Season 5 Episode 3: Everyday NLP Bites...'What Are You Saying ?' Responsibility v Blame

Season 5 Episode 3: Everyday NLP Bites...'What Are You Saying ?' Responsibility v Blame

"If you own this story you get to write the ending."

– Brené Brown

This week’s language pattern is when we blame other people or situations for how we feel or what happens to us.

In NLP Meta Model this is called Cause and Effect. When we make other people responsible we abdicate our own responsibility and hence control. Does it have to be this way?


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Season 1, Episode 7 - Who Are Your Resources ?

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Season 1, Episode 5 - Paying Attention to Influence

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Season 1, Episode 4 - Where Do You Need To Flex ?

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