Narcissist Expert: You're 8 Steps Away From Never Getting F*CKED With Again | Dr Caroline Fleck PT 2

Meeting someone new that gives you all the right feels is tough. Once you’ve met that someone and that new relationship energy has you drunk in love and intoxicated with hormones, you blink and a year or two have passed and now you’re sobering up… uh oh! How do you make relationships work when all you know and can relate is what and how you feel, what you want, and what’s best for you to be happier here? Licensed therapist, Spirit breaks down why compatibility is more important than chemistry, ways to get pass the representative when you’re dating, and how to start coming to agreements once you’re in the relationship. Your relationship is different from you and your partner. Spirit reveals how your relationship is its own entity that both partners are committed and invested in caring for. Understanding how to respect and govern yourselves as two individuals while finding your way to the middle out of love and desire to be together, is tricky, it’s not easy, but there is a science to it that can be applied. It will change everything for you, but only if you put any ONE of these strategies into practice. Spirit’s reminder about the love you want in you relationship: Acknowledge there’s a problem Be honest with your partner Reinvigorate the relationship SHOW NOTES: 0:00 | Introduction to Spirit 0:15 | Stop Looking for Chemistry 6:53 | Avoid Relationship Splinters 14:00 | Set Proper Boundaries 23:57 | Grow From Forgiveness 32:19 | How to Make Love last 41:54 | Feelings, Thoughts, and Behaviors Go to https://www.radicalconfidence.com to get your copy of my book Radical Confidence! When you do, you’ll be getting a toolkit of 10 No-BS lessons on becoming the hero of your own life - and you’ll learn how to set better boundaries, live a life that lights you up, and give you the ability to boldly stare down ANY frikin’ thing that gets between you and the things you want from life! Are You Ready for EXTRA Impact? Calling all Badasses!! If you really want to level up your confidence game, check out the WOMEN OF IMPACT SUBSCRIPTION, specially designed to turn you into the badass you were born to be!  Women of EXTRA Impact Subscription Benefits: New episodes delivered ad-free Exclusive access to listen to Women of Impact round table discussions, weekly motivation, previously unreleased episodes, and more!  Subscriber-only access to an additional 4 podcasts with hundreds of archived Women of Impact episodes, meticulously curated into themed playlists, and updated weekly. Looking to boost your confidence? Check out the Get Confident playlist.  Want to repair and heal your relationships? Start with Love Lab.  Curious about your health? We’ve got you covered in Health Hub.  And of course, weekly boosts of mini-motivation from Lisa herself that'll have you strutting through life with your head held high on the Badass Boosts playlist  Don't settle for mediocrity when you can be extraordinary! Subscribe on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/457ebrP Subscribe on all other platforms (Google Podcasts, Spotify, Castro, Downcast, Overcast, Pocket Casts, Podcast Addict, Podcast Republic, Podkicker, and more) : https://impacttheorynetwork.supercast.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

