S4E5 - How to Heal and Find Your Confidence Again with Beth Fischer
Porn Talk31 Jan 2022

S4E5 - How to Heal and Find Your Confidence Again with Beth Fischer

Once you've decided enough is enough, and it's time for a new life, it's just a matter of finding the path to recovery. That path starts today with our guest, Beth Fischer, back for round 2! Beth is a betrayal trauma specialist and the new head of our Powerful Partners Program. She has authored an ebook, has online self-guided courses, and coaches betrayed wives in group and individual settings. In this episode, we're going to dive deeper into what women can do to uncover betrayal and how to start healing.

Whether you are a woman looking for help or a man seeking support, you need to tune into Beth's story to understand how porn affects your family.

[00:01 - 03:33] How to Do Confrontation Right

Confrontation is the only option for women to find the truth
Confront in a public place - ideally in front of a specialist/counselor
Anger and denial is the first red flag

[03:34 - 12:24] How to Heal and Find Your Confidence Again

Beth shares more of her story of uncovering betrayal
Stepping out of detective mode and shifting into recovery mode
Building your own self-esteem up again - healing yourself first
Couples usually want to save their marriage but don't know how
The significant other needs to be ready - it takes everything you have
The woman needs to put boundaries in place
Goals vs. outcomes - You need to tie your healing to a strong "why"

[12:25 - 23:50] How to Learn How to Save Your Marriage

Decide you want a new life - resources for support below
Going from powerless to powerful
"You are designed for accomplishment…"
You can't do it alone but with help, you CAN do it
Attaching outcomes to your goals

[23:51 - 26:07] That's a Wrap!

Beth's last words to wives - get to a place of peace
Wives, it's not your fault
How to reach out to Beth - links below
"You were designed for accomplishment, engineered for success, and endowed with the seeds of greatness." - Zig Ziglar


Powerful Quotes:

"Once you get onto the other side of the fears, you become confident." - Beth Fischer

"Most couples want to save their marriages, they just don't know how… If they're willing to do whatever it takes, then there is healing." - Beth Fischer

"Once you decide that you want a new life then it's just a matter of finding the path." - Beth Fischer

Resources Mentioned:

Book a call with Beth https://appointment.yourfamilyneedsyou.com/booking-page761614961828862051
Pain to Power Program - https://app.mastermind.com/masterminds/28330
Free Guide to Faster Healing - https://bkascheres.mastermind.com/masterminds/23017

Connect with the Powerful Partners Program at https://yourfamilyneedsyou.com/ - healing done together.

If you're looking to break your online sex addiction and live a life of integrity, go to https://solo.to/powerfuleric and let's keep the conversation going!

Connect with me (Powerful Eric) on LinkedIn, Twitter, and Facebook. Email me at eric@powerfuleric.com.

Love what you heard? LEAVE A REVIEW + and SHARE this episode with other men who want to live an empowered life free of addiction. Listen to previous episodes on Spotify or Apple Podcasts.

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S5E1 - Porn Free in 2023 with Chat GPT

S5E1 - Porn Free in 2023 with Chat GPT

Welcome to the Porn Talk podcast! Join Eric Zuzack and his guest, William Duffin, as they explore the cutting-edge technology of ChatGPT and its impact in our lives. From the potential for AI to become more intelligent to the future of neural links, William sheds light on the exciting possibilities of AI. But he doesn't stop there. He also delves into the challenges of sex addiction and how a strong sense of self and connection with others can help overcome it. Join them as they discuss personal growth, self-awareness, and spirituality in this thought-provoking episode. And here’s what to look forward to in today’s episode:The impact of artificial intelligence on human lifeThe meaning of lifeThe potential consequences and ethical considerations of using advanced technologyPhone and text notifications and how they can be distractingWriting books using AIAnd much more! About William Duffin: Rev. William Duffin is an intuitive consultant and metaphysics teacher with 20 years of experience in helping people through messages from spirit. He is highly regarded by his clients, with many stating that one session with him is worth years of therapy. As a spiritualist minister at Circle of Light Independent Spiritualist, Rev. Duffin practices and teaches chakra balancing, kundalini, psychic mediumship, past life regression, self-healing, and personal development. You can find William Duffin on...LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/rev-william-duffin-5a260119/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/happy.mediumwill/ Connect with Eric Zuzack!Website: https://powerfuleric.com/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/ powerfuleric/Twitter: https://twitter.com/Powerful_EricYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqKxxDPu9WHv09DcvG-CMdgPodcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/porn-talk/id1454294737Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/porn-talk--2930866/support.

