Why would my husband lie to me?
Why Would my Husband Lie to me? And other questions Wives ask when their spouse uses pornography. Over the last couple of weeks my wife and I have had a number of conversations with a new client and h...
26 Apr 202029min
4 Secrets to having more joy in your life.
- The sun is setting and the kids are out making the gleeful noises that signal an amazing day is ending. - It’s about bed time and I am sitting down to record - Thinking, what is the s...
19 Apr 202017min
Accountability is Awesome
- The more accountability we take for our experience here – what happens to us, what we create, what we see as external or internal struggles – the more choices we have o This is about ownership...
13 Apr 202020min
3 Questions that I ask when someone says, "I'm an addict"
Does it matter whether you are an addict? Does it abdicate your agency? Does that thought serve you? - Does thinking it make you more likely to stop using pornography?
6 Apr 202020min
Emotions are a lot like bears
The urges are taking over my life – or that is kind of what a lot of us are feeling right now. For a lot of us this last 2 weeks have been really challenging. A lot of us are feeling trapped, stuck, a...
29 Mar 202022min
Getting Things Done - Bonus episode
Is the corona virus lockdown getting you down, here is something to help you be your most productive self. There's even a free download https://www.zachspafford.com/getitdone (https://www.zachspafford...
25 Mar 20208min
I feel love in spite of the corona virus
Love – As papi to 8 children I have been regularly faced with a significant load in trying to connect with my kids. There is a lot that happens in life, there is a lot of living that 10 people do in o...
23 Mar 202012min
Victim Mentality
Victim-hood and the blame game. - Not too many people think or express that they are the victim. - Not weakness, just our brain justifying our behavior - Indicators of victim mentality....
16 Mar 202019min
