164. Scarce or Spoiled? When Scarcity Mindset Becomes Entitlement

164. Scarce or Spoiled? When Scarcity Mindset Becomes Entitlement

Let's talk entitlement and scarcity...and how the two actually go together. Entitlement says, "I deserve a relationship, because I am a wonderful person. I am a catch. I'm amazing." Scarcity says, "I can't have what I want (or deserve) because there isn't enough to go around, so I'm going to turn whatever I have into the thing that I feel I deserve." When both of these mindsets show up to a party together, only trouble can come out of it, right? No matter what you might think, these attitudes aren't going to get you the relationship you're looking for. You know why? The universe doesn't owe you a relationship just because you're a nice or fun or cool person. You can't just show up and expect it to fall into your lap. You have to do the work...and there is work to do. There is a way to get what you want. But you have to learn how to get rid of that entitlement mindset first. CONNECT WITH BEATRICE: Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/theselflovefix Website: http://www.beatricekamau.com EPISODE RESOURCES Sign up for the Game of Attraction: https://beatricekamau.mykajabi.com/offers/ueSEVcW Escape the situationship cycle and become available for an actual relationship. Take accountability for what you really want with my free, transformative 5-day resource. Receive daily tips to help you attract the right kind of men. https://bold-hill-3643.ck.page/2ee1aa3101

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Ep.27 Being Clear Doesn't Mean Telling People What to do

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Ep 26. Can You Tell Yourself No?

Ep 26. Can You Tell Yourself No?

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Ep 25. What If You're More Interesting Than You Think?

Ep 25. What If You're More Interesting Than You Think?

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Ep 24 Do They See You for Who You Are or Are They Just in Proximity to You?

Ep 24 Do They See You for Who You Are or Are They Just in Proximity to You?

In this episode, we chat: The FINE line between what it's like to have a connection-- a friendship, a relationship etc-- with someone who is delighted to learn the ins and outs of you and someone who....

20 Aug 28min

Ep 23. Can You Stay Clear When People Challenge Your Thinking?

Ep 23. Can You Stay Clear When People Challenge Your Thinking?

In this episode, we chat: How to stay CLEAR AND FIRM on what you know, want, and believe when someone else's pressure or reactions challenge your boundaries, values and opinions. What you'll learn in ...

13 Aug 28min

Ep 22. Do They Love You or... Do They Love What Happens to Them Because of You?

Ep 22. Do They Love You or... Do They Love What Happens to Them Because of You?

In this episode, we chat: The fine line between someone loving you and someone loving who they ARE and who they BECOME around you. What you'll learn in this episode: Why someone can genuinely enjoy b...

6 Aug 23min

Ep 21 On Giving Everyone the Benefit of the Doubt but... You

Ep 21 On Giving Everyone the Benefit of the Doubt but... You

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Ep 20. You Don't Have to Become Unrecognizable Before You Leave

Ep 20. You Don't Have to Become Unrecognizable Before You Leave

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