Jay & Radhi Answer Questions About Productivity Hacks, Using Your Energy Effectively, and How to Have Positive Self-Talk
This episode is brought to you by BMW, and the most requested guest is back again - Jay's wife, Radhi Devlukia! Jay and Radhi swap lives for a day in the all electric BMW ix. In this episode, Jay and Radhi take a road trip to the grocery store, where she challenges Jay to complete a grocery store run, where he is tasked to find the right ingredients for their favorite recipe, without her help. There’s never a dull moment when Jay and Radhi are together - from their on-the-road Q&A, to their grocery store outing (especially when Jay still couldn’t tell the difference between coriander and parsley) - they continue to provide laughs, insights, and meaningful wisdom. Tag along on this ride and join the challenges of modern day dating and find out who’s the most stubborn one between the two. What We Discuss: 00:00 Intro 00:18 Jay’s Stuffed Pepper Recipe in Radhi’s Cookbook 02:03 If We Are in Carpool Karaoke 02:44 Difference Between Drivers in LA and London 03:42 What Does it Mean to Be A Backseat Driver in Life? 05:35 The Three People You Will Go on a Drive With 08:43 Who Usually Leave the Car Lights On? 09:52 Who’s Most Likely to Get Car Sick? 10:29 Would You Need Maps to Navigate Between Places? 11:02 Why Doesn’t Radhi Reply to Messages Right Away? 12:57 First Line to Say When You Meet in a Party 14:11 What’s Your Screen Time? 15:10 Do You Have an Ick About Me? 16:33 It’s Time to Buy Groceries! 22:35 How Does It Feel When Someone Cook For You? 23:56 How Do You Manage to Stay Productive Everyday? 28:03 What Kind of a Party Person Are You? 31:05 Living Conditions in Refugee Camps in the Old Days 31:59 Leaving an Impact in the Community Your Serve 37:02 Spending Time with Family in an Indian Wedding To learn more about the all electric BMW iX head here https://bit.ly/jayshettyxbmwix See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
8 Maalis 202438min
Dr. Ramani: 2 Signs You are Being Love Bombed & 8 Ways to Know If You are Dealing with a Narcissist
Why do we fall victim to love bombing?Why do we attract narcissists?Dr. Ramani is back with eye-opening and science-based insights on narcissism. Dr. Ramani is a licensed clinical psychologist, Professor Emerita of Psychology at California State University Los Angeles, and the Founder and CEO of LUNA Education, Training & Consulting. Dr. Ramani discusses the difference between narcissism versus narcissistic personality disorder. She dives into the signs of love bombing and how to stop attracting narcissists. Dr. Ramani also talks about the practical strategies for safeguarding yourself from attracting narcissistic personalities into your life and how to spot the red flags and establish healthy boundaries. Join us in understanding the complexities of narcissism, how to foster resilience, establish boundaries, and reclaim yourself.With Love and Gratitude,Jay ShettyWhat We Discuss:00:00 Intro01:09 Narcissism Versus Narcissistic Personality Disorder05:41 Why Narcissistic People Make History09:28 How to Not Attract a Narcissist11:27 A Narcissistic Person is Like a Volcano14:38 Love Bombing is Winning You Over with Attunement15:24 From Love Bombing to What Went Wrong 18:11 Empaths Get Stuck in Trauma-Bonded Relationships21:45 The Impact of Narcissistic Abuse25:29 Can You Disengage from a Narcissistic Partner?26:36 Repeat Perpetrators Harm the Forgiver28:21 You Can Empathize and Not Forgive30:42 What is Radical Acceptance?32:39 Flexibility in Our Psyche35:20 Grief is the Most Human Experience38:06 How to Recreate Your Own Subjective Focus44:13 How to Pull Yourself from any Form of Gaslighting48:58 Can a Narcissist Ever Heal?53:38 Is Change Possible?Episode Resources:Dr. Ramani | Website Dr. Ramani | InstagramDr. Ramani | YouTubeDr. Ramani | TikTokIt's Not You: Identifying and Healing from Narcissistic PeopleSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
4 Maalis 202459min
4 Signs You Care Too Much About What People Think & How To Stop Worrying About People’s Opinions
