My BEST Marriage Advice that Sucks (Throwback)

My BEST Marriage Advice that Sucks (Throwback)

The #1 thing I am asked to talk about is my neurodiverse marriage (Dave is autistic, I'm not). And I'm SO happy to talk about it...I'm SO happy to share what worked for our marriage. Except...my advice sucks.

I mean, it's SOLID gold, it is EXCELLENT advice, but it's HARD and it takes time, it requires you to change the way you've been living your life, and it can be painful.

I told you. Sucks.

On today's episode I'm talking about taking radical responsibility for your entire relationship so that you can transform it. I will share:

~ what radical ownership actually looks like

~how taking 100% responsibility for your entire life changes your entire life

~ why it's so hard to stay in your own lane

~ why letting people BE who they are will make YOU happier

I want you to stop WAITING for your external circumstances to change and change your life. I did it. You can, too. Join my next Rewired AF group to learn how: https://view.flodesk.com/pages/62b25c3c849e4b4fbbbea7d6

And, now you can subscribe to Calm AF on YouTube! Get free coaching and other nuggets of inspiration and insight here: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCW3GBpWPPwcs36oYBgBVkow

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The Resentment Sandwich (Resentment, People Pleasing & Owning Your Shit)

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Why Birthdays, Mother's Day & Weekends Can Feel So Disappointing

Why Birthdays, Mother's Day & Weekends Can Feel So Disappointing

Why do birthdays, Mother's Day, weekends, or other special occasions leave you feeling so disappointed or resentful? Even when you were really looking forward to them? In this episode, Kristen talks w...

2 Sep 12min

You're Already Good at Discomfort...Just the Wrong Kind

You're Already Good at Discomfort...Just the Wrong Kind

You're already good at being uncomfortable. You overthink. You walk on eggshells. You manage everyone else's moods. You put yourself last. You beat yourself up. You stay exhausted, resentful, anxious,...

26 Aug 14min

Q: Will I ever truly learn to love myself?

Q: Will I ever truly learn to love myself?

"Will I ever truly learn to love myself? Logically I believe it — but I get so frustrated because I don't fully feel it." A client sent me that specific question this week, and the answer came to me s...

19 Aug 7min

Why Your Brain Always Assumes the Worst (And How to Get Out of Fight-or-Flight)

Why Your Brain Always Assumes the Worst (And How to Get Out of Fight-or-Flight)

It's 11:07pm. You're staring at a text you sent three hours ago that still hasn't been answered — and your brain has already decided the relationship is over, they hate you, you're going to lose your ...

12 Aug 22min

Why You're Exhausted All Day but Can't Sleep at Night

Why You're Exhausted All Day but Can't Sleep at Night

You're wiped by 2pm. You count down the hours until you can finally lie down. And then you get into bed — and your brain wakes up. Heart racing a little. Running tomorrow's list. Rewriting the text yo...

5 Aug 17min

A Panic Attack in Costco (Why Your Nervous System Still Freaks Out Sometimes)

A Panic Attack in Costco (Why Your Nervous System Still Freaks Out Sometimes)

You've been doing the work.  Learning how to regulate your nervous system. Feeling your feelings instead of trying to fix them. You're basically Calm AF....so why does an email still send you into a f...

22 Jul 12min

Why Venting Makes You Feel Worse (Not Better)

Why Venting Makes You Feel Worse (Not Better)

"I just needed to get that out." "I feel better once I verbally process it." If that's the story you tell yourself, this episode is going to poke holes in it. That habit is venting and it makes you fe...

15 Jul 11min

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