How Childhood Trauma Shows Up in Your Sex Life

How Childhood Trauma Shows Up in Your Sex Life

EVERYONE who signs up wins a FREE WhisperVibe™ OR a FREE Rose toy with any Whisper™ order! https://www.bboutique.co/vibe/emilymorse-podcast Join the SmartSX Membership : https://sexwithemily.com/smartsx Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse. List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: https://sexwithemily.com/guides/ Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides. SHOP WITH EMILY!: https://bit.ly/3rNSNcZ (free shipping on orders over $99) Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website: https://sexwithemily.com/ In this Sex with Emily episode, Dr. Emily sits down with Violet Benson. Violet opens up about her intentional decision to step back from penetrative sex while working through attachment patterns that clouded her judgment in relationships. How do you know when sex is creating unhealthy emotional attachment versus genuine connection? Violet shares her realization that sleeping with someone too quickly led her to ignore red flags and chase unavailable partners who mirrored her childhood feelings of being "not enough." The conversation dives into Violet's egg freezing experience, including the intense hormonal and emotional effects that doctors failed to prepare her for. Violet takes Emily's Sex IQ quiz from the book Smart Sex, reflecting on how much her relationship with her body and pleasure has evolved. They tackle a listener question about pursuing someone with major red flags just for physical chemistry, with both hosts emphasizing the importance of honest self-reflection over justification. The episode explores embracing "clinginess" in dating, why vulnerability beats playing games, and how foreplay truly starts outside the bedroom. Throughout, Emily and Violet reinforce that understanding your patterns is the first step to breaking cycles that don't serve you. Timestamps: 0:00 - Intro 2:13 - Violet's dating hiatus 5:42 - Turning fears into boundaries 8:37 - Understanding attachment styles and childhood trauma in relationships 11:43 - Egg freezing experience 16:17 - Managing mental health during hormonal changes 21:00 - Sex IQ Quiz 26:31 - Listener question: Detaching emotions from physical intimacy 30:30 - Why being vulnerable beats playing games 35:41 - Why people are having less sex and connection 38:15 - Top 3 tips for authentic dating and better relationships 40:42 - Rapid-fire questions: Turn-ons, turn-offs, and relationship advice

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SWE- How to get some

SWE- How to get some

Emily talks with pickup artist Brad P about how to approach women at a coffee shop... and end up doing it in the Starbucks bathroom. Brad P breaks down the biggest mistakes men make while hitting on women and how to have an edge over all those other "nice guys." Don't just ask her where she's from or what she does for a living. Here's what you should say if you really want to get some.  Special offer for Sex with Emily listeners: free book reveals how to approach hot women, open up a conversation and create instant attraction. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

8 Helmi 20131h 3min

SWE- Single or Taken?

SWE- Single or Taken?

A podcast on why it's great to be single or taken on Valentine's Day. It's a perfect night to go out and meet someone or stay in and have sex with someone you love. In case you're wondering, you definitely count as someone you love. Self-love is one of the most rewarding things in the world. Emily shares her best and worst V-day experiences, and what made them special or subpar. Her best V-day was in the third grade when her classmate gave her cash in her Valentine. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

4 Helmi 201325min

SWE- How to Screw

SWE- How to Screw

Tips and topics include: Cloning your willy, crooked penises, Christ for Kegels, the oral sex "chin trick," and the oral sex "screw trick." Emily goes on to teach people how to function during sex. Stare lovingly into your partner's eyes without looking psychotic, have loud, ravenous sex whenever possible, and remember to breathe (yes, people forget). Emily also explains what to do if someone stops functioning during sex. People have a better chance of having a heart attack during sex than most other activities. At least they'll die happily on top of you. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

30 Tammi 201341min

SWE- What Works & What Doesn't

SWE- What Works & What Doesn't

A show on breast play, friends with benefits, dirty talk, and threesomes-- when they work and when they don't. Emily answers listener's questions: How long should you make out before going for the breasts? How long can you play with her breasts before it gets creepy? Do friends with benefits ever work? How do I talk dirty without offending her? And last but not least, can I have a threesome without completely destroying my relationship? Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

28 Tammi 201319min

SWE- Porn Star Guest Conner Habib

SWE- Porn Star Guest Conner Habib

ay Adult Film Star, lecturer, and writer Conner Habib talks about making gay porn and how it's changed the way he thinks about sex. Habib talks about how porn has made him less superficial about choosing mates. Once you have sex with all the conventionally attractive macho men, you start to realize who you're really attractive to.He also talks about how being good at sex is not the the same as being good at porn (although he assures Emily he's pretty good at sex too). Habib reveals the most searched porn term on the Internet and why straight women love gay porn so much. He also gives oral sex tips for performing on a man. After all, a gay porn star is going to know fellatio better than anyone else. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

25 Tammi 201333min

SWE: Guest Dan Abrams

SWE: Guest Dan Abrams

Emily discusses why women are simply better than men with television host, legal analyst, and best-selling author Dan Abrams. Abram uses research to invalidate sexist cliches about the differences between men and women in his book, Man Down: Proof Beyond a Reasonable Doubt That Women Are Better Cops, Drivers, Gamblers, Spies, World Leaders, Beer Tasters, Hedge Fund Managers, and Just About Everything Else. Emily corroborates Abrams findings while her co-host Menace is skeptical, wondering if Abrams just wrote the book to get laid. But Emily doesn't think Abrams needs to write a book celebrating women to do well with the ladies (she used to date Abrams herself). Contrary to popular opinion, Abrams argues why women are better at driving and making decisions. Men on the other hand are better at parking and getting hit by lightening. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

23 Tammi 201341min

SWE: Random Acts of Sex

SWE: Random Acts of Sex

Random acts of sex are a great way to brighten you and your partner's day. Emily presents a random mix of sex tips for men, including oral sex humming, side-to-side hip movements, and how to french kiss. She also tells men how to impress women without the help of their penis. Emily also answers listeners questions about hand jobs, asking someone out, and morning sex. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

21 Tammi 201342min

SWE: Why You're Bad in Bed

SWE: Why You're Bad in Bed

You’re not bad in bed because you don't have a huge penis that lasts forever. You’re bad in bed because-- you forget about foreplay, you don't know how to go down on them, you don’t go down on them enough, you have sex like a jackrabbit, you aren't thinking about their pleasure, or you're so scared of doing something wrong that you don't do anything at all. Listening to this podcast will make you great in bed. Or at least better than before. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

18 Tammi 201322min

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