Unlocking the Secrets to Lifelong Passion with Dr. Bat Sheva Marcus | Ep 47

I had the great pleasure of welcoming Dr. Bat Sheva Marcus, certified sex therapist, and the author of "Satisfaction Guaranteed: How to Have the Sex You've Always Wanted," to the show. Bat Sheva has dedicated her career to empowering women to find pleasure in their bodies and spirit by combining medical and psychological approaches to women's sexual health. Having met Bat Sheva years ago when she was my doctor, I credit her with starting me on my journey to openly discuss sexuality, a topic often shrouded in silence.

Our conversation delved into the complexities of maintaining a healthy sex life, especially as we age and navigate the inevitable changes that come with long-term relationships. Batsheva emphasized the importance of debunking myths around sex, advocating for a proactive approach to addressing sexual issues, rather than succumbing to the hopelessness that can arise when sex and intimacy issues remain unaddressed.

We discussed how societal expectations and personal experiences shape our understanding of sex, highlighting the need for communication and effort in rekindling intimacy. Addressing sexual challenges requires acknowledging that sex and relationship dynamics can evolve, emphasizing that solutions are often within reach with the right guidance and willingness to explore. Through our discussion, it became clear that addressing sexual health is not just about enhancing personal relationships but also about fostering a deeper sense of self-awareness and satisfaction.

(00:00) Introduction: Embracing the Awkwardness in Sex

(00:29) Welcome to the Taboo to Truth Podcast

(01:30) Meet Batsheva Marcus: Expert in Women's Sexual Health

(03:33) The Dynamic Nature of Sex Life

(06:30) Addressing Sexual Issues in Long-Term Relationships

(17:03) The Importance of Scheduling Sex

(26:22) Prepping for Great Sex

(27:10) The Role of Fantasy in Sexual Arousal

(28:26) Understanding Neuroplasticity and Sexual Desire

(29:05) The Importance of Hormones in Libido

(32:00) Navigating Non-Monogamy in Relationships

(35:28) Exploring Kink in Long-Term Relationships

(41:11) Addressing Sexual Shame and Openness

(46:21) Defining Sex and Its Boundaries

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Karen Bigman, a Sexual Health Alliance Certified Sex Educator, Life, and Menopause Coach, tackles the often-taboo subject of sexuality with a straightforward and candid approach. We explore the intricacies of sex during perimenopause, post-menopause, and andropause, offering insights and support for all those experiencing these transformative phases.

Disclaimer: This podcast is not intended to give medical advice. Karen Bigman is not a medical professional. For any medical questions or issues, please visit your medical provider.

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