
#164 The Children in the Room: Navigating Divorce and Betrayal Without Breaking Your Kids with Katie Padilla, Certified Family Law Specialist
When a marriage is in crisis, the conversation almost always centers on the couple. But what about the children sitting in the middle of it?In this episode, certified family law specialist and founder...
18 Kesä 40min

#163 Control Isn't Safety: Understanding the Parent-Child Dynamic After Betrayal
If you've been checking your partner's location for the fifth time in an hour - or waiting for your spouse to hand you a roadmap to your own recovery - this episode is for you.The parent-child dynamic...
11 Kesä 21min

#162 When ADHD Meets Betrayal Trauma: Understanding Recovery for the Whole Family System with Monifa Ellis-Addie, LMFT, CSAT, CCSP and Morgan Ellsworth, LAMFT, CCSP
What happens when ADHD and betrayal trauma collide in the same family? This episode is one of the most important conversations we've had on the podcast — and it's one that doesn't get talked about eno...
4 Kesä 40min

#161 Why Can’t We Connect Deeper? Exploring the Hidden Struggles of Connection After Betrayal
One of the most confusing parts of healing after betrayal is that couples can do “all the right things” and still feel emotionally disconnected.In this episode of Choosing to Stay After Infidelity and...
28 Touko 22min

#160 When Your Body Decides the Relationship Is No Longer Safe" Understanding the Nervous System Trauma Loop in Betrayal Recovery
Have you ever wondered why you and your partner keep having the same painful conversations — even when you both want things to be different? The answer might be in what your body has decided about the...
21 Touko 22min

***BONUS EPISODE*** You’re Invited: Becoming Together Mother-Daughter Retreat with my daughters, Mataia and Morgan
What does it look like when a mother and daughter do the healing work together? In this special episode, I'm joined by my daughters to pull back the curtain on the Becoming Together Mother-Daughter Re...
19 Touko 38min

#159 Why Every Conversation Feels So Hard After Betrayal
After infidelity or betrayal, even simple conversations can feel loaded, tense, or unsafe.You may feel like:You’re trying to connect… but it keeps going wrongYour partner misunderstands youEvery conve...
14 Touko 15min

#158 What Actually Changes When Healing Is Happening
After betrayal, one of the most common questions couples ask is: “How do we know if we’re actually healing?” Are we moving forward… or just surviving? Is this real progress… or just a calm before anot...
7 Touko 22min



















