Most of us have been conditioned our entire lives with the messaging that we should just be happy and filled with pleasure at all times. When we don't feel happy all the time, we avoid the negative emotion by buffering from what is actually real.

In this episode, you'll learn the real reasons why you buffer, and what it is costing you. When we buffer, we give ourselves a false sense of safety and security, but we are missing the opportunity to understand why we are buffering in the first place. We miss what the uncomfortable emotion is that we are avoiding, and why it keeps showing up.

Learning to stop buffering is where life becomes really good. You stop needing false pleasure because you know how to create it with your mind. You aren't afraid to feel any emotion. You stop hiding from yourself and start creating the life you actually want.

More information at https://andreagiles.com/podcast/

© 2021 Andrea Giles

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Lessons from a Renovation | Ep #143

Lessons from a Renovation | Ep #143

Join me this week as I share a personal experience of taking on a major project. You'll hear some of the obstacles that made me want to quit, and the reasons why I kept going. This episode is less ab...

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Who Should I Tell? | Ep #142

Who Should I Tell? | Ep #142

A question I get asked a lot is, "Who should I tell?" After infidelity discovery, you may want to shout it to the rooftops, or tell absolutely no one. Tune in to this episode to get some ideas of wh...

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Your Wounded Child | Ep #141

Your Wounded Child | Ep #141

As children raised by imperfect parents, we all have "core wounds" that inform much of our life. We may have had experiences we did not know how to process, and therefore made up stories of what those...

3 Mai 202429min

Three Myths and Three Truths About Infidelity | Ep #140

Three Myths and Three Truths About Infidelity | Ep #140

In this episode, I cover 3 common myths circulating about infidelity, and 3 truths to counter them. With a lot of conflicting information out there, it can be quite confusing to navigate a clear path...

19 Apr 202429min

For My Male Listeners | Ep #139

For My Male Listeners | Ep #139

Most of my podcast episodes have been geared toward women who have experienced betrayal, but this one is for the men. First I address men who have been betrayed by their spouse/partner. I cover how b...

5 Apr 202421min

Losing Strategies | Ep #138

Losing Strategies | Ep #138

Growing up, we all take on behaviors that we use when our safety feels threatened. In this episode, I will be covering five strategies we use to try to get back a sense of safety. While these behavi...

22 Mar 202433min

Choosing and Being Chosen | Ep #137

Choosing and Being Chosen | Ep #137

While we all want to be in relationships that are trusting and loving, at the root of it all what we really want is to feel deeply chosen. In this episode, I'll share different examples (both persona...

8 Mar 202421min

5 Lessons from 5 Years of Coaching | Ep #136

5 Lessons from 5 Years of Coaching | Ep #136

After having conversations with hundreds of people from all over the world in my five years of being an infidelity coach, there are some patterns, trends and truths I have learned. In this episode, I...

23 Feb 202430min

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