What I Changed To Stop Chasing Constant Reassurance
We're talking about the loop today. The one where you keep checking: "Are we good?" "Do you still like me?" "Is everything okay?" And even when they reassure you… it doesn’t stick. In this episode, we...
21 Huhti 18min
How to stop getting anxiously triggered in your safe relationship
You know they’re a good partner. They text back. They show up. They follow through. And yet… you’re still spiraling. 😅 You’re analyzing tone. Second-guessing everything. White-knuckling your way ...
15 Huhti 20min
3 Things I Did to Face My Biggest Relationship Trigger (That Most People Skip)
3 Things I Did to Face My Biggest Relationship Anxiety Triggers (That Most People Skip) If you’ve ever felt terrified that they might leave… If a delayed text ruins your whole day… If you logically kn...
7 Huhti 21min
You’re Self Aware So Why Are You Still Triggered?
You’ve done the work. Read the books. Listened to the podcasts. Saved the reels. You know your triggers… and yet somehow, you’re still getting activated. 😅 So what gives? In this episode, we’re talki...
31 Maalis 15min
What To Do When You Start Spiraling in Your Relationship
If you’ve ever caught yourself rereading texts, overanalyzing tone, imagining worst-case scenarios, or feeling your chest tighten because something feels off... this episode is for you. In this episod...
25 Maalis 17min
Why Working Harder Isn’t Changing Your Anxious Attachment
Let’s talk about something that feels productive… but is actually keeping you stuck: working harder in your relationship. You know what I mean. You’ve got the notes app open in bed. You’re rewriting t...
17 Maalis 15min
What Secure Love Actually Feels Like
Today’s episode is a really special one because I’m joined by my dear friend and former client, Alyssa, and we’re talking about something that so many women with anxious attachment quietly wonder: Wha...
10 Maalis 28min
Are You Overthinking… Or Self-Sabotaging Your Relationship
Welcome back to the Be That Healing Girl Podcast! Today we’re talking about something I see constantly with my clients...and honestly something I know very well from my own life too: the overthinking ...
4 Maalis 16min
