10 Des 2015

A socially happy woman's perspective on social confidence

How boring would it be if you're always perfect?

The words of Olivia Pino, a 33 year old woman who's enjoying a satisfying social life in various countries in the world. She's a friend and a great example of what "effortless social confidence" feel like, looks like, and is.

She shares a super simple and effective way to start a social life from scratch.

She in between the lines shares the difference that makes the difference between just meeting people or meeting people and becoming friends, and says things like:

"I now know myself more. And it doesn't really matter what they think of me as long as I'm true to myself and that I'm speaking my truth. Why would I be worried about what they think if I'm OK with myself?"

"What I can control is my emotions, why would I try to control someone else's emotions? It's not my job…"

"I just introduce myself and see what comes."

"You need to sift through the shit to get to the good. It's about having everything. You can't see that really in the media. All you see is the perfect stuff. Having an awareness that people have flaws really helps."

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Warm regards,
Sebastiaan van der Schrier

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Do you feel awkward in social situations? Do you struggle to be yourself around others?
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