When Someone You Love Is Kinky: Love, Fear, and the Power of Acceptance with Janet Hardy

Miss Fiona joins Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika to take part in what’s called the largest sexual personality survey ever done.Yep, you read that right. Pornhub and the Museum of Sex partnered with academic researchers on a project to create a sexual personality test on Pornhub!Since the ladies are often cruising around Pornhub, we, of course, had to take the survey to find out our sexual personalities. This leads to a conversation about all kinds of things.For example:** the Explorer vs Bonder scale measures your preferred type of romantic bond. Find out where Ms Erika lands.** the Physical vs Mental scale shows that Mistress Olivia is more stimulated by mental imagery, foreplay, erotica, and the anticipation of sex than the typical person. Little wonder why phone sex is the perfect career!** Miss Fiona found out that she prioritizes her orgasm more than she realized, or more than she admitted to herself.The sex survey is the starting point for a conversation about intimacy, erotic pleasure, Femdom control, polyamory, and so much more.Sex Survey: https://www.pornhub.com/sextypemeMs Fiona: https://mistressoffantasy.com/Ms Erika: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/\Ms Olivia: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/

30 Loka 202331min

Ms Brighton joins the ladies to talk about cuckold fantasies. Did you know that one survey found that 2 out of 3 men have some kind of cuckold desires? That doesn’t really surprise these Femdom Mistresses but the same study showed that one-third of the participating women had thought about cuckolding. What makes this such a powerful fantasy?Mistress Olivia says she’s surprised that more women aren’t into the hot wife or cuckold lifestyle.Ms Brighton points out that a number of women are interested in this as a cuckoldress or a cuckqueen. What is a cuckqueen? That’s a woman who gets sexual pleasure when her male partner has sex with other women.Ms Brighton has a theory that cuckolding has always been popular, but it is more popular these days because guys grow up watching porn. They want to have the experience of watching (and maybe participating).Each Mistress talks about some of their favorite cuckold scenes. Ms Brighton brings up cuckolding a man with her (a woman) being the “bull” with the man’s wife or girlfriend! Ms Brighton is the Domme to both the woman and her partner. Ms Erika’s loves scenes with the “uninvolved cuckold” meaning he’s not involved in the cuckold relationship other than to know that it exists. He might be in chastity while his hot wife sends texts and photos about her hot date.Ms Olivia talks about being back home with her cuckold, giving him a sensual handjob with a loose grip while talking about being pleasured by the big, fat cock from her lover.All three ladies talk about cuckolding in their private lives.Other topics include:Is cuckolding about revenge or humiliation?Does a cuckold always have a small penis?Can this be a tender, loving gift from her husband because he knows she deserves great sex?What makes a cuckold scene memorable?How does cuckolding work with a Distance Domination Mistress?How does each lady make the scene even more intense?All this and so much more, including a request to hear from you about being a cuckold in fantasy or reality.Ms Brighton’s cuckold blog: https://thecuckoldlife.com/Ms Brighton’s main blog: https://enchantrixtease.com/Ms Olivia: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/Ms Erika: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/

23 Loka 202339min

The ladies continue the conversation with Kaytlin Bailey, a globally recognized leader in the sex worker rights movement. She is the creator of the non-profit 501c3 Old Pros - a media organization set up to create the conditions to change the status of sex workers in society.This episode includes personal stories to illustrate various points, for example:Where did the term sex work come from and why is it used?What are sex worker rights?Why should the rights of sex workers matter to you?Who is sex worker? Why is that term used as an umbrella term?What are some political changes that currently make in-person consensual sex work more dangerous?Learn about the gap between what legislators say they want to do and how laws actually affect people.How does current legislation effect legal sex workers, the BDSM / kink community, and LGBTQ people?What can you do to help support the ladies you know, adore and cherish?Kaytlin is the creator and host of The Oldest Profession podcast. This podcast is designed to use storytelling to shift beliefs and break down taboos about consensual sex work. The Oldest Profession podcast is now in season 5 and reclaims the history of individual sex workers by showing who we are as entrepreneurs, rebels, visionaries and community builders.This episode takes you inside some of the things we, as sex workers, talk about, work for and want for our community - not just for adult content creators, providers and kinksters but also for clients.Kaytlin Bailey: https://oldprosonline.org/Sign up for the newsletter!! https://kaytlinbailey.com/Decriminilize Sex Work: https://decriminalizesex.work/Mistress Olivia: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/Mistress Erika: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/

16 Loka 202338min

We want you to check out another podcast. It’s called The Oldest Profession podcast. Host and creator Kaytlin Bailey joins Ms Olivia and Ms Erika.This episode includes a candid conversation about whorephobia, slut shaming, sex work advocacy and life as sex workers.Kaytlin Bailey talks about being drawn to “bad girls” from an early age and then learning about the power of courtesans throughout history. She tells us about becoming a sex worker by choice and from a place of privelege as a way to explore to find her own truth about sex, boundaries, and erotic experiences.Insights into the connection between body autonomy, the ability to negotiate consent and sex work are examples from history and her own life.The ladies talk about the difference between a lover and a client. All three agree that clients often treat us better than some past lovers in terms of respect, kindness and value of the time spent together. This leads to a conversation about the spectrum of choice, circumstance and coercion for those who become sex workers. In the Nevada brothel system there is a push to call ladies courtesans instead of escorts. That discussion leads to a conversation about names that includes the use of the term sugar baby or sugar babies.Kaytlin is also a standup comic. She talks about the historical similarities between court jesters and courtesans. She turned her experiences into a critically acclaimed one woman show called Cuntagious. She is working on the second show called A Whore’s Eye View.Kaytlin Bailey: https://oldprosonline.org/about/ https://whoreseyeview.com/Mistress Olivia: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/Mistress Erika: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/PS: When Kaytlin talked about the link between the military and sacred whores, Ms Olivia tired to explain about seeing a production that used ancient plays to shed light on current issues. She didn’t remember the name but looked it up later. Check the the Theater of War: https://theaterofwar.com/projects

