Recognizing Covert Narcissistic Abuse After 17 Years of Marriage: Community Chat

Have you ever felt like something was wrong in your relationship but couldn't find the words to describe it? In this episode of the Covert Narcissism Podcast Community Chat, I sit down with David, who spent 17 years married to a covert narcissist before finally being able to name what he was experiencing.

David shares how it started with recognizing passive aggressive behavior, how that led him down the rabbit hole of covert narcissism, and what happened when he finally said it out loud to someone he trusted. We talk about why covert narcissistic abuse is so hard to explain to others, what it feels like when you aren't fully believed, and how saying it out loud is often the moment the healing begins.

David also opens up about life after divorce, co-parenting with a covert narcissist, and the very real challenge of protecting your children from narcissistic manipulation while staying in a healed and grounded place yourself.

If you are struggling to name what you are experiencing in your relationship, feel like no one around you truly understands, or are navigating co-parenting after narcissistic abuse, this episode is for you.

Topics covered in this episode:

• Recognizing covert narcissistic abuse in marriage
• Passive aggressive behavior as an early warning sign
• Why covert narcissistic abuse is hard to explain to family and friends
• What happens when you first say it out loud
• Healing after divorce from a narcissist
• Co-parenting with a covert narcissist
• Protecting children from narcissistic manipulation
• Trusting your gut when something feels wrong

To join future CNG Community Chats, visit https://www.covertnarcissism.com/community-chats

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