Love Bombing 101: How to Spot It, Why We Fall for It, and How to Get Out

Love Bombing 101: How to Spot It, Why We Fall for It, and How to Get Out

Hello confessions fam!! Welcome back to The Attachment Confessions!

On today's episode, we're diving into a topic that has been all the rage on social media in the dating world, especially over the last few years – love bombing.

Not gonna lie you guys, just the mention of that term gives me full-on body chills. In the worst way!

Love bombing is essentially bombarding a new romantic interest with over-the-top attention, affection, compliments, and the extravagant, finer things in life very early on in the getting-to-know-someone phase. I've been love-bombed a time or two, and let me tell you, it can feel absolutely amazing! For those of us with an insecure attachment, that is (healing Fearful Avoidant, party of 1, right here).

However, love bombing is not a true testament of someone's motives, character, or {realistic} true feelings. In fact, there are two types of love bombing to be aware of – narcissistic-driven and attachment-driven. In today's episode, we'll break down each type along with some helpful tips on how to appropriately spot and handle a love bomber in action.

Whether you're an Anxious Preoccupied, a Dismissive Avoidant, a fellow Fearful Avoidant, or Securely Attached – this week's episode is sure to set you up for success next time you feel premature love grenades coming your way.

Here on The Attachment Confessions, you'll have a ring-side seat to my attachment healing adventure. My hope is by bringing attachment science to those of you who have never heard of it before and by sharing my own story, you'll also be inspired to embark on your own attachment healing journey. That's my hope, at least!

xo - Chelsea

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