The Mind Of an Abusive Person When You Finally Stop Caring
The ultimate threat to an abusive or controlling person isn't your anger—it's your indifference. As long as you are angry, you are still emotionally invested in the struggle. But the moment you stop c...
22 Touko 23min
She Busted Her Military Husband Cheating With an Influencer!
He should be kicked out of the military for cheating on his stay at home mom spouse. BUt she isn't going to press the charges against him because it would effect her life and her kid's lives in a nega...
20 Touko 8min
He Wouldn't Leave An Abusive Relationship, So I Cut Him Off!
One of the hardest lessons in life is learning that you cannot save someone who isn't ready to leave an abusive situation. Long before I started speaking online about toxic relationship dynamics, I ha...
19 Touko 14min
The Mind Of An Abusive Person When You Cut Them Off For GOOD!
Cutting off communication with a toxic or abusive person is one of the hardest decisions you will ever make, but it is the only way to reclaim your stability. When you choose to go completely NO CONTA...
18 Touko 29min
Going Back Into An Abusive Relationship! Why It Always Gets Worse...Not Better
Have you ever gone back to an abusive relationship only to find that the behavior became significantly worse almost instantly? There is a specific logic behind why this happens, and it has nothing to ...
17 Touko 19min
Why An Abuser Withholds Compliments on Purpose
Have you ever noticed that the more you achieve, the less your partner or family member seems to notice? High-conflict personalities often withhold compliments and validation as a calculated move to k...
16 Touko 29min
The Real Reason Abusive People Love To Trigger You!
Have you ever felt like you were being pushed to your absolute breaking point, only for the other person to remain perfectly calm once you finally snapped? This is called "Reactive Abuse," and it is a...
15 Touko 19min
Why You Might Feel Guilty After Leaving an abuser
Do you feel like you’ve "abandoned" them? Are you struggling with the feeling that you’re the "bad guy" for choosing your own mental health? You’re caught in the Empathy Trap.From the inside out, I’m ...
14 Touko 12min
