(Matt Monday): 5 Behaviors That Push People Away (Without You Realizing)
Why do people “fade out” in dating with no explanation? The good news is: It often has nothing to do with us. Yet there are also things we may be doing that push someone away without us even realizing it.In today’s episode, I share 5 behaviors that may make someone pull away . . . and ways you can leave people better than you found them (and wanting more!) Whether you want to learn how to become a better listener, not come across as too intense when you really like someone, or just be a better date, don’t miss it! These practical tips can help you instantly change your dating results. ---►► Join The "Matthew Hussey Weekend Retreat" In Miami, October 18-19: MatthewHussey.com/weekend-retreat-25►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now: AskMH.com►► Order My New Book, "Love Life": LoveLifeBook.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
27 Jan 28min
(Rewind): They’re "Not Sure" They Can Commit to You? These Words Put YOU in Control
"I’m not sure if I’m ready for a relationship with you right now. . .” Nobody wants to hear these words. Especially when it’s coming from someone you genuinely care about. Someone you’ve invested time and energy in. . . and someone you feel could be the right person for you in the long term. It leaves you wishing they could just get over their indecision... If that sounds familiar, I have a simple solution: Because there IS a right way and a wrong way to handle this situation... The wrong way is to try and convince them of all the reasons you’re a great fit (even if every reason is true). This can accidentally push them further away. . .The right way to handle this situation is to meet their confusion with love and kindness, while also standing strong and respecting yourself. (Here’s the surprising part: this is actually an incredible opportunity to show your value and remind them of what they risk losing.) ---►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now: AskMH.com►► Order My New Book, "Love Life": LoveLifeBook.com►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results: DatingWithResults.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
24 Jan 5min
280: "Why ‘New Year, New Me’ Is a Lie – The Truth About Change"
In this episode, Matthew dives deep into why the "New Year, New Me" mindset often sets us up for failure and how true change is possible with practical steps to break through our old habits and wiring.Topics include:Why Resolutions Fail: How old patterns and beliefs hold us back, no matter how ambitious our goals are.Why creating new goals without addressing underlying habits leads to frustration.The role of action and getting new reference points to rewire our beliefs.Breaking generational patterns of beliefs, behaviors, and trauma.Deciding to "be the pioneer" who changes the trajectory of your family or personal life.Recognizing the opportunities missed due to self-protective behaviors.Why fear of rejection and always "playing defense" hold us back.Practical tools for managing emotional triggers and replacing them with healthier responses.---►► Join The "Matthew Hussey Weekend Retreat" In Miami, October 18-19. Grab Your Early Bird Ticket Before Prices Go Up! → matthewhussey.com/weekend-retreat►►Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → AskMH.com►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → LoveLifeBook.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
22 Jan 42min
(Matt Monday): Feeling Behind? 4 Powerful Mindsets to Get Out of a Rut
“I thought by this point in my life I definitely would have . . .” can be a dangerous phrase. Whether we’re “feeling behind” because we’ve never gotten married, had kids, or owned a house, or just wish we were further along in our career, it can be demoralizing. It’s the same feeling when you go through a breakup and feel like you just “wasted” all that time with someone. But this thinking is a trap. If you’ve caught yourself feeling “I’m so behind compared to everyone else,” use the four powerful mindset reframes I share in today’s episode to get out of your rut and start moving forward again.---►► Join The "Matthew Hussey Weekend Retreat" In Miami, October 18-19. Grab Your Early Bird Ticket Before Prices Go Up! → matthewhussey.com/weekend-retreat►►Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → AskMH.com►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → LoveLifeBook.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
20 Jan 23min
(Rewind): What Dating an Emotionally Unavailable Person Looks Like
Can you relate to this?You start dating someone who seems too good to be true. Maybe they treat you like no one ever has before, or they check all the boxes you’ve been looking for, or maybe it’s their success or status that makes you feel like the luckiest person just to have their attention (as in today’s example).But here’s the catch: they’re sending you mixed signals when it comes to commitment. You keep spending time together, but you’re still unsure of what they actually want.It’s a tricky situation. Even though you can sense something is off, the fear of losing them—and the uncertainty of finding someone as amazing as they seem—makes it nearly impossible to set boundaries or create distance. You’re stuck, holding onto something that might not be what you thought it was.If this sounds familiar, don’t miss today’s episode—it’s a rewind you won’t want to miss.---►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → AskMH.com►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → LoveLifeBook.com►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → DatingWithResults.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
17 Jan 19min
279: Do THIS If You Want To Reach Your Relationship Goals In 2025
In this episode, Matthew and Audrey explore the problem of waiting to find love until the "perfect time", and how this thinking can hold us back from living fully and achieving our goals. Whether you're contemplating a life-changing decision, trying to date amidst personal challenges, or simply struggling to move forward, this episode will give you the tools and mindset shifts to take action today.Topics Covered:The pressure of starting fresh in January and why it can be counterproductive.The challenge of single motherhood and facing fears about dating with children.The concept of "Nel Mezzo" (in the middle): Living life amidst its chaos.Common mental traps: Waiting for the ideal time, trying to avoid pain, and over-planning.The role of self-compassion when dealing with setbacks or unproductive days.Redefining the idea of a “new chapter” and leaning into life’s ongoing conversations.Practical steps to challenge limiting beliefs about what’s possible in life and relationships.---►► Join The "Matthew Hussey Weekend Retreat" In Miami, October 18-19. Grab Your Early Bird Ticket Before Prices Go Up! → matthewhussey.com/weekend-retreat-25►►Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → AskMH.com►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → LoveLifeBook.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
15 Jan 44min
(Matt Monday): Avoid This Dangerous Habit When You Date Someone New...
After a really good date or two, have you ever found yourself scrolling through the other person’s social media pages . . . to a slightly unhealthy degree? Maybe you’ve even tried to find their exes’ profiles to see how you compare with them? (It’s OK, we’ve all been there.) This is often bad for our mental health. And it doesn’t help when we’re trying to build an organic relationship while secretly stalking every part of someone’s life. In today’s new episode, I share practical strategies you can use when you feel the urge to keep checking your date’s social media pages . . . and how you can redirect your attention in a way that will make you even more attractive.---►► Join The "Matthew Hussey Weekend Retreat" In Miami, October 18-19. Grab Your Early Bird Ticket Before Prices Go Up! → matthewhussey.com/weekend-retreat-25►►Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → AskMH.com►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → LoveLifeBook.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
13 Jan 21min
(Rewind): The #1 Cure for Your Broken Heart
I still remember every heartbreak I’ve ever had.If I try I can still bring back the agony of those months after a relationship ended, wondering if I was ever going to feel better and get back to my normal self. When you’re feeling that pain of losing someone, food doesn’t taste good. TV shows depress you. Your favourite places feel cursed because they bring back bittersweet memories. Life feels like white noise, and your every waking moment goes back to that feeling of loss and pain.We’ve all been there, right? But there is a secret to emotionally recovering from a breakup, one that is shockingly simple but so crucial that if you forget to do it, you will inadvertently DOUBLE the amount of time it takes to get over your ex. See, most of us make bad decisions in a breakup. We drink to numb the pain, we have one-night stands with people we don’t care about, or we eat ourselves into oblivion with junk food.It sucks now, I know. But it will get better, trust me...---►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → AskMH.com►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → LoveLifeBook.com►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → DatingWithResults.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
10 Jan 10min
