#49: Stop Obsessing about the Could Haves + Should Haves

#49: Stop Obsessing about the Could Haves + Should Haves

In today's solo episode I'm talking all about the could haves and should haves that we all experience post break up. Where you're up at night replaying every conversation you had with your ex trying to figure out what went wrong or obsessing about what you could have done differently so the break up didn't happen. The could haves and should haves are a very universal part of a break up but they can be so destructive. In this episode I talk about why we obsess on them, why it's so harmful to break up recovery, the different between shaming and learning, and how to stop yourself from obsessing about them too much.

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#308 Understanding Limerence and Longing with Amanda McCracken

#308 Understanding Limerence and Longing with Amanda McCracken

In today's expert episode, I'm joined by journalist and author Amanda McCracken to dive deep into the topics of longing and limerence—those intense, ruminating crushes or obsessions that can stick wit...

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#307 Healing Is Not Linear: When Old Relationship Trauma Resurfaces Years Later

#307 Healing Is Not Linear: When Old Relationship Trauma Resurfaces Years Later

In today's solo episode, I'm sitting down and sharing off the cuff about something unexpected that came up for me in therapy this week—old pain from a toxic relationship I was in over a decade ago. Ev...

3 Feb 19min

#306: Navigating the Six Stages of Relationships with Thais Gibson

#306: Navigating the Six Stages of Relationships with Thais Gibson

In today's expert episode, I'm interviewing returning guest Thais Gibson—best-selling author, researcher, and founder of the Personal Development School—about her powerful new concept: the six stages ...

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#305: Why Self-Awareness Isn’t Enough with Kati Morton

#305: Why Self-Awareness Isn’t Enough with Kati Morton

In today’s expert episode, I’m joined by Kati Morton—licensed marriage and family therapist, bestselling author, and one of the most trusted mental health voices online. We dive into her newest book, ...

20 Jan 47min

#304 Early Divorce Isn’t Failure: Finding Hope After Unexpected Turns with Eve Simmons

#304 Early Divorce Isn’t Failure: Finding Hope After Unexpected Turns with Eve Simmons

In today’s expert episode, I’m interviewing Eve Simmons, an award-winning health journalist who is back on the podcast after going through a life-changing divorce just six months into her marriage. We...

13 Jan 50min

#303 How a Daily Gratitude Practice Changed My Life and Friendships

#303 How a Daily Gratitude Practice Changed My Life and Friendships

In today's solo episode, I'm reflecting on a practice that's been a huge part of my own healing journey—gratitude texting. As we kick off 2026, I share the five biggest lessons I've learned after near...

6 Jan 19min

 #302 Redefining Divorce with Sarah Armstrong

#302 Redefining Divorce with Sarah Armstrong

In today's expert episode, I'm talking with Sarah Armstrong, author of The Mom's Guide to a Good Divorce and Vice President of Global Marketing Operations at Google. Sarah is sharing her personal expe...

30 Des 202545min

#301 Transforming Grief and Breakups Through Daily Affirmations with Michelle Maros

#301 Transforming Grief and Breakups Through Daily Affirmations with Michelle Maros

In today's expert episode, I'm joined by Michelle Maros, founder of Peaceful Mind Peaceful Life, who just released her new book, Dear Friend: Daily Notes for Contemplation, Connection and Clarity. We ...

23 Des 202546min

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