Do you find yourself thinking too much about other people’s opinions? Is it starting to feel like it’s negatively affecting your life? Today, Jay unveils the subtle yet pervasive signs that indicate a deep-seated concern for others' opinions and the telltale signs that you may be overly influenced by external validation, from struggling to assert boundaries to outsourcing your decision-making to others. Jay Also talks about actionable tips and strategies for reclaiming your sense of self-worth and how to draw inspiration from those who have walked a similar path before you, cultivating resilience and self-assurance in the face of external judgment. Explore the transformative power of reframing your self-perception and embracing a mindset of self-acceptance, as Jay emphasizes the importance of clarity and self-awareness in navigating life's challenges. In this episode, you'll learn: How to not crave external validation How to stop people-pleasing How to not get swayed by other people’s opinions How to stand your ground Gain practical tools for cultivating inner strength and confidence, from reframing negative self-talk to recognizing the inherent value of your own opinions and choices. With Love and Gratitude, Jay Shetty What We Discuss: 00:00 Intro 02:11 Stop Caring About What People Think 04:10 Sign #1: You Get Easily Swayed 05:36 Sign #2: You Struggle to Say NO 06:18 Sign #3: We Often Want to Please Others 06:40 Sign #4: You Outsource Your Choices 09:22 Tip #1: Someone Has Been Through a Similar Experience Before You 17:00 Tip #2: Don’t Be Someone Who Gossips About Others 18:52 Tip #3: Be Clear About How You Feel About Yourself 21:06 Tip #4: Opinions Don’t Become Your Reality 22:19 Tip #5: Think of the Three Best Decisions You’ve Made in Your Life 24:20 Tip #6: People Are Not Thinking About As Much As You Think They AreSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
1 Maalis 202427min
Radhi Devlukia: #1 Reason You Are Tired After Lunch & The Simple Change You Can Make to Avoid the 3 PM Slump
Do you tend to feel tired after eating? Do you want to learn simple changes to stay energized and avoid the 3 PM slump? On this special episode of On Purpose, My wife Radhi joins us! Radhi is a clinical dietician, nutritionist, and always learning to cook. Radhi brings a modern approach to the ancient principles of holistic wellbeing and earned her Ayurvedic Health Counselor 1 degree at the California College of Ayurveda. Radhi's first ever book called JoyFull: Cook Effortlessly, Eat Freely, Live Radiantly is out right now. In this episode, Radhi teaches how to nourish our body in a way that's truly individual to you. Plus, pick up some practical tips for making sustainable changes in your diet and embracing the method of Ayurveda for balance and well-being. Further into the episode, Radhi touches on the three modes of Ayurveda and how they influence our eating habits, intuitive eating practices that honor your body's signals, and the valuable insights to optimize digestion and transform your relationship with food. In this interview, you'll learn: How to change your diet How food affects your mood The right way to eat proteins How to create positive daily routines How to change your mindset about food Get ready to savor each moment, embrace mindful eating, and cultivate a deeper connection with your body and soul. With Love and Gratitude, Jay Shetty What We Discuss: 00:00 Intro 04:17 Recipes Inspired by Family and Love for Food 07:09 The Individual nature of Healing Your Body 12:01 How to Make Sustainable Changes in Your Body 14:52 The Three Modes in Ayurveda 20:08 Your Body Deteriorates when You Stop Listening to the Body Cues 23:40 Eat Until Satisfied, Not Stuffed 28:35 Why You Need to CHew Your Food Properly 32:50 Avoid Cold Drinks and Iced Beverages 35:38 Does Skipping Meals Work? 38:31 On a Busy Day, How Can You Slow Down? 41:41 Overeating Proteins Harm the Body 45:02 How to Change Your Relationship with Food 51:18 The Value of Spices 55:58 What is Your Morning Routine? 58:03 How to Not Feel Lethargic After Lunch 01:00:57 Best Practices for Evening Routines 01:05:24 The Recipe Game 01:11:28 What is Your Hope for People? Episode Resources: Radhi Devlukia | Website Radhi Devlukia | Instagram Radhi Devlukia | YouTube Radhi Devlukia | Facebook Radhi Devlukia | TikTok JoyFull: Cook Effortlessly, Eat Freely, Live RadiantlySee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
26 Helmi 20241h 14min
2 Ways Your 'Icks' Are Ruining Your Dating Life & #1 Way to Date Better with Jared Freid and Jordana Abraham
