It's Smart to Stop Trying to Please a Narcissist

It's Smart to Stop Trying to Please a Narcissist

Narcissists love it when you run after their approval.

You hope to explain yourself and be heard; they hope to explain you away.


In this episode are five iron-clad reasons to not even try to please a Hijackal - save your energy, save your time, save your self-esteem.

Listen in.


HIGHLIGHTS OF THIS EPISODE:

  • Hijackals want you to please them
  • They make it very difficult to do
  • Why narcissists always need to be right
  • Refusing to remember the truth makes things impossible



I'm here to help. Let's talk soon.

Rhoberta


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