Thank you for listening to our BDSM kink podcast
As we close out 2023, your hosts of this BDSM kink podcast wish you and yours happy holidays and a wonderful kinky New Year!Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika thank YOU, wonderful listeners, for your support, questions, laughter, and, yes, pervy thoughts during this year.There are some last-minute questions to answer, and listeners get questions as well.Favorite guests include:Max Carey from the documentary tOuch kinkKate Lister the Sex HistorianAlice Little and Olivia Bentley from the Nevada Brothel systemKaytlin Bailey, Standup comedian former escort and sex worker advoacte with oldprosonline.orgMistress Mia Darque, from DomCon New Orleans and being a Black DominatrixMistress Rogue, owner of a Florida Femdom dungeonTopics from this year include:Questions about feminization, being a sissy maid and finding a Dominant woman or Mistress owner.Sissy training questions and ideas for dressing en femme on the down lowCustomer service in the adult industryChastity with Mrs. Mature MetalAnd moreThank you all for your support this year, and here’s to a bangin’ (literally and figuratively) New Year!
25 Joulu 202335min
Do you need breastforms? All about boobs for a sissy, crossdresser or trans woman.
Listener questions inspire today’s episode about breast forms. Mistress Erika points out that femme girls often spend lots of time and money trying to find the perfect breast forms. There is literally no “one size fits all” when choosing your femme look. Each individual has unique needs. This episode has some things to consider when choosing breast inserts.First, of course, there has to be a conversation about weird sex statistics. Did you know 11% of women name their boobs? That compares to three out of four men who name their penis.Back to boobs - The overall question to consider first is: What do you want to FEEL like IN your breast forms? This will help you begin to think about size, shape, feel, material, etc.Many crossdressers don’t want to spend a ton of money of breasts until they know what they want. These Femdoms love helping male to female transformations on a budget and have specific DIY tips for boobs on a budget before spending money on more permanent boobs.Styles of breasts:Inserts, aka chicken cutletsFull breast inserts into bra cups or stick on your skinBreast platesIf you’re not able to go in person for a bra fitting, the ladies give simple directions for figuring out your own bra band size. From there, you can begin to think about breast size, shape, and other considerations.This episode will help any crossdresser, sissy or transwoman begin to pick out the perfect breastforms.Ms Olivia’s blog: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/Ms Erika’s blog: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/The Breastform Store: https://thebreastformstore.com/The Boobs Shop: https://boobsshop.com/Glamour Boutique: https://www.glamourboutique.com/breast-formsJanet’s Closet: https://janetscloset.com/janets-breast-forms/
18 Joulu 202328min
Are you curious about the private life of your Femdom Mistress?
The co-hosts of this BDSM kink podcast answer questions about their private lives.What is a typical day like for an online Femdom Mistress?What prompts Mistress Erika to say, “A day without masturbation is like a day without sunshine?" This leads to a conversation about how to masturbate with a chastity cage on, getting a blow job while locked up, and other devious techniques that are perfect for humiliation and mindfucking.Shout out to Mature Metal Chastity Cages for their design, value, and amazing customer service. https://maturemetal.com/A sub who is a bit of a smart aleck asks Ms Olivia about her latex catsuit. Among the laughter, there is also a serious answer about how to clean fetish latex outfits and BDSM gear.Another playmate asks if we ever have such a hot session that we masturbate while thinking about it.How much planning goes into a BDSM or feminization session? Ms Erika talks about the variety of types of calls we get - sometimes phone sex or GFE, sometimes a specific fetish like the Giantess tiny man fantasy, all the way to more traditional BDSM, domination, cuckolding, or cock control calls. Mistress Olivia adds her thoughts on BDSM scene negotiations and pre-call session planning.DownUnder Subby asks: Is there much conversation amongst Mistresses about callers?This question is a perfect opportunity for the ladies to talk about client privacy, 2 Mistress sessions, sharing playmates, and more. Ms Olivia talks about email packages for 2 Mistress sissy training and feminization where everyone is in the same email.A sissy girl asks about ways the Mistresses get pumped up for domination sessions.Another subby is curious about what we do for a daily work routine.Speaking of routines, someone asks about exercise routines and staying fit.Lots of people want to know: What does a Mistress do for fun or just to fill up the downtime (when away from out Domination antics)? The question comes from our new friend Aborigen who is a size fantasy writer (Giantess and tiny man stories).Zheightgeist podcast: https://zheightgeist.com/Lots of laughs, personal stories, some serious thoughts, and a wish for you as 2023 ends and 2024 begins.Mistress Olivia: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/Mistress Erika: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/