29 Mai 202259min

It is beyond disheartening that it’s believed that 90% of sexual abuse victims never say a word about their abuse to anyone. According to NAASCA.org, 50-60 million American adults have been sexually abused in their childhood. Unfortunately, the emotional trauma inflicted upon us as children doesn’t magically disappear. If you or someone you know has been a victim of childhood abuse, or any kind of abuse, our hearts are with you. If you are here, hopefully it means that you are on a journey seeking healing and ready to claim your power. Anne Heche is an Emmy Award winning actress that has been in more movies that we can name such as Donnie Brasco, I Know What You Did Last Summer, and even Dancing with the Stars! She’s brave, she’s bold, and so beautiful. She’s also a woman that learned to stand up and tell her truth, live her truth and take back her power from the abusive and traumatic childhood she experienced. In the conversation with Lisa, Anne shares the wisdom and hard lessons she’s learned from getting up and taking responsibility and taking action on the things that gave her the power she needed to reclaim her life and start loving herself. Her open, raw, powerful display of what it means to find your worth, love hard, and release the pain that was pushed on her at a young age may be the thing to hear today. Anne’s mantra: You are not your abuse Anne’s Power Questions to Get to the Other Side: Am I worthy of taking responsibility for myself? Do I value me enough to take care of me today? SHOW NOTES: Rejecting Self | How Anne found power of telling her truth through her father [1:02] Covered Reality | Anne explains the trap of going with what you know and telling truth [3:44] Seeing A New Path | Anne reveals how she thought her way out of the lies and abuse [6:38] First Step in Fear | Anne on how she took action and activated her power in self-love [10:17] Demonstrating Love | Why defining what love looks like for different people is needed [13:13] Being Validated | Anne on how she decided to show up after coming out in her truth [16:18] Power Over Abuse | Anne’s secret to taking power over the abuse you experienced [22:06] Power Questions | Anne’s two powerful questions to get you to the other side of abuse [27:28] Follow Anne Heche: TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@annehecheoffical Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/anneheche/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/anneheche Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/officialanneheche Are You Ready for EXTRA Impact? Calling all Badasses!! If you really want to level up your confidence game, check out the WOMEN OF IMPACT SUBSCRIPTION, specially designed to turn you into the badass you were born to be!  Women of EXTRA Impact Subscription Benefits: New episodes delivered ad-free Exclusive access to listen to Women of Impact round table discussions, weekly motivation, previously unreleased episodes, and more!  Subscriber-only access to an additional 4 podcasts with hundreds of archived Women of Impact episodes, meticulously curated into themed playlists, and updated weekly. Looking to boost your confidence? Check out the Get Confident playlist.  Want to repair and heal your relationships? Start with Love Lab.  Curious about your health? We’ve got you covered in Health Hub.  And of course, weekly boosts of mini-motivation from Lisa herself that'll have you strutting through life with your head held high on the Badass Boosts playlist  Don't settle for mediocrity when you can be extraordinary! Subscribe on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/457ebrP Subscribe on all other platforms (Google Podcasts, Spotify, Castro, Downcast, Overcast, Pocket Casts, Podcast Addict, Podcast Republic, Podkicker, and more) : https://impacttheorynetwork.supercast.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

25 Mai 202234min

Confidence is something too many of us struggle with. Tragically, lack of confidence impacts the quality of life for many of us, and the lack of confidence isn’t necessarily a reflection of the things you have and don’t have. It’s internal, it’s personal, and it’s self reflective of how you feel about yourself. The great news is that you can give your confidence a major boost. Being confident today is an ongoing process, and Lisa is stepping into her Bad B*itch Boots to get vulnerable and share with you the hard road to Radical Confidence. Admittedly, it’s been a heck of a rollercoaster ride. There is pain, tears, many fears, and stages of denial along the way that Lisa not only had to overcome, but that she admits to still working on even still! In this special episode, Lisa is reading passages from her first book, Radical Confidence and giving you the lowdown on how to start taking charge and changing your life today. It’s time to stop living in denial about the reality of the life you’re living, and it’s time to start dealing with the negative thoughts, and Dream Killing mentality that has you living in a mundane existence. Lisa’s experiences are not only totally relatable, but they are an inspiration of how you can take small planned incremental steps toward confidence and showing up for yourself today! Lisa’s 3 Dream Killers to Look Out For: Dismissing your own Happiness Not defining the Dream or Goal No Deadline on the Dream Lisa’s 5 Tips for Negative Thoughts: Observe your thoughts Identify the patterns Put your thoughts on trial Allow the negative thoughts to fuel you Deal with your negative thoughts Practice! Practice! Practice! SHOW NOTES: Part 1 | You Can Change Your Life [0:46] Outside Perspective of Your Reality [7:04] Dream Killers | Lisa’s 3 Dream Killers [10:17] Part 2 | You Can Figure Sh*t Out [12:24] Journey to Becoming the Entrepreneur [15:37] 4 Tips for Your Negative Thoughts [19:12] Part 3 | You Can Boost Your Confidence [24:27] Lisa’s Confidence Boosters [31:30] Vanessa’s Event Tips for Confidence [34:37] Boost Your Confidence in Style [41:02] Are You Ready for EXTRA Impact? Calling all Badasses!! If you really want to level up your confidence game, check out the WOMEN OF IMPACT SUBSCRIPTION, specially designed to turn you into the badass you were born to be!  Women of EXTRA Impact Subscription Benefits: New episodes delivered ad-free Exclusive access to listen to Women of Impact round table discussions, weekly motivation, previously unreleased episodes, and more!  Subscriber-only access to an additional 4 podcasts with hundreds of archived Women of Impact episodes, meticulously curated into themed playlists, and updated weekly. Looking to boost your confidence? Check out the Get Confident playlist.  Want to repair and heal your relationships? Start with Love Lab.  Curious about your health? We’ve got you covered in Health Hub.  And of course, weekly boosts of mini-motivation from Lisa herself that'll have you strutting through life with your head held high on the Badass Boosts playlist  Don't settle for mediocrity when you can be extraordinary! Subscribe on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/457ebrP Subscribe on all other platforms (Google Podcasts, Spotify, Castro, Downcast, Overcast, Pocket Casts, Podcast Addict, Podcast Republic, Podkicker, and more) : https://impacttheorynetwork.supercast.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

