(Matt Monday): Give Me 10 Minutes...I’ll Save You 10 Years Wasted on the WRONG Person

In this episode, Matthew sits down for a conversation with Jillian Turecki (@jillianturecki)—renowned relationship coach, teacher, and author of It Begins with You: Nine Hard Truths About Love That Will Change Your Life. Over the last two decades, Jillian has empowered thousands to transform their relationships, starting with the most important one: the relationship with themselves. She also hosts the popular Jillian on Love podcast. Topics Covered:The most common dating patterns that hold people back—and how to break them.How to know when you should accept someone's flaws vs. when they are fatal to the relationship.The danger of “playing house” in early relationships and how to have the difficult conversations.Moving past unchallenged limiting beliefs, including “I’m not lovable” or “all men cheat.”The crucial difference between chemistry and character—and how to avoid falling for the wrong people.What you should do in the first 5 dates to test compatibilityHow to make peace with your past, including complicated relationships with parents, to find freedom in your love life.How to move on from heartbreak and embrace the possibility of love again.The art of setting boundaries and recognizing when a partner's behavior doesn’t meet your needs.✨ Follow Jillian Turecki online:Follow Jillian on Instagram: @jilliantureckiOrder Jillian's new book: It Begins with You: Nine Hard Truths About Love That Will Change Your LifeListen to Jillian's podcast: Jillian on Love Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

8 Jan 1h 6min

Wondering how to make 2025 your best year yet? In this brand-new episode, I share 7 subtle habits you can implement without needing to turn your life upside down. These small shifts have the power to: Boost your chances of finding love.Make you a better conversationalist.Get you out of your comfort zone (in a good way).Increase your love for life. Whether you want to be a little less shy or just want to level up in your social life, this is a must-listen. And it shouldn’t feel like work! It should get you excited and inspired. Let’s do this together. ---►► Transform Your Relationship With Life Learn More About the Matthew Hussey Retreat at . . . → MHRetreat.com►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → LoveLifeBook.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

6 Jan 24min

Ever felt like you lost a relationship with someone that you couldn’t replace?It’s a profound form of mental torture.All kinds of fears enter your mind. Most scary of all: “What if I’ll never be as happy again?”, “Have I ruined my chance at true love?”If you find yourself constantly thinking about how to invite someone back into your life…Or if you have an old flame who keeps coming in and out of your life…Please… watch this before you do anything else.---►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → AskMH.com►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → LoveLifeBook.com►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → DatingWithResults.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

3 Jan 7min

Today I'm joined for an excellent conversation with my friend Mel Robbins (@melrobbins), that will change the way you approach life’s challenges, relationships, and personal growth. Mel Robbins is a New York Times bestselling author and world-renowned expert on motivation and mindset. In this episode, she shares transformative insights from her groundbreaking new book, The Let Them Theory. This one is packed with actionable advice to help you reduce anxiety and drama in your relationships, stop obsessing about micro-managing other people's emotions, build stronger connections, and focus on what truly matters. Topics Include:The core of The Let Them Theory: a simple, powerful mindset tool for managing what’s in your control.How to stop wasting time and energy trying to change or control others.The difference between acting out of guilt and making decisions aligned with your values.Strategies for creating healthy boundaries without guilt or resentment.Why jealousy is a signal of untapped potential—and how to use it to your advantage.The role of radical acceptance in improving relationships and finding peace.How to build a thriving social life by proactively creating connections.The transformative impact of giving up control to gain clarity and freedom.Mel’s personal stories of overcoming loneliness, setting boundaries, and rediscovering joy.Whether you’re struggling with difficult relationships, chasing unfulfilled goals, or seeking more happiness in your life, this episode will give you the tools to take back your power and live authentically. ▼ Connect with Mel ▼ The Let Them Theory → LetThem.com YouTube → youtube.com/c/melrobbinsInstagram → instagram.com/melrobbinsTikTok → tiktok.com/@melrobbins Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

1 Jan 1h 2min

A few years ago, a top investing firm found that 41% of divorced Gen Xers and 29% of Baby Boomers said they ended their marriage due to disagreements about money. Given that money can cause so much upset and even break up relationships, why don’t we talk about it more? What if your partner refuses to discuss money or has unhealthy money habits? What if you both have very different incomes and it makes your partner insecure? No matter what question you have about money and relationships, you can’t miss today’s video featuring my good friend—and bestselling author—Ramit Sethi (@ramit). We go deep into topics such as: The biggest red flags with moneyHaving conversations about spending on luxuries and dividing financesDealing with power imbalances between men and women with different incomesInsecurities and shame around money (or lack of it)How to use money to have a rich life and achieve your goals as a coupleAnd more!--- Order Ramit's new book "Money for Couples" to take control of your finances in your relationships! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

28 Des 20241h 43min

You know what drives me soooo crazy?Hearing men and women repeat the same dumb myths about relationships over and over again.And I don’t blame anyone for believing them.The fact is that society, romantic movies, and even our friends and family are responsible for spreading certain “facts” about love and dating that just aren’t true.So today, I teamed up with my brother Stephen Hussey (co-writer of the "Get The Guy" book) to break down the top 5 annoying dating myths that need to end now.This is a fun one – can’t wait for you to see it. . .---►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → AskMH.com►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → DatingWithResults.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

27 Des 20247min

Finding and attracting the relationship you really want can be filled with disappointment. You can have a bad date, or someone who flakes after you felt a real connection, and it can completely crush your hope. You may even feel like “It’s just never going to happen for me,” or worse, “I’ll never find someone like my ex.” But these stories aren’t true. And it’s so important to reframe these moments so we don’t get swept up in our frustration. In today’s episode, I share the 10 best pieces of advice I’ve gathered over the years to help you get over your dating disappointment . . . and give you hope.---►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → DatingWithResults.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

23 Des 202425min

When you get your heart broken, who do you turn to for advice?Family? Friends? Trawling around Reddit forums to see what other fellow sufferers have to say about your pain?All of this may help. Maybe.It struck me recently how we’re never really taught how to move on from the agony of losing someone we love. And if we’re not careful, following the behavior of the people around us can make us feel even worse.So. . . let’s pause. Take a breath. Get our s**t together again.It’s nearly 2025. Maybe you’re missing someone right now as the holidays roll around.But now is not the time to mourn. Now is the time to truly begin your healing and put yourself back together before next year begins.Here’s what you need to know to finally move on. . .---►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → AskMH.com►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → DatingWithResults.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

20 Des 20248min