ManTalks Podcast29 Mai 2023

Stirling Cooper - Porn, Attraction, Dominance, And What Women Want

Talking points: porn, sex, psychology, sexual technique, sexual health

Note: there were some technical troubles on this one, so forgive the rougher audio! I polled my followers on Instagram for a lot of the questions Stirling and I covered this episode, so expect a great combo of thoughtful "why" answers and actionable advice on everything sex, arousal, attraction, and more.

[00:01:08] - Stirling's defining moment
[00:05:23] - How it shifted Stirling's perspective
[00:12:57] - How DID you end up in porn, and what is it really like?
[00:21:22] - Why OnlyFans took off
[00:28:39] - What porn can do to a guy's sexual psychology
[00:38:03] - How would you talk to your son about porn?
[00:46:44] - How do you map out male dominance in the bedroom in today's society?[00:55:41] - How do you get your partner in the mood?
[01:01:56] - How do we bridge the gap between women who want a more dominant man in the bedroom and men who are worried about being so?
[01:18:14] - How to get better erections and last longer

Stirling Cooper is an Award Winning Australian Pornographic Actor. Born in rural Western Australia, Stirling started off his Porn career in 2017 shooting for smaller studios based in Melbourne. He then moved to the United Kingdom and used his experience and connections to get his foot in the door in the British Porn industry, shooting for numerous studios throughout 2017 such as the notorious Fake Taxi, Dorcel, and many more. His career started to really kick into gear in the beginning of 2018 when he shot his first scene for Brazzers in 2018 and after that was flown out to Budapest, Hungary to shoot for other MindGeek brands like Babes. He stayed in Europe for several months working between Budapest, Hungary, and Prague, Czech Republic building a lot of momentum and gaining tremendous experience after being cast by big names like Rocco Siffredi and the FakeHub Network.

Stirling now uses his wealth of experience as a professional sex machine to teach men how to improve their own sex lives and through his Youtube channel he also helps enlighten men on the virtues of living an unapologetically masculine life.

Connect with Stirling

-Website: https://www.stirlingcooper.com/

-Twitter: https://twitter.com/stirlingwisdom

-YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC0YIbCZJoYV1BeZ5qHDIJyQ

-Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cooperstirling/

Pick up my brand-new book, Men's Work: A Practical Guide To Face Your Darkness, End Self-Sabotage, And Find Freedom: https://mantalks.com/mens-work-book/

Check out some free resources: How To Quit Porn | Anger Meditation | How To Lead In Your Relationship

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