How do your 'icks' affect your dating life? And what's the ultimate key to better dating? Today, Jay is sharing the conversation he had with Jared Freid and Jordana Abraham where he was being interviewed in their podcast, U Up?. The U Up? is a definitive modern dating podcast where they discuss their take on the ebbs and flows of the crazy dating world we live in. Jay talks about a wide array of topics including the challenges of booking guests for new podcasts, the importance of preparing for important interviews, and his unique approach to every show, offering listeners a diverse and enriching experience with each episode. The conversation takes on a serious note when Jay talks about his take expressing anger, dealing with insecurities, and navigating the complexities of modern dating. Gain valuable insights into mindfulness practices and learn how to focus on the wins while amplifying the abundance of life. In this interview, you'll learn: How to deal with insecurities How to become a better partner How to change your mindset about dating Truth be told, dating remains one of the challenging hurdles we go through in life but it is also one of the most rewarding when we find the right person to spend our life with. With Love and Gratitude, Jay Shetty What We Discuss: 00:00 Intro 02:43 Calming Positive Influence to Others 03:29 The Competitive Aspect of Drinking Games 05:26 The Difficulty of Booking Guests for New Podcasts 07:05 Preparing for Important Guests 08:54 Every Show Has a Unique Offering 11:27 How Do You Express Anger and Hate? 13:57 Did You Ever Felt Wrongfully Targeted? 16:41 Did You Ever Block Anyone? 19:58 What are the Biggest Mistakes About Dating Today? 25:44 What’s Your Go-To First Date Activity? 27:16 Working in the Same Industry with Your Partner 28:52 How Practicing Mindfulness Changes Your Mindset 31:07 How Do You Deal with Insecurities? 36:18 Focus on the Wins and Amplify the Abundance of Life 38:26 Two Things I Look Forward To 39:29 What’s Your Travel Pet Peeve?See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
23 Helmi 202441min
Ed Mylett: #1 Habit to Become an Expert at Time and Energy Management
What's the top habit for mastering time and energy? How can we make this habit our own for better time and energy management? Today, Jay welcomes back his good friend Ed Mylett. Ed is a highly successful entrepreneur who has blended his unique experiences with a diverse set of practical strategies that have made him one of the most sought-after inspirational speakers in the world today. He is a serial entrepreneur who has enjoyed considerable success in part through his unrivaled work ethic and ability to fire up people with his dynamic, high-octane presentations. Over the years, he has been involved in several tech, real estate, medical, and food ventures, among many others, leading him to be named a Success Magazine SUCCESS 125 most influential leader in 2022. Have you ever stopped to ponder what lies within the depths of your being? Jay and Ed dive into the depths of self-discovery, from uncovering subconscious anchors to making courageous choices, discover the keys to unlocking your full potential and living a life of purpose. The duo explores the power of intention and action in validating your path, and learn how to navigate the challenges of speaking truth with kindness and compassion. Gain insights into overcoming obstacles, embracing change, and cultivating resilience on the path to success, and reflect on the concept of time and its malleability, and discover the rhythms of success that shape our lives. In this interview, you'll learn: How to maximize your time How to not get tied to the past How to speak your truth How to achieve success How to change the trajectory of your life Tune in to this enlightening conversation with Jay and Ed as they share wisdom, inspiration, and practical guidance to help you navigate the journey of self-discovery and personal growth. With Love and Gratitude, Jay Shetty What We Discuss: 00:00 Intro 02:37 What Have You Been Working Inside? 05:56 In Life, We Move Towards What We’re Familiar With 06:58 How Do We Stop Creating Stress and Chaos? 09:12 The Subconscious Anchors That We’re not Using 12:50 Doing the Most Courageous Choices in Life 15:31 You Are Always Making People Feel Something 19:53 What Do You Do with the Weeds in Your Life? 21:07 You Validate Your Intention with Your Action 26:28 How to Speak Truth to People in a Kind Way? 32:54 You Are Born to Do Something Great with Your Life 40:15 Can You Bend and Manipulate Time? 46:11 Why You Aren’t in the Rhythm of Success 51:57 The Things that Got You Where You Are Won’t Get You Where You’re Going 55:34 Your Identity is the Thermostat Setting of Your Life 01:01:28 The Danger of Tying Your Identity to What You Do 01:04:16 The Three D’s that Will Lead to Burnout Episode Resources: Ed Mylett | Website Ed Mylett | Instagram Ed Mylett | Twitter Ed Mylett | YouTube Ed Mylett | Facebook Ed Mylett | TikTok Ed Mylett | BooksSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
