474 - "How can I know if sneakiarchy is happening in my relationship?"
This week we're tackling a question about sneaky hierarchy, aka sneakiarchy. We're talking about how to recognize it in future relationships, how to recognize when you might be creating it by accident...
26 Apr 202422min
473 - Love Languages Might Be Bullsh*t
Today we're talking about love languages, and taking a critical look at them to discuss whether or not they're actually as important as we make them out to be. We're going to go over some of the key a...
23 Apr 202454min
472 - "Is it possible to get ahead of couples' privilege?"
This week's Q&A episode is discussing couples' privilege and how to be cognizant of when it may affect interactions with other potential partners. If you want to submit a question to be answered on on...
19 Apr 202424min
471 - Possessiveness Might Help Your Non-Monogamous Relationship
Today, we're talking about feeling possessive over a partner, the psychology and science behind it, and how even when non-monogamous, possessive feelings can still arise and create challenges for us. ...
16 Apr 202459min
470 - "I want foreplay to start at breakfast."
This week's question from our Patreon supporters is discussing initiating sex, foreplay, and mismatched communications. If you want to submit a question to be answered on one of the extra Q&A episodes...
12 Apr 202421min
469 - Discomfort is Good For You
Nobody LIKES feeling uncomfortable...but today we're going to be looking at a few ways we sometimes avoid discomfort that may be making the problem worse instead of better. We're taking a good hard lo...
9 Apr 20241h 2min
468 - "I want to fix our desire mismatch, but my partner doesn't."- Listener Q&A
This week's question for our Q&A episode is addressing mismatched desire during busy, long-term partnered life and being stuck in "practical mode." If you want to submit a question to be answered on o...
5 Apr 202417min
467 - "You're gonna need therapy until you die" - A Conversation with TherapyJeff
Today we're joined by Jeff Guenther, also known online as TherapyJeff! Jeff has joined us to talk about what he does, therapy, non-monogamy, and much more!Jeff Guenther, aka TherapyJeff, is, according...
2 Apr 20241h 1min