14 Feb 202342min

S4E32 - THINK BIG! QUIT PORN! (recorded LIVE!)

S4E32 - THINK BIG! QUIT PORN! (recorded LIVE!)

Sir William and Powerful Eric discuss porn recovery, St. Louis Shooting, Elon Musk Twitter Purchase, Eric's new "THINK BIG" book and the new free "Endeavor to Quit" Facebook recovery group. RECORDED LIVE!Join my new FREE Facebook porn recovery group called "Endeavor to Quit". click link here: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2242429205900971Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/porn-talk--2930866/support.

1 Nov 202241min

S4E31 - Satanic Ritual Abuse part 3

S4E31 - Satanic Ritual Abuse part 3

The exciting conclusion with satanic survivor Rebecca Baines. Hear the different modalities she used to heal from her incest and satanic traumas.Rebecca Baines website for healing: standingbearhealing.comBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/porn-talk--2930866/support.

17 Okt 202230min

S4E30 - Satanic Ritual Abuse part 2

S4E30 - Satanic Ritual Abuse part 2

Survivor Rebecca Baines continues her harrowing story of satanic sexual ritual abuse. She shares a strange terrifying candle ritual story. Plus a story of ultimate forgiveness.Rebecca Baines website for healing: standingbearhealing.comBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/porn-talk--2930866/support.

11 Okt 202230min

S4E29 - Satanic Ritual Abuse part 1

S4E29 - Satanic Ritual Abuse part 1

Hear the terrifying story of a satanic ritual abuse survivor. Survivor Rebecca Baines has not only learned how to survive, but to teach others that you can overcome just about anything. If you go down the rabbit hole of porn you will find incest, sex trafficking, money laundering and yes even satanic ritual abuse. Need motivation to stop watching porn or nofap? Here it is!Rebecca Baines website for healing: standingbearhealing.comBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/porn-talk--2930866/support.

29 Sep 202233min

S4E28 - Setting the World on Fire with Your Purpose with JR Spear

S4E28 - Setting the World on Fire with Your Purpose with JR Spear

JR Spear is a military veteran and a martial arts coach. JR tells the story of how he was injured in an ambush while at a walking checkpoint in 2007, and how this experience has shaped his approach to life. JR Spear shares his story of going through war and coming home to a broken marriage and depression and his journey to recovery. He eventually sought help from a therapist, which led to him being diagnosed with chronic PTSD. He also highlights how when you lose your identity and purpose, it is hard to know what you are chasing after and where you are going. One of the things that people value most in life is their own name, and how a powerful name is created by describing who they are and what their values and beliefs are. [00:01 - 08:04] Opening SegmentIntroducing JR to the showBrief background and careerBeing prepared for any ambush in lifeIdentifying the possible key threatsCreate a planExecution[08:05 - 24:58] A Structured Plan to Overcome Trauma and AddictionHow being prepared for an ambush works well with overcoming trauma and addictionJR talks about the importance of purpose and the implications of losing itWithout purpose, life has no directionIf your purpose doesn’t keep you going, then it isn’t big enoughLiving on purpose is setting the world on fire[24:59 - 37:20] Figuring Out Your PurposeWanting to feel normalTracking the small winsAtomic Habits by James ClearShowing up and making the small wins a habitRather than focusing on the problem, it is sometimes effective to just take the time off and do your hobbiesJR’s message to those who have lost their identityThe first step from trauma to a successful businessHiring a coachChange your environmentLook at what you are consuming[37:21 - 39:02] Closing SegmentSee the links below to connect with JRFinal words of wisdomQuotes:“It’s not about what happened to the ambush, it’s about how we responded that meant everything.” - JR Spear“Purpose is everything. If you don’t know your identity, then you really are gonna lose the direction of where you are going to go.” - JR Spear“You gotta know what you’re chasing after. Once you figure that out, then you’re going to create that image of that person and become that person.” - JR SpearConnect with JR by visiting www.JRSpear.com. Attend my upcoming free LIVE webinar for couples! To get details email eric@powerfuleric.com.Connect with me (Powerful Eric) on LinkedIn, Twitter, and Facebook. Email me at eric@powerfuleric.com. Love what you heard? LEAVE A REVIEW + and SHARE this episode with other men who want to live an empowered life free of addiction. Listen to previous episodes on Spotify or Apple Podcasts.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/porn-talk--2930866/support.

