167. A Deep Dive Into Burned Haystack Dating Method w/ Dr. Jennie Young

167. A Deep Dive Into Burned Haystack Dating Method w/ Dr. Jennie Young

In this episode, you'll learn why so many dating app profiles start to look and sound the same and what that means on a deeper level (It's deeper than you think). I’m joined by Dr. Jennie Young, a writer, English professor, and creator of Burned Haystack Dating Method. BHDM is a framework for understanding the patterns and formulas people use in their bios (usually without even realizing it). We talk about why these patterns show up, how they shape your experience swiping, and how to create a dating app profile that actually stands out without trying so hard. At the end, we analyze some profiles and messages together to identify rhetorical patterns. This episode is going to change how you look at dating app profiles!


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299. How to Stay Open When You’re Fed Up With Dating w/ Serena Kerrigan

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298. 7 Dating Mistakes That Make Finding a Relationship Take Longer

298. 7 Dating Mistakes That Make Finding a Relationship Take Longer

Feel like you're done wasting time on the wrong connections? I get it! In this episode, I'm breaking down seven of the most common mistakes I see people make in early dating, from dating someone's pot...

15 Syys 28min

297. Hidden Ways Low Self-Worth Shows Up in Dating (And How to Change It) w/ Dr. Marisa G. Franco

297. Hidden Ways Low Self-Worth Shows Up in Dating (And How to Change It) w/ Dr. Marisa G. Franco

How much is your self-worth affecting the way you date? In this episode, I’m talking with psychologist and author Dr. Marisa G. Franco about how our past experiences can shape what we believe we deser...

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296. How to Spot (and Break) the Dating Patterns Keeping You Stuck

296. How to Spot (and Break) the Dating Patterns Keeping You Stuck

There's a reason you keep dating the same people in different fonts: it's your dating patterns.In this episode, I'm sharing the three patterns I discovered while tracking my own dating life, how they ...

8 Syys 29min

295. How to Give Someone a Chance Without Settling w/ Jordanne Sculler

295. How to Give Someone a Chance Without Settling w/ Jordanne Sculler

How do you stay open-minded in dating without settling for less than what you want? And what happens when someone treats you well, checks a lot of the important boxes, but something still feels… off?I...

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294. 5 Tiny Habits That Will Transform Your Dating Life

294. 5 Tiny Habits That Will Transform Your Dating Life

In this episode, I'm sharing 5 tiny habits that can help you get better dating results, feel more confident and in control, and make dating a little more enjoyable. We’ll talk about how to make decisi...

1 Syys 30min

293. Why What Happens After The Date Matters Most (First Date Vibe Check)

293. Why What Happens After The Date Matters Most (First Date Vibe Check)

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292. Getting Back Into Dating? How to Start Without Losing Your Mind (Throwback)

292. Getting Back Into Dating? How to Start Without Losing Your Mind (Throwback)

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