Ep. 200 - How to Spot When Gossip is Shadow or Inner Child Blocks

What’s the last thing you gossiped about or judged? Find out how that could be the key to your manifestation process.

On today’s episode, Lacy & Jessica cover the energetics of gossip, and how it points to where you need healing in your manifestation practice. They also give specifics on what to do when you realize you are gossiping, the evolutionary, etymological and neural explanations behind why we gossip, compassion as the true sign of integration, a checklist to help spot if gossip is related to inner child or shadow healing, and tons more. They wrap up the episode by answering some questions from the community!

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In This Episode We Talk About:

• The energetics behind gossiping and judging others, and how you can use them to spot your own insecurities and blocks!
• How they relate directly to inner child and shadow work
• Reframing envy and shame into tools for self-improvement
• What to do when you realize you are gossiping
• The evolutionary, etymological and neural explanations behind why we gossip!
• Compassion as the sign of true integration
• A checklist to help spot if gossip is related to either inner child or shadow healing
• Tips on calling in an emotionally available partner
• Questions from the TBM community and feedback from Lacy & Jessica
• Core wounds, enmeshment, codependency, people-pleasing!
• Open communication with the universe

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  • Expanded x Ep. 171 - EXPLAINED Journaling for Manifestation
• Expanded x Ep. 189 - How To Spot When Your Inner Child Is Running The Show
• Expanded x Ep. 183 - Why Tests Mean Your Manifestation Is Close
• Expanded x Ep. 176 - Elise Loehnen - Getting Back into Balance & Finding Expansion
• Elise Loehnen etymology of “gossip”
• Unblocked Inner Child
• Unblocked Shadow
• Community Group gossip post
• Checklist for Inner Child / Shadow Gossip
  • How to Spot Gossip?
    • Is it difficult to see this person or situation neutrally without an emotional reaction?
    • Does this person or situation have anything in common with people you have dealt with in your past?
    • Are you defensive, judgemental, making fun of, placing blame, or triggered?
    • Are you afraid the rug will be pulled out from under you or something will be taken away from you from this person or situation?
    • Are you getting a need met such as being seen, heard, accepted, or soothed by others when you share gossip about this person or subject?
  • How to decipher if you need to focus on Inner Child or Shadow based on the gossip?

1. Is it touching on a dynamic, pattern, or behavior that has come up in the past? If yes, this points to inner child work.
2. If you feel straight disdain, judgment, or mean girl energy about a specific quality, person or trait? If yes, this points to shadow work.

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HOW TO MANIFEST by Lacy Phillips

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The Expanded Podcast, from To Be Magnetic™ (TBM), is the leading manifestation podcast rooted in neuroscience, psychology, and energetics. Hosted by TBM’s Chief Content Officer Jessica Gill, with monthly appearances from founder Lacy Phillips, Expanded is where science and the mystical meet to help you manifest in the most grounded, practical, and life-changing way.

At TBM, we’ve redefined manifestation through Neural Manifestation™—our proven, science-backed method developed with neuroscientist Dr. Tara Swart. This process helps you reprogram limiting beliefs at the subconscious level so you can create the life most aligned with your authenticity.

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