11 Mai 202247min

When you walk into a new situation, a new job , or family function, how you show up matters more than most would rather admit. How you dress, the way you speak, and your facial expressions are all communicating and telling a story on your behalf. Evy Poumpuras, former secret service agent has been a guest on Women of Impact multiple times, and each time she’s brought so much knowledge and hard hitting truths with her that can level you up and change your life. Whether it’s being more confident, taking control of your emotional responses, or commanding respect in the workplace, Evy is unpacking everything you need to know to be super badass. SHOW NOTES: Master Body Language & Be Warm [0:28] How to Handle Disrespect [20:39] Master Confidence [37:33] Master Your Emotions [48:56] This Commands Respect [1:14:23] Think & Speak With Conviction [1:23:48] How to Handle Confrontation [1:36:30] Follow Evy Poumpouras: Website: https://www.evypoumpouras.com/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/evypoumpouras LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/evypoumpouras/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/evypoumpouras/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/evypoumpouras/ Are You Ready for EXTRA Impact? Calling all Badasses!! If you really want to level up your confidence game, check out the WOMEN OF IMPACT SUBSCRIPTION, specially designed to turn you into the badass you were born to be!  Women of EXTRA Impact Subscription Benefits: New episodes delivered ad-free Exclusive access to listen to Women of Impact round table discussions, weekly motivation, previously unreleased episodes, and more!  Subscriber-only access to an additional 4 podcasts with hundreds of archived Women of Impact episodes, meticulously curated into themed playlists, and updated weekly. Looking to boost your confidence? Check out the Get Confident playlist.  Want to repair and heal your relationships? Start with Love Lab.  Curious about your health? We’ve got you covered in Health Hub.  And of course, weekly boosts of mini-motivation from Lisa herself that'll have you strutting through life with your head held high on the Badass Boosts playlist  Don't settle for mediocrity when you can be extraordinary! Subscribe on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/457ebrP Subscribe on all other platforms (Google Podcasts, Spotify, Castro, Downcast, Overcast, Pocket Casts, Podcast Addict, Podcast Republic, Podkicker, and more) : https://impacttheorynetwork.supercast.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

