275. If I Was Your Dating Coach This Summer, Here's What I'd Tell You to Do

If you've never been in a relationship before, or never been in a good one, and you identify with feelings of anxiety, hopelessness, or overwhelm when it comes to dating, and you just feel like it's impossible for you to find love and it's all over. This episode is for you.

This is exactly what I would do if I was your dating coach in the next three weeks, so you could build a joyful dating life, attract the best dates of your life, and make the right relationship inevitable this summer.

Inside Episode 275:

Why "it happens when you least expect it" is actually desire suppression in disguise, and what to do instead
How to build your matchmaker protocol: claim your essence-based preferences so you stop settling before you even get to the starting line
The vetting questions I used as a professional matchmaker to qualify the right people and disqualify the wrong ones without mind drama
Why rejection feels like death (it's biological, not dramatic) and how to build a bounce back plan so it stops running your dating life
The Bounce Back protocol: a step-by-step rejection resilience plan you can write in your notes app right now

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