the exploration of themes like powerful women, BDSM, femdom, and cuckolding. He drew parallels between these themes and classic literature, appreciating Ruan Willow's podcast and publisher Fanny Press for supporting erotic authors. Stone shared his motivation for incorporating explicit sexual content, noting that erotica readers often desire higher intensity. He discussed the process of getting his books published and distributed, emphasizing the importance of compelling stories centered on human relationships and conflicts. The conversation delved into Stone's foray into writing cuckold fiction, exploring the genre's appeal in its taboo and naughty nature. He discussed finding the right publisher for erotica and shared plans for upcoming projects, including a book featuring a couple exploring the cuckold lifestyle and a mystery novel about a retired detective investigating cuckold incidents. Stone highlighted the appeal of writing and reading erotic fantasies, particularly those involving workplace or taboo scenarios, while acknowledging the importance of creating engaging storylines and character development. He also shared his approach to writing sex scenes, aiming to build sexual tension and mystery rather than being overly graphic, except where warranted. The discussion touched on the challenges and creative process of writing fiction, including non-linear timelines, unexpected plot developments, and the importance of humor and levity, even in risque subject matter like BDSM. Key Lessons: John Stone, an author of erotic novels, explores themes of powerful women, complex relationships, BDSM, femdom, cuckolding, erotica, erotica romance, and sexuality in his writing. He notes that these themes have long been explored in classic literature, indicating that they are not as niche or taboo as they may seem. He expressed his appreciation for Ruan Willow's podcast and the publisher Fanny Press, which has published his work, suggesting a growing acceptance and interest in this genre. Books (affiliate links, commissions on sales may go to the podcast, thanks for supporting!): The Bull https://amzn.to/4fImSzl The Bulls https://amzn.to/3WQpQZZ Summary and audio processing by Cleanvoice ai Ruan's fiction books discussed in the episode: Spring Break and Stranded with Her Best Friend's Brothers Series Books 1 & 2 https://storyoriginapp.com/collections/d359d515-2209-4a19-baf4-b00b862b56ef Filthy Fiction Audiobook https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/dirtydaydreams Podcast host Ruan Willow's other books and audiobooks: http://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/ Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

2 Elo 20241h 4min

Episode 488: ASMR Reverse Cowgirl Ride, a relaxing self care sexual meditation experience, arousing all your senses and igniting your pleasure. Marinate in your sensuality and play liberally with your sexuality, you own it, no one else does but you. Take it baby, it's yours. Enjoy this mental exercise and entertainment for sexual health, mental health, and overall wellbeing because good sexual health is a part of good mental health. Paying attention to your own needs helps you then pay attention to your partner's needs. This enhances your relationships as well. The podcast host, Ruan Willow, is also an author, audiobook narrator/voiceover actress, and blogger. Get Ruan's sexy erotica fiction, erotic romance ebooks, paperbacks, and audiobooks: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/ Audiobooks: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/audiobooksnarratedbyruan You can also find her stories on Medium. Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

30 Heinä 202415min

Ep 487: Exploring Erotic Astrology with Stephanie Iris Weiss. Today, we have a special guest, Stephanie Iris Weiss, a certified clinical sexologist, sex coach, astrologer, book author, and writer. Stefanie's work has been featured in Teen Vogue, Elle, Allure, Marie Claire, Bustle, and many more. She joins us to discuss her upcoming book, 'Sex and Your Stars: A Sexologist's Guide to the Erotic Energy of the Zodiac', which dives into the intersection of astrology and sexuality. Watch the video version on my YouTube, where I'm showing my face! https://youtu.be/uP8QlyLPqgk In this episode, Stefanie shares insights into how astrology can reveal our deepest desires and sexual inclinations, helping us break through societal and cultural shame. She explains the concept of "erotic energy mapping" and how understanding our astrological charts can empower us to embrace our sexuality fully. Ruan and Stephanie also delve into the political and cultural forces that seek to control and suppress our sexual freedoms and bodies. They discuss the importance of rejecting shame and reclaiming our sexual power, emphasizing that our bodies and desires are our own. We all need to grab our right to empowerment, and really live it. This is how we fight oppression. Join us for a thought-provoking conversation that challenges the status quo and encourages you to explore and celebrate your sexuality in all its forms. Get the book: Amazon (affiliate link, commissions on sales may go to podcast, thank you for the support): https://amzn.to/3Wn5UNT Barnes & Noble: https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/sex-and-your-stars-stefanie-iris-weiss/1143848260 Website: https://stefanieirisweiss.com/ Breakdown: 00:01:32 The book explores how people experience shame based on their astrology sign 00:08:12 Podcasts like yours and people in our world, like, stop the people who want to erase... 00:09:41 How did you decide to write this book 00:14:54 The book combines sexology and astrology to help people understand the seasons 00:19:08 What do you wanna know about yourself as an Aries 00:22:13 Looking at the titles, the pleasure of rejecting shame 00:22:41 Black Moon Lilith is the first real feminist of the Zodiac 00:27:38 If someone's looking at your book and they feel intimidated, what would you say 00:29:12 So you do sexology stuff and astrology. What are some common questions people ask you 00:34:00 I talk about Pluto in Aquarius in the conclusion of the book 00:38:58 Both sexuality and astrology have been forced underground for centuries, right 00:45:12 Pluto returns to place where it was when America was born 00:47:34 You can preorder the new book on her website 00:49:03 Will you give people just a little spiel about what erotic mapping really means Summary made in assistance of headliner ai Get Ruan's NSFW erotica fiction books and audiobooks: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/ Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