1 Mai 20221h 53min

When it comes to physical health, it’s no secret that too often research of new medications and studies being released are disproportionately reflective of results based on men. Women’s health issues have been poorly studied for years. More physicians and scientists are starting to shine light on the problems that exist with treating men based studies as sufficient evidence for how to best treat women. Dr. Lisa Mosconi is a neuroscientist and author of the book, The XX Brain, which dives deep into women’s cognitive health and preventing Alzheimer’s disease. If you’re curious about how stimulants such as caffeine or alcohol effect you between cycles or how significant physical activity truly is for women over the age of 35, this interview is going to help you get started. As Lisa Mosconi says, it’s not about which is better or more superior. men’s brains or women’s brains, it’s about understanding there are functional differences that we can optimize for to have greater cognitive function and energy throughout our lives. Check out Lisa Mosconi’s latest book, The XX Brain: https://amzn.to/3rBH4ex SHOW NOTES: Bikini Medicine | Lisa on women’s health is treated indistinguishable from men’s health [1:07] Ambien Study | A study that revealed how women medicated with Ambien crashed more [4:30] XX Brain | Lisa on understanding how the xx brain is wired and responds and functions [6:56] Brain in Puberty | Lisa explains what happens to the brain during puberty for women [13:42] Brain During Menstrual | How menstrual flow effects women’s changes in the brain [17:10] Caffeine Stimulants | Lisa explains how to optimize energy from stimulants for your cycle [21:28] Diet for Your Cycle | How foods functions for women’s brain health and how to optimize [26:39] Supplements | Lisa shares how to supplement with a healthy diet to optimize xx brain [31:03] Exercise for Women | Lisa on why consistency is usually more important than intensity [33:05] Stress in Women | Reducing stress is a brain protective strategy that relies on hormones [38:33] Tips Against Stress | Practical tips that can help you effectively fight stress day by day [43:13] Magic of Sleep | Lisa reveals the self care process that happens during sleep [46:41] Pregnancy & Your Brain | How pregnancy stimulates brain plasticity and connection [50:08] Check out our sponsors: Athletic Greens: Go to https://athleticgreens.com/lisa and receive a FREE 1 year supply of Vitamin D AND 5 free travel packs with your first purchase! InsideTracker: insidetracker.com/womenofimpact Are You Ready for EXTRA Impact? Calling all Badasses!! If you really want to level up your confidence game, check out the WOMEN OF IMPACT SUBSCRIPTION, specially designed to turn you into the badass you were born to be!  Women of EXTRA Impact Subscription Benefits: New episodes delivered ad-free Exclusive access to listen to Women of Impact round table discussions, weekly motivation, previously unreleased episodes, and more!  Subscriber-only access to an additional 4 podcasts with hundreds of archived Women of Impact episodes, meticulously curated into themed playlists, and updated weekly. Looking to boost your confidence? Check out the Get Confident playlist.  Want to repair and heal your relationships? Start with Love Lab.  Curious about your health? We’ve got you covered in Health Hub.  And of course, weekly boosts of mini-motivation from Lisa herself that'll have you strutting through life with your head held high on the Badass Boosts playlist  Don't settle for mediocrity when you can be extraordinary! Subscribe on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/457ebrP Subscribe on all other platforms (Google Podcasts, Spotify, Castro, Downcast, Overcast, Pocket Casts, Podcast Addict, Podcast Republic, Podkicker, and more) : https://impacttheorynetwork.supercast.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