11 Joulu 202337min
Femdom Dungeon owner, Mistress Rogue, answers your questions about going to a Pro Domme
Are you curious about going to a Pro Domme? How do you approach a Dominatrix? What do you say and how do you interact with a Mistress?Have you ever wondered why a Mistress would open her own Femdom play space? What’s it like to set up and run a BDSM kink dungeon? Your Femdom hosts get answers to these questions and so much more as they talk with Mistress Rogue, owner of The Dom House in Florida.What does the general public get wrong about sex work and sex workers?Why is it important that these Femdoms dispel myths about being Pro Dommes?Other topics include:** The social stigma around sex and sex work.** The stigma from the non-pro BDSM kink community towards those who get paid for Domination skills and services** The differences between a full service provider like an escort and a Dominatrix.** Whether having sex with a submissive makes the Femdom less dominant.Since our guest is the HeadMistress and owner of the Dom House we (and listeners) want to know:** How did you decide to open a BDSM Dungeon?** How much BDSM furniture and kink toys do you need to have a full Dungeon?** What is your favorite piece of kink furniture?** How do you handle privacy for clients and discretion about your neighbors?Do’s and don’ts of contacting a Pro Domme** DO be vulnerable and open to the woman in charge** DO read the website before contacting so you don’t ask questions about things you can easily find out if you read her website.** DO be respectful in your communication** Have patience; don’t get upset if you don’t get an immediate answer.** Don’t send a wall of text in all caps, tons of unpaid emails or act entitled. ** DO be prepared to talk with your Domme when she asks: what is your safe word, what are your boundaries, do you want me to push your boundaries, what’s your goal, how do you want to feel, and more.This episode is a peek behind the scenes of the lives of these Femdoms. Enjoy!
4 Joulu 202331min
Do you have this common worry about your sissy or femme style? Miss Fiona joins us.
Miss Fiiona gets a question from one of her callers. The ladies love the question, and that inspires today’s episode.The listener wants our thoughts on sissy or femme style and what is (or is not) considered feminine.What a great question! This sparks a conversation about self-image, gender roles, gender presentation, and so much more.What is the right look for a crossdresser, sissy or submissive transwoman?Why are skirts, heels and frills considered traditionally feminine?Who gets to decide what the right look is for someone who is being transformed from male to female? Do crossdressers or sissies worry about not looking a certain way?Does a sissy feel compelled to conform to the sissy style seen in porn or feminization memes?How does someone present themselves to the world as feminine even when not conforming to traditional girly fashion?Ms Erika has some tips on how to think about self-image when you are a crossdresser, sissy, or transwoman.Ms Olivia points out that as someone becomes more feminine in their feminization journey, they often end up with some of the same self-image worries as cis-gender women have. Miss Fiona points out that not all cis women think alike, so it’s important that anyone who is dressing en femme knows that part of the feminization journey is to develop your own style that works for you. Among the laughter and fun is a thoughtful conversation about image, societal roles, and how to find your community of choice that supports who you are.PS. You’ll also find out some stuff you probably never knew about each lady. Hint: did you know Ms Erika loves powerwashing? Don’t judge! Okay, the ladies did all laugh about that one.Miss Fiona: https://mistressoffantasy.com/Ms Erika: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/Ms Olivia: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/
27 Marras 202333min
The World is Ending, Let’s Get Kinky with Mistress Rogue