27 Heinä 202452min

Ep 486: Cam Girl Unveiled: Ian Trutt's Award-Winning Show, watch it on YouTube and PodNation TV on Roku TV/Fire TV devices. Ian "El" Trutt a nonbinary Latine screenwriter, director, and professionally produced playwright originally from Atlanta, GA. They specialize in dark comedies and social commentary brought to life with sharp dialogue. Their work has been recognized by festivals like LA WEBFEST, Independent Shorts Awards, Miami Web Fest, IndieX Film Fest, Houston Comedy Film Festival, New York New Stories, and Los Angeles Lift-Off Film Festival. CAM GIRL is a dramedy web series about one woman's journey to pay her rent by becoming a webcam model. Season 1 is available now on YouTube. Synopsis: Laura is a self-proclaimed "generic white girl" whose financial struggles lead her to discover the seductive and complex world of webcam modeling. How hard can it be to sell your body online? Season 1: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLAwFZtFKqliZA8fhu1OiOjVGRS4e1zFvL&si=fbA6XhQ_4k598GGX Behind the Webcam: Ian Trutt's Journey with "Cam Girl". Join Ruan Willow as she welcomes back Ian Trutt, the creative mind behind the web series "Cam Girl." Dive into the latest updates since their last conversation, including the series' premiere, the challenges of distribution during the writer's strike, and the decision to stream the entire first season on YouTube. Ian shares the inspiration behind the series, the realities of writing about sexuality, the often-hidden truths of webcam modeling, and the balance between glamorization and victimization in portraying sex work. Discover the raw and authentic approach Ian and his team took to bring "Cam Girl" to life, the unexpected treasures found during filming, and the recognition the series has received, including an Audience Choice Award at the Miami Web Fest. Ian also teases the potential for a second season, the creative process, and the importance of passion and collaboration in their projects. Whether you're a fan of the series or new to Ian's work, this episode offers an insightful look into the world of indie filmmaking, storytelling, and the realities of online sex work. Don't miss out on this engaging conversation! Connect with Ian: http://iantrutt.com/ Quotes from Ian Trutt: "Sex work is always either this really glamorous thing... or it's... everyone involved in it is a victim." "I think we discovered a lot of rawness to it as we went into it." "I think there's something very just inherent about storytelling to me." "Being outdoors is great for mental health." "I don't do it for the awards, but I'm certainly not going to say no to awards." Quotes from Ruan: "People hate sex, apparently. I don't know." "If you're getting to do a thing that you're already interested in and you get money off of it, you know, more power to you, why not?" "If you want to do it, just do it. Don't sit back and be like, oh, it's not the right time." "Word of mouth is valuable, even though it might be, you know, kind of like a snail." Summary made in conjunction with headliner ai Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

26 Heinä 202457min

Episode 485, Season 4: Relax, Arouse, Climax, Ride the Guided ASMR Journey of Pleasure, An Empowering Self Care Session. Enjoy an arousing yet meditative Ruan-led tour of relaxation, arousal, fantasy options, and entertainment to help empower yourself to enjoy your own body. Enjoy soothing narration and sounds to help you use your own healing powers. Take in the gentle urging tips to embody and use your own restorative abilities that you can harness as you use your own natural abilities to orgasm. Bathe in the calm, flare in the excitement, and take it baby, it's yours. You own it, and whether you give it away or keep it for yourself, it's yours so you get to decide. Sexual health is a part of your mental health so don't ignore it, dwell in it and take all the time you need. Your body, mind, and soul will thank you for it. Baste in your own sensuality, soak up all your juicy thoughts to really live out the expansiveness of your own unique sexuality, be present with yourself for a restful meditation session that ends with you happy. Take the time. You deserve it. Give your brain and your body a health and fitness gift by devoting time to yourself to recharge. Get Ruan's NSFW erotica fiction books and audiobooks here: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/ FREE EROTICA FOR 3 DAYS ONLY! GET IT NOW HERE: https://storyoriginapp.com/to/ZZHWpqK Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

23 Heinä 202416min