19 Helmi 20241h 9min
3 Ways to Build Inner Confidence & Learn to Trust Yourself Instead of Comparing Yourself to Others
How do we build our inner confidence? And how can we stop pretending that we’re okay even if we aren’t? In a world where we're constantly comparing ourselves to others, Jay reminds us of the importance of embracing our unique qualities and building inner confidence. We'll dive into the dangers of comparing our relationships to others and how it can affect our self-esteem. And find out why nurturing inner confidence is key for personal growth and happiness. Jay also shares practical tips for boosting confidence, like embracing our quirks, celebrating our strengths, and shifting from seeking validation from others to validating ourselves. In this episode, you’ll learn: How to build self confidence How to boost your own strengths How to focus more on self-validation Together, let's learn the actionable ways and and empowering wisdom to help you embrace your uniqueness and cultivate unshakable confidence from the inside out. With Love and Gratitude, Jay Shetty What We Discuss: 00:00 Intro 02:45 Getting Lost in Comparison to Other People’s Relationships 05:13 Why We Need to Build on Our Inner Confidence 08:35 Confidence is the Belief That You Matter 12:47 #1: Being Okay with Liking Things That Others Don’t 17:19 #2: Start Noticing Your Own Strengths 18:20 #3: Giving Self-Validation Versus Needing External Validation 24:05 Your Hero is Your Future SelfSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
16 Helmi 202428min
Gabor Maté: Why Your Trauma is Showing Up as Guilt, Fear, and Shame & How to Untrap Yourself from the Past
Why does trauma manifest as guilt and shame? How do we untrap ourselves from the past? Today, we welcome back renowned speaker on addiction, stress, and childhood development, Dr. Gabor Maté. They dive into the core of human identity and explore the delicate balance between being yourself and seeking acceptance, discovering the liberating truth that authenticity is the ultimate path to self-discovery. Gain insights into the complexities of the human emotional landscape and learn how to navigate and process fear, a powerful force that often holds us captive. Gabor talks about the top five regrets of dying people - a profound insight that serve as a compass, guiding us to live a life aligned with our deepest values and aspirations. He also talks about the intricacies of guilt and shares wisdom on how we can untrap ourselves from it, the universality of pain and trauma, the synergy between logic and creativity in problem-solving. In this interview, you'll learn: How to live with fear and anxiety How to deal with deep-rooted trauma How to handle grief and pain How to improve your personal growth Together, let's explore the infinite possibilities that unfold when we awaken to our true potential and embrace a mindset of continuous growth. With Love and Gratitude, Jay Shetty What We Discuss: 00:00 Intro 03:56 How Do You Heal a Broken Man? 07:34 Tell Me Who You Are 11:33 The Small Still Voice Within Us 13:19 Be Yourself or Be Accepted But not Both at the Same Time 17:10 What Are the Most Common Emotions We Feel Everyday? 20:26 How Can We Process and Heal From Fear 28:11 How Can You Help Someone Who Refused to Be Helped? 31:06 The Top Five Regrets of Dying People 36:09 How Do We Untrap Ourselves From Guilt? 43:03 There’s No Path Without Pain, So Choose Which Path to Take 46:53 Embrace Your Freedom Responsibly 48:46 There’s No Hierarchy in Pain and Trauma 51:07 What is Integrative Thinking? 59:27 The Book “Blessed with a Brain Tumor” 01:02:00 Can I Continue to Grow? 01:04:15 How Do Emotions Translate to Physical Reality? 01:13:13 If We Could Just Wake Up to Our Possibilities Episode Resources: Dr. Gabor Maté | Website Dr. Gabor Maté | Instagram Dr. Gabor Maté | Twitter Dr. Gabor Maté | YouTube Dr. Gabor Maté | Facebook The Myth of Normal: Trauma, Illness, and Healing in a Toxic Culture See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
12 Helmi 20241h 13min
