Season 5 Episode 3: Everyday NLP Bites...'What Are You Saying ?' Responsibility v Blame

Season 5 Episode 3: Everyday NLP Bites...'What Are You Saying ?' Responsibility v Blame

"If you own this story you get to write the ending."

– Brené Brown

This week’s language pattern is when we blame other people or situations for how we feel or what happens to us.

In NLP Meta Model this is called Cause and Effect. When we make other people responsible we abdicate our own responsibility and hence control. Does it have to be this way?


Want to find out more about personal effectiveness and NLP ?

My books are available on Amazon: 'The Intention Impact Conundrum' Click HERE

'Everyday NLP' Click HERE


Episoder(44)

Season 5 Episode 2: Everyday NLP Bites...What Are You Saying ? Opinion or Fact ?

Season 5 Episode 2: Everyday NLP Bites...What Are You Saying ? Opinion or Fact ?

“Your assumptions are your windows on the world. Scrub them off every once in a while, or the light won't come in.” ― Isaac Asimov! This week’s language pattern is when opinions are expressed as if th...

5 Des 20207min

Season 5 Episode 1: Everyday NLP Bites...What Are You Saying ? Mind reading

Season 5 Episode 1: Everyday NLP Bites...What Are You Saying ? Mind reading

“Great relationships are based on clarity, not mind-reading.” Steve Arterburn In this season of podcasts I am focussing on language patterns that do not serve us or our relationships with others…summa...

28 Nov 202012min

Season 4 Episode 8: Everyday NLP Bites, In Conversation With...Sue Knight on Language

Season 4 Episode 8: Everyday NLP Bites, In Conversation With...Sue Knight on Language

'Words as I speak or write them, make a path on which I walk'. Diane Glancy My guest in this podcast is Sue Knight, international trainer in NLP, author of ‘NLP At Work’ and with whom I completed my ...

14 Nov 202018min

Season 4 Episode 7: Everyday NLP Bites, In Conversation With... Eleni Sarantinou on Giving & Receiving Feedback

Season 4 Episode 7: Everyday NLP Bites, In Conversation With... Eleni Sarantinou on Giving & Receiving Feedback

“In a growth mindset, challenges are exciting rather than threatening. So rather than thinking, oh, I’m going to reveal my weaknesses, you say, wow, here’s a chance to grow.” – Carol Dweck My guest i...

7 Nov 202017min

Season 4 Episode 6: Everyday NLP Bites, In Conversation With...Sarah Frossell on NLP and Dyslexia and M.E.

Season 4 Episode 6: Everyday NLP Bites, In Conversation With...Sarah Frossell on NLP and Dyslexia and M.E.

“I think that everything is possible as long as you put your mind to it and you put the work and time into it. I think your mind really controls everything. “ Michael Phelps. I am delighted that this...

31 Okt 202021min

Season 4 Episode 5: Everyday NLP Bites, In Conversation With...Ali Smith on Shifting Submodalities

Season 4 Episode 5: Everyday NLP Bites, In Conversation With...Ali Smith on Shifting Submodalities

"Reality doesn't bite, rather our perception of reality bites." Anthony J. D'Angelo This episode’s conversation is with Ali Smith whom I first met when she did her NLP Practitioner training with me....

17 Okt 202015min

Season 4 Episode 4: Everyday NLP Bites, In Conversation With... Sarah Scarratt On Using Metaprograms

Season 4 Episode 4: Everyday NLP Bites, In Conversation With... Sarah Scarratt On Using Metaprograms

A great relationship is about two things, first, find out the similarities, second, respect the differences. Unknown In this episode I talk to Sarah Scarratt about how her noticing the different met...

10 Okt 202013min

Populært innen Fakta

fastlegen
dine-penger-pengeradet
relasjonspodden-med-dora-thorhallsdottir-kjersti-idem
foreldreradet
treningspodden
rss-strid-de-norske-borgerkrigene
mikkels-paskenotter
jakt-og-fiskepodden
sinnsyn
takk-og-lov-med-anine-kierulf
hverdagspsyken
rss-sunn-okonomi
gravid-uke-for-uke
rss-kunsten-a-leve
rss-bisarr-historie
tomprat-med-gunnar-tjomlid
rss-kull
hagespiren-podcast
rss-var-forste-kaffe
fryktlos