262. "I feel like my picker is broken." live coaching session

262. "I feel like my picker is broken." live coaching session

This one's for you if dating has started to feel like a hamster wheel of painful experiences… and you keep thinking: I've done so much work on myself—why is this still so hard?

In this live session, I coach Quinn through:

  • the loop of type vs. essence-based preferences
  • the fear of being "too much" in dating
  • what to do when uncertainty triggers a full-body spiral
  • how to tell if your "picker is broken"… or if you've been trained to assume you're the problem
  • self-compassion as a real tool (not a pep talk) to re-regulate and come back home to yourself
  • how to update your EBPs so you're not dating someone you have to parent or beg for affection
  • community + dating after a big move

By the end, Quinn says it perfectly: this session felt like closing a bunch of tabs in her brain and finally having the system run again.

If you've ever been in the mindset of "it's fate or it's me," I want you to hear this.

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