#108: Think All Gay Men Want an Open Relationship?

You’ve probably heard it — “All gay men are in open relationships.” But what if that stereotype isn’t just inaccurate, but harmful? In this episode, we’re breaking down the deeply held myths around monogamy in the Gay community: where they come from, why they persist, and how they affect the way we date, connect, and build lasting love.This video is for every Gay or Bi man who’s ever felt like an outsider for wanting one partner, been told they’re boring for wanting intimacy, or felt pressure to conform to hookup culture when their heart wanted something deeper. Monogamy isn't outdated — it's often misunderstood.We're challenging the false hierarchy between non-monogamy and monogamy, exploring internalized stigma, emotional authenticity, and how to build the kind of relationship that actually honors who you are — not just what’s trending.This isn’t about shaming non-monogamy. It’s about choice, truth, and dismantling the subtle shame around wanting something that feels secure, loving, and true to you.---What You’ll Learn in This Episode:→ Why the stereotype “all gay men are in open relationships” is rooted in bias, not fact→ The real data behind monogamy vs. non-monogamy in the gay community→ Why wanting a committed partner doesn’t make you boring or “heteronormative”→ The emotional and historical roots of these myths→ How to reclaim your relationship desires without shame→ A mindset shift that empowers you to date authentically---Timestamps:00:00 – Intro: Why this myth needs to be unpacked01:24 - All Gay Men Are in Open Relationships04:21 - Wanting Monogamy Makes You Boring, Non-Adventurous, or Heteronormative05:28 - Question for You to Answer07:16 - Non-Monogamy Isn't Just an Option, It's Evolution