The Ultimatum: Queer Love Debrief
Sextras26 Jun 2023

The Ultimatum: Queer Love Debrief

TW: domestic abuse and toxic relationships

Spoilers ahead!!


We thought we’d celebrate pride month (very last minute, as always) with a discussion of the Ultimatum, Queer Love. In this episode we delve into the drama of the show and unpack why we think each of the couples were doomed to failure.


Listen in as we discuss gay marriage, including why people want to even get married in the first place and how the whole premise of the show is extremely queer. We then unpack each of the final couples, answering whether we think Vanessa is a narcissist and if the queer Ultimatum is more toxic than the straight Ultimatum.


We hope you enjoy this episode and that you’ve had an amazing Pride month. Stay tuned for more episodes now that we have more time, including a miniseries about parenthood and family relationships coming your way very soon.


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See you next time!


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Original music by Sacha Putnam

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