27: A quickie on motherhood and being sexual!
Yes, please...18 Okt 2022

27: A quickie on motherhood and being sexual!

Are mothers allowed to be sexual, sexually satisfied and sexually free? Even thinking about it seems absurd, right? because all human beings deserve pleasure, all mothers deserve pleasure, but society has made us believe that a "good" mother must forget about herself, her sexuality, her needs, and her desires because now she has children. As if motherhood and sexuality were completely separate parts of a mother's life. Now, if this is feeling icky, you will benefit from this quickie, where Erika talks about pregnancy and childbirth as an extension of sexuality, to inspire you to redefine what it REALLY means to be a sexual woman and mother, and to be open to enjoy your sexuality to its fullness because you are built for it and you deserve it.

Your pussy belongs to you, your pussy is you and she's there for both pleasure and birth. Releasing the old and outdated, paradigm of the good woman and the good mother could be one of the first steps and the beginning of a healing process leading up to a shameless and delightful sexuality.

"Evolution did not fuck up the female body, the female sexual organs, or birth. It is how we live. It is how we think about it. It's how we approach it and use them and abuse them and shut them down through modern day living lifestyle and practices" [6:27]

In this episode:

  • Why being a mother and being sexual is NOT gross.
  • Pregnancy and childbirth as part of your sexuality.
  • The collective consciousness and archetypes that might influence how you experience motherhood.
  • Ecstatic birth is possible and available to you.

Let’s connect!

Come join me and like-minded women in my FREE women-only, sex-positive community:

Pleasure Rebels Facebook Group

Follow and reach out on IG

Sign up to receive the BEST and most beautiful newsletter on the planet here

Related episodes

14: How to be sexual/sexy AND feel safe in this world

17: Self reclamation, soul embodiment and a new kind of womanhood

24: Harness your erotic power

26: The Slut Archetype – what and who is she and why she'll revolutionize your sex life!

You can also listen to this episode and access the information, resources, and links mentioned in this episode here:https://www.erikaalsborn.com/podcast/27

Episoder(120)

119: Not in the mood for sex? Let’s talk alternatives

119: Not in the mood for sex? Let’s talk alternatives

In this episode, I explore the nuance of sexual intimacy in long-term relationships and what it really means to meet each other in desire, even when you’re not fully “in the mood.” I share the deeper ...

2 Apr 25min

118: rest and relaxation – essential for well being and PLEASURE

118: rest and relaxation – essential for well being and PLEASURE

In this episode, I explore the art of relaxation and why so many women struggle to truly rest. I share my personal journey of moving out of “go-go girl mode,” how quitting caffeine changed my relation...

17 Mar 24min

117: Choosing family in a culture of “having it all”

117: Choosing family in a culture of “having it all”

In this episode, I share a deeply personal reflection on turning 40, living in the in-between without a home, and what it has taught me about identity, nervous system regulation, and belonging. I talk...

3 Mar 33min

116: Q&A - fantasy, self-touch, and body signals

116: Q&A - fantasy, self-touch, and body signals

In this episode, I answer three honest and intimate questions from my community about mental arousal and fantasy, shame or disgust around self-touch, and burning or sensitivity at the vaginal entrance...

17 Feb 24min

115: life updates + my season of expansion

115: life updates + my season of expansion

In this episode, I drop in with an honest life update after a long pause from the podcast. I share what the past months have really been like behind the scenes—sleep deprivation, sickness, moving home...

4 Feb 24min

114: Q&A - arousal drop after Clit Os, disgust when touching yourself, and getting back into intimacy after 10 months

114: Q&A - arousal drop after Clit Os, disgust when touching yourself, and getting back into intimacy after 10 months

In this episode, I answer three powerful questions from my community about orgasms, disgust in self-touch, and how to find your way back to sex after a long dry spell in a relationship. We explore the...

11 Des 202534min

113: Are you a teen or a woman in the bedroom?

113: Are you a teen or a woman in the bedroom?

In this episode, I unpack a powerful question from a listener who shared that while she’s a fully capable adult woman in every area of life (career, motherhood, friendship, creativity), but her sexual...

4 Des 202538min

112: Sluttiness, eros, erotic expression & freedom, maturing into adult sexual womanhood and SLUT power

112: Sluttiness, eros, erotic expression & freedom, maturing into adult sexual womanhood and SLUT power

In this episode, I share what it means to step fully into your slut era inside a committed relationship (or in singlehood). I talk about why this energy is so powerful, how it revived my own desire, a...

1 Des 202528min

Populært innen Fakta

mikkels-paskenotter
fastlegen
dine-penger-pengeradet
relasjonspodden-med-dora-thorhallsdottir-kjersti-idem
foreldreradet
treningspodden
rss-strid-de-norske-borgerkrigene
jakt-og-fiskepodden
sinnsyn
rss-kunsten-a-leve
hverdagspsyken
rss-var-forste-kaffe
rss-bisarr-historie
fryktlos
gravid-uke-for-uke
hagespiren-podcast
lederskap-nhhs-podkast-om-ledelse
rss-kull
tomprat-med-gunnar-tjomlid
rss-sunn-okonomi