Suppressing Your Fantasies Is Counter Productive: We Are Wired To Be Attracted To Others - with Paris | E24

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What if the fantasy you've been hiding is the exact thing your relationship needs?

Most of us treat our desires like secrets — something to protect our partner from.

Today we are joined by Paris, a longtime tantric practitioner and facilitator who went from completely frigid to living out every fantasy she's ever had. She is one of Will and Chiara's main teachers.

In this episode we discuss:

🩶 why suppressing your fantasies makes them more obsessive, not less

🩶 how jealousy can turn into compersion (the opposite feeling to jealousy) — and what it takes to get there

🩶 the orgasm myths that's keeping millions of men and women from the best sex of their lives

🩶 tantric practices to expand genitals sensitivity and presence

🩶 how you transform your relationship when you start sharing out loud your desires

🩶 why men exploring their feminine side might be the sexiest thing you've ever witnessed (and how to get started)

🩶 the 21-day challenge that rewires how your body experiences pleasure

Sharing and going after your desires doesn't damage a relationship. It deepens it. Listen to this incredible episode to know how.

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TIME STAMPS

02:57 It's Time To Normalise Fantasies

03:42 Free Fantasies Live Workshop Invitation

04:41 Do You Know Where The Man's G-spot is?

05:47 Why It's Important To Live Out Your Fantasies

07:50 Serving vs. Taking

09:10 We Are Wired To Be Attracted To Others!

10:29 Jealousy vs. Compersion

11:05 Deal With Your Childhood Issues First!

11:57 Jealousy Is About YOU, Not Them

12:20 Jealousy Is Often FOMO

14:24 Try This   Biohack For Porn Addiction

16:53 How To Stop Your Sexual Obsessions

18:11 Why Suppressing Your Sexuality Is Counter Productive

20:24 Find A Tantric Community Near You...

21:26 ...Or Get Really Good At Communicating

24:28 Let's Normalise Sexual Language

25:26 Embrace The Slut Within You (for men and women)

26:54 How To Experience More Pleasure ( Debunking Orgasm Myths)

29:07 How To Improve Your Sex Life

34:17 The 21 Day Challenge

35:06 The Allowing vs. Forcing Principle

37:51 Exploring Fantasies As A Doorway To Deeper Connection And Trust

44:47 Bi-curiosity And Shame

46:46 Threesomes As Doorways To Brotherhood

48:29 Our Top Tips For Today

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For more info, visit www.deeperlovers.com

Paris & The New Tantra school: https://thenewtantra.com/

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