20 Apr 20221h 1min

As a woman, how many times have you politely stayed quiet because culture wouldn’t allow anything else. Whether the culture came from your workplace, your family and home life, or social environment because of the country you live in, this doesn’t always have to be your reality. Sure, we’re all guilty of not speaking up at some point or another, but we can certainly agree there are extremes of being a woman forced to silence that exists in the world. Not all forms of extreme are far from home or in third world countries either. Julia Haart joins Lisa to discuss her eye opening experience that led her to a brazen victory far away from cultural and religious oppression that made her feel powerless, frustrated, and insignificant. There is a part of her story each of us can take with us to be more confident, more powerful and more secure in who we are as women. Check out Julia Haarts new book, Brazen: My Unorthodox Journey from Long Sleeves to Lingerie: https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0593239164?tag=randohouseinc47720-20 SHOW NOTES: Invisible Woman | Julia on traditional roles of women and not conforming to invisibility [0:52] Spiritual High | Julia talks about the nature of being righteous and miserably trapped [3:10] Breaking Beliefs | Julia reveals how she came to question her beliefs and breaking away [7:42] Giving Up Power | How extreme religions trap you with strong beliefs & being powerless [11:19] Brazen Moments | Julia on laws of Judaism versus add ons and standing up against it all [12:16] Walking Away | How Julia walked away from her religion and strict life for her daughter [18:46] Courage to Go | Julia shares how she made moved towards the impossible to be free [27:04] Polite Women | Julia sheds light on the trouble of polite women tolerating too much [31:34] Reprogram Old Beliefs | Julia reveals the slow process of reprogramming old beliefs [35:03] Work In Progress | Julia is honest about the ongoing work to get to putting herself first [39:14] Get Uncomfortable | Julia on how to be successful in spite of the fear and discomfort [43:43] Follow Julia Haart: Twitter: https://twitter.com/JuliaHaart Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/juliahaart/ Check out our sponsors: Athletic Greens: Go to https://athleticgreens.com/lisa and receive a FREE 1 year supply of Vitamin D AND 5 free travel packs with your first purchase! Blinkist: Go to https://blinkist.com/woi Try it FREE for 7 days and save 25% off your new subscription. InsideTracker: insidetracker.com/womenofimpact Are You Ready for EXTRA Impact? Calling all Badasses!! If you really want to level up your confidence game, check out the WOMEN OF IMPACT SUBSCRIPTION, specially designed to turn you into the badass you were born to be!  Women of EXTRA Impact Subscription Benefits: New episodes delivered ad-free Exclusive access to listen to Women of Impact round table discussions, weekly motivation, previously unreleased episodes, and more!  Subscriber-only access to an additional 4 podcasts with hundreds of archived Women of Impact episodes, meticulously curated into themed playlists, and updated weekly. Looking to boost your confidence? Check out the Get Confident playlist.  Want to repair and heal your relationships? Start with Love Lab.  Curious about your health? We’ve got you covered in Health Hub.  And of course, weekly boosts of mini-motivation from Lisa herself that'll have you strutting through life with your head held high on the Badass Boosts playlist  Don't settle for mediocrity when you can be extraordinary! Subscribe on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/457ebrP Subscribe on all other platforms (Google Podcasts, Spotify, Castro, Downcast, Overcast, Pocket Casts, Podcast Addict, Podcast Republic, Podkicker, and more) : https://impacttheorynetwork.supercast.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

13 Apr 202254min

Losing your cool has probably never ended well for anyone. Whether you are in the workplace or home with your family, there never is an ideal or acceptable time to lose control of your emotions. But how can you keep it together when everywhere you go there is someone or something there to trigger you? Lisa has had lots of practice doing the inner work needed to gain control of her emotions, but she will also be the first to admit, it’s a process and no one is perfect, We all slip and fall short. Being dedicated to being empowered, successful and strong has taught her so much that in this episode Lisa is sharing tips and dropping gems on how you can take practical steps to control your emotions and start making progress everyday. Staying cool when someone has trigger you is far from easy and you may fail the test 100 times, but assessing the situation, your reactions, your feelings, and learning how to rewrite the script is going to set you on the path to self mastery, and it begins now. SHOW NOTES: Discover Your Triggers | Lisa’s steps for discovering her triggers when emotionally sober [0:34] Take a Step Back | How to make decisions when you are in an emotional state [11:05] Overcome Jealousy | Lisa shares tips on how to acknowledge it and determine if it’s real [18:09] Let Yourself Feel Emotions | Steps to uncovering the emotions you’ve been suppressing [29:58] How to Handle Arguments | Lisa 2 rules she has to not allow arguments to go too far [42:04] Check out our sponsors: Athletic Greens: Go to https://athleticgreens.com/lisa and receive a FREE 1 year supply of Vitamin D AND 5 free travel packs with your first purchase! Blinkist: Go to https://blinkist.com/woi Try it FREE for 7 days and save 25% off your new subscription. InsideTracker: insidetracker.com/womenofimpact Are You Ready for EXTRA Impact? Calling all Badasses!! If you really want to level up your confidence game, check out the WOMEN OF IMPACT SUBSCRIPTION, specially designed to turn you into the badass you were born to be!  Women of EXTRA Impact Subscription Benefits: New episodes delivered ad-free Exclusive access to listen to Women of Impact round table discussions, weekly motivation, previously unreleased episodes, and more!  Subscriber-only access to an additional 4 podcasts with hundreds of archived Women of Impact episodes, meticulously curated into themed playlists, and updated weekly. Looking to boost your confidence? Check out the Get Confident playlist.  Want to repair and heal your relationships? Start with Love Lab.  Curious about your health? We’ve got you covered in Health Hub.  And of course, weekly boosts of mini-motivation from Lisa herself that'll have you strutting through life with your head held high on the Badass Boosts playlist  Don't settle for mediocrity when you can be extraordinary! Subscribe on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/457ebrP Subscribe on all other platforms (Google Podcasts, Spotify, Castro, Downcast, Overcast, Pocket Casts, Podcast Addict, Podcast Republic, Podkicker, and more) : https://impacttheorynetwork.supercast.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