Elite Dominatrix and Dungeon owner Mistress Rogue is today’s guest.Ms Olivia and Ms Erika have a great time talking with this fascinating Florida Femdom and kinky Mistress. There are lots of personal stories about being a real human person who is also a Femdom Mistress.Each Mistress has a unique path. Mistress Rogue shares about her BDSM kink journey:** getting introduced to BDSM** the journey from submissive to Dominant** the importance of mentoring in the BDSM kink communityThe relationship between a Mistress and her submissive can be intense and powerful. This BDSM kink podcast episode has insights into:** How a Femdom creates a kink or power exchange scene** The importance of a Domme being able to read her submissive in a session** BDSM scene negotiation before the scene** Sub drop and Domme dropMistress Rogue brings up the importance of boundaries, rules, safe words, medical conditions, and triggers. Ms Olivia points out that these are the types of questions that an experienced Mistress will ask.The ladies talk about scenes that were challenging or confusing at first. For example, Mistress Rogue mentions her initial fear of sounding and how she learned to love it. This leads to a conversation about erotic humiliation, intense edge play, and the unique transformative experiences that BDSM sessions can facilitate.Mistress Olivia recommends abook called Radical Estacy by Janet Hardy and Dossie Easton All three discuss the preconceived ideas about a Dominatrix - that to be a Femdom means you need to be a mean Mistress with a stern or angry demeanor. They talk about stereotypes of what a Dominant is and how the Domme should or should not behave. Mistress Rogue: MistressRogueFL @ gmail.comhttps://mistressrogue.com/Mistress Olivia: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/Mistress Erika: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/
20 Marras 202334min
Mistress, am I still a sissy if I don’t want to suck cock?
Your Femdom hosts love to get questions from listeners. This episode is inspired by Sissy A who writes, ““I love feminine things, panties stockings bras but I don’t want to suck cock, am I still a sissy?”What a great question!Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika explore the variations and nuances of sissy training, behavior and styles of play for feminization transformation.Some of the topics:** sissy porn is great for humiliation, coerced bi, sissy cuckold husband, etc. but porn depictions of kink, BDSM and sissy play are always exaggerated. Your mileage may (and will) vary.** different ways in which a sissy can be submissive** sometimes feminization can bring up cock curious desires where the sissy is coerced into having sex with a man or men.** emasculation where the male traits are eroded or eliminated when being sissified** the role of humiliation in BDSM, feminization and sissification** the importance of vulnerability when in a safe space** gender and erotic desires** chastity and the pussy free for life sissy** types of sissies** traditional wife, sissy maid, and moreAll this and more in this week’s episode.If you have a question, comment or show suggestion - get in touch!Ms Olivia: olivia @ enchantrixempire.comMs Eriks: erika @ enchantrixempire.comMs Olivia’s blog: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/Ms Erika’s blog: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/
13 Marras 202334min
Do you like to be Naked And Exposed? CFNM with Ms Scarlet
The Scarlet Mistress joins the ladies to talk about CFNM.CFNM stands for clothed female naked male. There are so many ways to go with this type of fetish scene as you can hear in this episode.Miss Scarlet mentions BDSM parties run by Dominant Females. Each Femdom brings her male submissive with the understanding that all the men at the party will be required to be naked.What happens at CFNM parties and what kinds of CFNM games are there to do? Ms Scarlet brings up the human monopoly board, where the play pieces are naked men. Of course, this cracks up Ms Erika and Ms Olivia. Listen to the ladies talk about the spots on the board where naked men are required to do pushups, jumping jacks, hula hoop, dance, and more activities … including a penis measuring station!Penis measuring makes Ms Olivia think of sph and erotic humiliation. Is humiliation always part of CFNM play? This leads to a conversation about power exchange scenarios that might (or might not) involve humiliation but all involve submission to the Dominant Woman.Each lady talks about her favorite CFNM scenes:** CFNM strip poker ** MILF roleplay, where the mature woman tricks the younger man into taking off his clothes for her.** Trapped and tricked until he is naked and exposed—like being tricked into being a nude model at an art class.Of course, there’s lots of laughter, teasing, and creative idea cross-pollination. Do YOU have a favorite CFNM scene, or did you hear one that you want to experience?Miss Scarlet: https://www.thescarletmistress.com/Ms Erika: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/Mistress Olivia: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/
6 Marras 202335min
