259: How to Get Over Narcissists, Cheating, and Heartbreak...the RIGHT Way
When you've been betrayed or hurt by someone, you can often ask yourself, "How did I miss the red flags?". And in this reaction you may end up blaming yourself. Especially if you feel like there's a recurring pattern in the people you've chosen to date so far. So what is the role of our own responsibility when we date people who hurt us? And how do we practice self-forgiveness and compassion for ourselves so we don't get caught in a trap of endlessly beating ourselves up for someone else's bad behavior? In this episode Matt, Stephen and Audrey discuss the role of self-compassion vs. accountability, dealing with betrayal, and how to move on from heartbreak the right way. ---►► Transform Your Relationship With Life in 6 Magical Days. Learn More About The Matthew Hussey Retreat at. . . . → MHRetreat.com ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → LoveLifeBook.com►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → DatingWithResults.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
28 Aug 202438min
(Matt Monday): Why They Commit to the NEXT Person
“I’m always the person they date right before they find the person they marry . . .” Sound familiar? It can be shocking to find out that someone who always held out on commitment suddenly decides they want marriage and children . . . but only after you break up. At that point, you might be thinking: “Oh, so they were able to change . . . they just didn’t want to change with me.” So how can you recover from this feeling of not being chosen? In today’s episode, I share 3 things you MUST know when you find yourself in this situation and can’t move on. ---►► Transform Your Relationship With Life in 6 Magical Days. Learn More About The Matthew Hussey Retreat at. . . . → MHRetreat.com►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → LoveLifeBook.com►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → DatingWithResults.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
26 Aug 202417min
(Rewind): 3 Text Messages to Make Them Try Harder in Early Dating
Are you tired of people not putting in any effort? I get it, this can be extremely frustrating, especially if you consistently come across people like this. If you’re wondering what you could do to make someone try harder in early dating, I have a powerful concept to share with you that relates to maintaining attraction. Plus, you'll learn how to apply this concept with three powerful messages you can send to communicate your standards in a playful yet effective way that will encourage them to actually pursue you.---►► Transform Your Relationship With Life in 6 Magical Days. Learn More About The Matthew Hussey Retreat: MHRetreat.com ►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life": LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results”: DatingWithResults.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
23 Aug 20247min
258: “He Was My First Real Love, And Broke My Heart…"
The first time you experience heartbreak is a shattering experience. It's a new pain, it feels like your entire world falls apart, and you don't know if you'll ever feel better. In this episode, Matt and Audrey talk about how to shift your perspective on your heartbreak, the mindset that helps your recover, and how to stop seeing this person as your only path to happiness. ---►► Transform Your Relationship With Life in 6 Magical Days. Learn More About The Matthew Hussey Retreat at. . . . → MHRetreat.com ►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → DatingWithResults.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
21 Aug 202428min
(Matt Monday): Did You Lose "The One"? Here's What To Do Now.
Do you have the heartbreaking feeling that you lost “The One”? Maybe you’re haunted by a mistake you made, or something you said, or just a feeling that you could have done something differently to save the relationship. Here’s the good news: There is a path out of this pain. In today’s episode, I’ll show you 5 ways you can recover after (what you feel was) a love life mistake. Whether you’re mentally beating yourself up or just can’t seem to move on, I’ll show you how to feel better instantly, and what you can do when you see that person again. ---►► Transform Your Relationship With Life in 6 Magical Days. Learn More About The Matthew Hussey Retreat at. . . . → MHRetreat.com ►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → DatingWithResults.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
19 Aug 202429min
(Rewind): 3 Ways to Find Out If They Are Love Bombing You
I’ve heard this story so many times before . . .You go on a date with a guy and instantly, you feel a strong connection. What was supposed to just be drinks turns into dinner, which turns into a 12-hour affair. When you do eventually part ways, you look down at your phone and find a message sitting in your inbox saying, “Can I see you tomorrow?”You feel amazing.Over the next few weeks, it’s a whirlwind. He wants to spend every waking minute together, he’s outspoken about his feelings for you, and upon waking, you always have a “Good morning, gorgeous!” text waiting for you.He may even go so far as to introduce you to his friends and family . . . or say those three little words that so many others have struggled to say to you in the past . . .It’s intense and fast, but it feels so good that you just let the romance sweep you off your feet.Overnight, your life has turned into one of those romantic movie montages that show the highlight reel of a perfect relationship, except instead of the montage spanning a year or two, it’s hitting those milestones after a few weeks.And then, of course, it happens . . . something feels wrong, the communication slows down, he starts to pull away, and before you know it, he vanishes completely.You’re left dazed, shellshocked, and wounded—fully relating to the term “love bombing” and wondering if any of it was even real.If this sounds familiar, then this video is for you as I share 3 tests that will help you spot a love bomber.---►► Transform Your Relationship with Life in 6 Magical Days... Learn More About My Live Retreat at → MHRetreat.com►► Sign up Now For My Free Weekly Newsletter, The 3 Relationships at ... → The3Relationships.com►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → LoveLifeBook.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
16 Aug 202412min
257: Don't Let Your Anxiety Sabotage Your Relationships (What To Do Instead!)
There are many ways anxiety can show up in our relationships. When we like someone and worry about them losing interest. When we're waiting for a text back. When we overthink in a relationship. In this episode, Matt and Audrey talk about the fears that activate anxious behavior in relationships, how to become more aware of your triggers, and simple ways to get more emotional control and calm your anxiety. ---►► Transform Your Relationship with Life in 6 Magical Days... Learn More About My Live Retreat at → MHRetreat.com ►► Sign up Now For My Free Weekly Newsletter, The 3 Relationships at ... → The3Relationships.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
15 Aug 202442min
(Matt Monday): My Honest Advice to Someone Scared Of Dating Again
Maybe this will sound familiar: After a few bad dating experiences, you say to yourself, “My life is pretty awesome as it is, so why do I even want someone else disturbing my peace?” The thought of not having to deal with the dating process may feel like a huge relief in that moment . . . but what actually happens when you decide not to put yourself out there anymore (when deep down, you still want to find love)? In today’s episode, I share 5 ways you can get back into dating that won’t lead to burnout. You’ll see how to maintain your peace while also giving yourself permission to take small (or even big) swings in love.---►► Transform Your Relationship with Life in 6 Magical Days... Learn More About My Live Retreat at → MHRetreat.com►► Sign up Now For My Free Weekly Newsletter, The 3 Relationships at ... → The3Relationships.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
12 Aug 202434min