9 Loka 202327min

October is a special month for Femdoms and chastity lovers everywhere. Why? Because it’s LOCKTOBER - named for a challenge to spend the entire month locked in chastity.Ms Harper is today’s guest. All three ladies encourage chastity for the right pet or submissive.They are quick to point out that each person in chastity is unique and the style, duration and play depends on the Mistress, the chastity pet and the relationship with the two of them.This episode is inspired by a sissy who is considering chastity to demonstrate a commitment to the sissy lifestyle but needs support, motivation, guidance and encouragement. Ms Harper brings up great points about sissy identity and the role of a strong woman in behavior modification from psychological reprogramming.This episode includes:** What is the role of chastity in feminization? ** How does a chastity cage enhance sissy training?** What is a sissygasm and how does that work while in chastity?** Why does a sissy Mistress use emasculation as a way of asserting her dominance?** How does humiliation enchance sissy play? The ladies discuss chastity as a way to coerce, enhance or deepend feminine feelings. If you’re curious about how a strong woman uses orgasm delay and denial to turn ‘him’ into a sissy then this episode is for you!Mistress Olivia: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/Mistress Erika: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/Mistress Harper: https://www.fetishphonesexblog.com/

2 Loka 202329min

Meet Coralyn Jewel - co-author of, When the Ice Melts: The story of Coralyn Jewel. This fascinating woman shares her journey from Olympic hopeful to thriving in the adult industry. The ladies have a conversation about the misconceptions around anything that has to do with the adult industry, sex work, BDSM, kink or sex in general.Coralyn talks about her path of self discovery from the discipline of elite figure skating to making her way into and then in the adult industry as a career. Ms Olivia asks about the Swingers Lifestle. Coralyn is an expert in the do’s and don’ts of the lifestyle, etiquette in swingers clubs and how to find out if you and your partner are ready to explore this fantasy in person. She has run hundreds of swingers lifestle events so this is the perfect person to hear about a bunch of insider info.Find out:** Misconceptions about the swingers lifestyle.** Different types of people who are involved in the swingers community.** Is a swingers party only for couples?** Is it possible to go to a swingers club solo** The difference between a cuckold and a swinger** How is consent handled in this kink scene** How to communicate with your partner before, during and after a sex party.** What is the difference between a full swap or a soft swap** How to find an event and what to ask before you goCoralyn also has a podcast called Embrace Your Sexuality. The ladies talk about why it’s important to have real conversations about sex, sexuality and what individuals really need and want for their erotic pleasure.Coralyn Jewel: https://www.thecoralynjewel.com/Embrace your sexuality podcast with Coralyn Jewel: https://www.embraceyoursexuality.net/Mistress Olivia: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/Mistress Erika: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/

25 Syys 202335min

Olivia Bentley is today’s guest. You’ll hear why she prefers to be called a courtesan rather than an escort. She mentions the societal status of courtesans in ancient times. This leads to a discussion of power, independence and the role of erotic companions as power brokers in their own right. Miss Bentley is a fascinating woman:*15 years in the adult industry. * A Masters in Education. * An executive at an investment company* Competitive fitness model. She talks about her decision to become a local escort and then her move to the Bunny Ranch in the Nevada Brothel system. This origin story is one of creativity, triumph over adversity and a candid conversation about the stereotypes around paying for sex.The ladies talk about financial independence and the freedom to live full lives that comes from having a career in the adult industry. In the words of Olivia Bentley: “It’s a game changer to go pro hoe.” While that comment makes all the ladies laugh, there is truth to this.Other topics include:STD testing and the porn industryHow Only Fans has changed the adult industry by giving content creators control BDSM, kink, fetish and erotic humiliationAnd how her love of lifting weights is opening a new niche - muscle worship! Find out about this kink and why it’s so popular.Olivia Bentley: https://olivia-bentley.com/Olivia Bentley’s Only Fans page: https://onlyfans.com/liv.bMs Erika’s personal blog: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/Mistress Olivia’s personal blog: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/

18 Syys 202340min

A listener question inspires today’s episode. Do you need a Mistress to train you for sissy sex?Sure, you can learn and do a lot from cruising the internet, watching porn and experimenting on your own. But, don’t you want more? Don’t you want to have the advice, support, guidance, and/or control of a Dominant woman? Who better to guide you in your sissy training?You’ll hear why these Femdoms say a sissy does’t necessairly want to be a women, but rather they want to emulate a female stereotype, an idealized woman.Ms Erika points out that experiencing sex in sissy mode means experiencing sex like a woman, ie being penetrated.Sissy training goals should include learning how to focus on erogenous zones that don’t include the penis (renamed the clitty). Ms Olivia makes the case that a credit card should be considered an erogenous for anyone who loves shopping for lingerie.Ms Olivia brings up how sissy training can be used to emasculate a man and remove those last traces of his so called masculinity. Sissy chastity training can be very effective in reminding the sissy who is in charge. Hint, it’s never the sissy.The ladies discuss whether every sissy needs to serve or service a man. Sometimes a Mistress will keep her sissy as her personal playmate, other times Mistress will insist that sissy learned to suck cock or take a cock in her sissy pussy.Ms Erika brings up strapon training for sissies. Ms Olivia brings up the previous podcast How to Give a Blow Job as an example of some training tips for cocksuckers.Ms Olivia's blog: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/Ms Erika's blog: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/

11 Syys 202330min