6 Apr 202255min

Are you choosing the history of a bad relationship, when times were good, over the pain of leaving an unhealthy relationship now? Often we make relationships about what the other person is or isn’t doing and we have the tendency to focus on our reactive emotions. What feels good and what doesn’t. The problem with this kind of relationship habit is that we give our power away. Judge Faith Jenkins has been a prosecuting attorney, a judge on Divorce Court TV, and is now hosting and producing an Oxygen True Crimes show, Killer Relationships. She is revealing the success we can have in healthy relationships when we realize our power to be happy comes from within. If you are single, Faith is highlighting all the lessons and opportunities available for you to properly prepare, learn, and plan for a successful marriage or relationship that you choose to be in. Taking some time to journal after this episode may be a great way to get started on having a better relationship now. Check out Faith Jenkins new book, Sis Don’t Settle: How to Stay Smart in Matters of the Heart: https://amzn.to/3uCFg5R SHOW NOTES: Relationship Disaster | How loving relationships turn into divorce or worst [0:37] Power to be Happy | Why your personal foundation is a must for healthy relationships [3:05] Lessons of Single Life | Faith reveals what single life is teaching and preparing you for [7:10] Accept, Reject, or Build | 3 options you have when taking relationship to next level [8:39] Being Resentful | Ways to navigate conflict and reveal a person’s true character [10:39] Normalized Hurt | Faith on why healing is your responsibility, not normalizing disrespect [15:22] Commitment | How to know if you are committing to love and the same things together [18:44] Manifesting Love | How Faith manifested love from knowledge and acceptance of self [19:38] Broken Love | Faith reveals the process for staying positive for love after being broken [26:44] Toxic Traps | Revealing how people get trapped and remain in unhealthy relationships [30:59] Danger Zone | Examining the danger of external pressure of being single and settling [36:38] Rejection is Okay | Faith on how rejection isn’t about you and cannot be taken personal [41:35] Due Diligence | How counseling gave Faith peace with her decision to marry and invest [46:38] Successful Love | Why love deserves the same planning for success as your career [49:11] Check out our sponsors: Coinbase: coinbase.com/woi Athletic Greens: Go to https://athleticgreens.com/lisa and receive a FREE 1 year supply of Vitamin D AND 5 free travel packs with your first purchase! Are You Ready for EXTRA Impact? Calling all Badasses!! If you really want to level up your confidence game, check out the WOMEN OF IMPACT SUBSCRIPTION, specially designed to turn you into the badass you were born to be!  Women of EXTRA Impact Subscription Benefits: New episodes delivered ad-free Exclusive access to listen to Women of Impact round table discussions, weekly motivation, previously unreleased episodes, and more!  Subscriber-only access to an additional 4 podcasts with hundreds of archived Women of Impact episodes, meticulously curated into themed playlists, and updated weekly. Looking to boost your confidence? Check out the Get Confident playlist.  Want to repair and heal your relationships? Start with Love Lab.  Curious about your health? We’ve got you covered in Health Hub.  And of course, weekly boosts of mini-motivation from Lisa herself that'll have you strutting through life with your head held high on the Badass Boosts playlist  Don't settle for mediocrity when you can be extraordinary! Subscribe on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/457ebrP Subscribe on all other platforms (Google Podcasts, Spotify, Castro, Downcast, Overcast, Pocket Casts, Podcast Addict, Podcast Republic, Podkicker, and more) : https://impacttheorynetwork.supercast.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

30 Mar 202255min