How Childhood Trauma Shows Up in Your Sex Life

How Childhood Trauma Shows Up in Your Sex Life

EVERYONE who signs up wins a FREE WhisperVibe™ OR a FREE Rose toy with any Whisper™ order! https://www.bboutique.co/vibe/emilymorse-podcast Join the SmartSX Membership : https://sexwithemily.com/smartsx Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse. List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: https://sexwithemily.com/guides/ Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides. SHOP WITH EMILY!: https://bit.ly/3rNSNcZ (free shipping on orders over $99) Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website: https://sexwithemily.com/ In this Sex with Emily episode, Dr. Emily sits down with Violet Benson. Violet opens up about her intentional decision to step back from penetrative sex while working through attachment patterns that clouded her judgment in relationships. How do you know when sex is creating unhealthy emotional attachment versus genuine connection? Violet shares her realization that sleeping with someone too quickly led her to ignore red flags and chase unavailable partners who mirrored her childhood feelings of being "not enough." The conversation dives into Violet's egg freezing experience, including the intense hormonal and emotional effects that doctors failed to prepare her for. Violet takes Emily's Sex IQ quiz from the book Smart Sex, reflecting on how much her relationship with her body and pleasure has evolved. They tackle a listener question about pursuing someone with major red flags just for physical chemistry, with both hosts emphasizing the importance of honest self-reflection over justification. The episode explores embracing "clinginess" in dating, why vulnerability beats playing games, and how foreplay truly starts outside the bedroom. Throughout, Emily and Violet reinforce that understanding your patterns is the first step to breaking cycles that don't serve you. Timestamps: 0:00 - Intro 2:13 - Violet's dating hiatus 5:42 - Turning fears into boundaries 8:37 - Understanding attachment styles and childhood trauma in relationships 11:43 - Egg freezing experience 16:17 - Managing mental health during hormonal changes 21:00 - Sex IQ Quiz 26:31 - Listener question: Detaching emotions from physical intimacy 30:30 - Why being vulnerable beats playing games 35:41 - Why people are having less sex and connection 38:15 - Top 3 tips for authentic dating and better relationships 40:42 - Rapid-fire questions: Turn-ons, turn-offs, and relationship advice

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SWE: Phone Sex

SWE: Phone Sex

How to have great phone sex, from foreplay sexting to an orgasmic phone call finish. Emily personally demonstrates how to “sex up” your voice. Emily and her co-host Menace discuss how often men and women talk about who they’re sleeping with, and when you should stop telling everyone you know the intimate details of your sex life. Emily ends the show with a lesson on Kegels-- how to do your sexercises and why they will make you better in bed. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

17 Tammi 201344min

SWE: Clitoris & Compliments

SWE: Clitoris & Compliments

Emily gives tips for going down on her and tips for stimulating the clitoris during sex, because she wants women to have glorious, multiple orgasms. Emily describes how to do the "V finger technique" and discusses how to share your fantasies (even the really embarrassing ones). Emily and her sidekick Menace end the show with a heated debate on how often men should compliment women. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

14 Tammi 201323min

SWE: Ask for what you want in bed

SWE: Ask for what you want in bed

If your 2013 hasn't been full of mind-blowing sex and amazing relationships, this show help get you there. Emily discusses how to change your sex life in 2013 with powerful vibrators, sexercise, more foreplay, and lots more oral sex. Emily confesses what she wants to change about her sex life, and explains how to tell your partner exactly what you want in bed. Emily also talks sex trends in 2012 and answers listeners emails about irrational pregnancy fears, dating shy guys, and dealing with really big penises. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

7 Tammi 201344min

SWE: Guest Fernando and Greg

SWE: Guest Fernando and Greg

Greg Sherrell from Fernando and Greg in the Morning discusses gay dating in San Francisco. Greg reflects on growing up gay, from hiding his porn to telling his butch brother he prefers men. He also explains his shock at finding out his Dad's ex-wife was the lesbian soft ball coach. Greg breaks down dating, from the gym locker room to the club. Emily and Greg also talk about the differences between gay sex and straight sex, the Grindr obsession, amateur porn, double penetration, and orgasming without touching your penis. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

3 Tammi 201353min

SWE: Cockfidence

SWE: Cockfidence

Sex and relationship therapists Celeste Hirschman and Danielle Harel, authors of Cockfidence: The Extraordinary Lover's Guide To Being The Man You Want To Be And Driving Women Wild divulge the most crucial factors influencing sex in relationships as special guests in this episode. Emily and the women discuss passion, "faking it," and romantic encounters. Plus, how men can get more connected with selves. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

27 Joulu 201232min

SWE: Single for the Holidays

SWE: Single for the Holidays

Emily is your survival guide to being single for the holidays. How to embrace being single and why you should making a dating and/or relationship resolution for the New Years, like dating and sleeping with people you actually like. Happy holidays one and all! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

23 Joulu 201228min

SWE: Sex Facts

SWE: Sex Facts

Put on your spandex pants because Emily’s talking about sexercises and all the facts you need to know about sex. Emily reveals a new trend involving geography, sex, and smell. Then she gets into a slew of other topics, including: cheating, premarital sex, swinging, Kegels, oral sex, loss of desire, and Emily’s favorite phrase “Jack Rabbit Sex.” Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

20 Joulu 201244min

SWE: How To Gift A Vibrator

SWE: How To Gift A Vibrator

Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

20 Joulu 20121h 3min

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