Why I Hold Back in Bed
As women, we’re constantly monitoring ourselves: on dates, in relationships, and in bed. This episode explores self-surveillance in dating and sex, why transactional intimacy can feel safer than roman...
28 Tammi 44min
Women Who Love Too Much (You Were Never Too Much)
A deeply personal and cultural deep dive into why women are taught to believe they love too much and why that was never true. From heartbreak and sensitivity to situationships, ghosting, and emotional...
18 Tammi 1h 13min
Let’s Talk About Kinks
Let’s talk about kinks. About desire and shame. About power, safety, and what it means to feel truly seen by someone. In this episode, I share what I’m learning about wanting, boundaries, trust, and i...
9 Tammi 38min
Fuck Her Till She Falls In Love
“Fuck her till she falls in love” is a phrase that gets thrown around casually as a joke, a warning, or a dismissal.This episode takes that cliché apart.Instead of framing women’s attachment after int...
1 Tammi 24min
The Nervous System
In this episode, I talk about endings that don’t happen on your terms, how women are conditioned to cling to the “good guy” in dating culture even when he doesn’t fulfill all their desires, and the ne...
22 Joulu 202526min
Good People Exist (Leave Ur Situationship)
Situationships suck. Good people exist. Clarity is care. Endings are okay. And I broke my foot yesterday.
16 Joulu 202515min
Why Women Are Difficult
Modern dating feels tense because women and men are responding to completely different realities.This episode unpacks that divide - the patterns women grow up noticing, the stakes we carry into adulth...
11 Joulu 202528min
Can You Love Without Losing Yourself?
I lost myself in my ex. Everything he did or didn’t do determined how I felt, who I was, and how I showed up. And now that I’ve started dating again, I’ve realized how scared I am of slipping back int...
1 Joulu 202517min
