We said "I love you" to other people | Why "don't catch feelings" is bad advice | What happens when you let love in | E29

We were taught that catching feelings for others was a bad idea.

We have been doing the exact opposite, and our relationship only got stronger – not to mention the incredible sex between us...

Today we talk about Love and how you can experience its deepest and purest form – whether you’re monogamous or not.

We discuss:

• why "don't catch feelings" is a rule worth questioning
• the difference between fucking and making love, and why you want to flow through both
• how jealousy gets smaller every time you face it
• why chasing your partner for sex doesn’t work (and what to do instead)

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CHAPTERS:

02:42 Rule n. 1: Don't catch feelings - true or false?

04:02 Fucking, making love, and why you want both

07:30 You can have love without a relationship (and a relationship without love)

08:39 You're never in love with the person per se

12:33 Stop trying to convince them to have more sex

13:29 10 prompts for deeper conversations with your partner

18:43 Every test you pass takes one fear off the list

22:12 Why chasing women makes them run away - and what you should do instead

29:25 You can love someone and still go months without speaking

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You might also like - related to this topic:

• E26 | Open Or Monogamous Relationship? Neither Lasts Without These 3 Pillars - With Eva Di Pierro - on Apple or Spotify
• E25 | Dreaming To Sleep With Multiple People But In A Monogamous Relationship? Here's How You Do Both - on Apple or Spotify
• E11 | How Do I Deal With Jealousy In My Relationship? – on Apple or Spotify

FREE GUIDE: 10 Prompts For Deeper Conversations With Your Partner - Get your copy

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Chiara Hardie is an intimacy coach who shows you how to stop giving a damn about what anyone thinks. She helps you find the confidence and freedom to express what you've never dared say — be it sex, taboos, or your relationship.