20 Sep 202239min

S4E27 - Endeavor to Quit Porn

S4E27 - Endeavor to Quit Porn

We all have limited time on these bodies on earth. How are you utilizing this time? In today’s episode, Eric shares stories about his father, and the things he has learned after his dad’s passing. Tune in as Eric takes us back in time and through space, and learn how a dad’s love transcends both.[00:01 - 01:59] Opening Segment[02:00 - 13:32] Eric’s DadEric’s story about scuba diving and how his dad supported himHow Eric's dad Love Star TrekBeing a religious manNear Death Experiences and things Eric has learnedHow have you increased your capacity to love on earth?Eric’s one regret about his dadTo Where You Are by Josh Groban[13:33 - 14:17] Closing SegmentFinal wordsQuotes:“We all have limited time in these bodies on earth. What are you doing with your time?” - Eric ZuzackAttend my upcoming free LIVE webinar for couples! To get details email eric@powerfuleric.com.Connect with me (Powerful Eric) on LinkedIn, Twitter, and Facebook. Email me at eric@powerfuleric.com. Love what you heard? LEAVE A REVIEW + and SHARE this episode with other men who want to live an empowered life free of addiction. Listen to previous episodes on Spotify or Apple Podcasts.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/porn-talk--2930866/support.

5 Sep 202214min

S4E26 - The Fine Dining of Sexy with Beth Darling part 2

S4E26 - The Fine Dining of Sexy with Beth Darling part 2

Eric welcomes Beth Darling, a former divorce attorney-turned-relationship expert to share some more wisdom on intimacy and strengthening relationships! Tune in to find out more on how to deal with your partner’s porn addiction, and how to properly talk to your kids about sex.[00:01 - 07:54] Continuation of Growing Closer TogetherReintroducing Beth to the showDealing with the negative impacts of porn on intimacyHow sharing things with each other can already make things more excitingThink and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill[07:55 - 22:37] Sex Talk for KidsBeth’s experiences with raising 5 kidsLearning the healthy boundaries of sexSexy is a form of intimacy and loveAspiring the fine dining of sexyDifficult conversations are easier if they’re back-to-back, skin to skin[22:38 - 25:15] Closing SegmentSee the links below to connect with BethFinal wordsQuotes:“It’s not about the people they’re with. It’s just some version of themselves that needs to be healed. ” - Beth Darling on having affairs“There shouldn’t just be one or two sex talks…what people need is to learn, just like with eating, how to eat in a healthy way.” - Beth DarlingConnect with Beth by visiting BethDarling.com, or email her at beth@darlingway.com.Attend my upcoming free LIVE webinar for couples! To get details email eric@powerfuleric.com.Connect with me (Powerful Eric) on LinkedIn, Twitter, and Facebook. Email me at eric@powerfuleric.com. Love what you heard? LEAVE A REVIEW + and SHARE this episode with other men who want to live an empowered life free of addiction. Listen to previous episodes on Spotify or Apple Podcasts.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/porn-talk--2930866/support.

22 Aug 202225min

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