226. 8 "Red Flags" That Are Normal in Long-Term Relationships

226. 8 "Red Flags" That Are Normal in Long-Term Relationships

In this episode, I'm breaking down 8 things that seem like red flags but are actually just part of being with someone for a while, like feeling bored sometimes, not being "in love" every single day, having doubts, disagreeing about money, and yes, occasionally thinking about an ex. I'm sharing where the line is between normal and actually problematic, plus what Johnny and I have experienced along the way. At the end, I tackle a dating dilemma about whether needing to tell your partner how to show up for you is a sign to move on.

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52. Dating after divorce with Sade Curry (@sadecurry)

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51. Settling vs. acceptance in dating and relationships

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48. Navigating your needs when you're anxiously attached w/ Rikki Cloos (@anxiousheartsguide)

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47. How to deal with a "bad" kisser (and other kissing tips)

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46.Take your flirting to the next level w/ Benjamin Camras (@benjamincamras)

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