Spirituality and Limitations of Self-Improvement (Ft. Matt Kahn)
Matt Kahn is a speaker, author and spiritual teacher.We chat about the hidden limitations of self improvement, how to love and transform negative emotions, and the nuances of being led by your intuition rather than ego.Thanks for listening!Subscribe to Matt Kahn:https://www.youtube.com/@MattKahnAllforLoveIf You’d Like To Help Support The Podcast:http://www.patreon.com/charismaoncommandIf you enjoy the podcast please SUBSCRIBE and Click the Notification bell 🔔⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰00:00 Intro00:13 Ego Versus Personal Growth04:38 The Ties Between Ego And Imagination09:37 How Do You Work On Yourself?11:40 Letting Go of Resistance17:43 The Positive Side Of Skepticism19:14 Leading With Self-Understanding23:15 Trust In The Unknown28:28 Mindful Decisions And Self Care30:27 The Freedom To Choose Our Diet35:44 Becoming A Healing Presence39:39 What Is Reputation?43:09 Holding Space For Others47:37 Supportive Boundaries: When Help Meets Consent53:21 Integrating Masculinity Into Femininity59:38 Environmental And Situational Awareness1:05:15 The Baggage Of Unprocessed Pain1:07:05 Our Expanding Consciousness1:12:04 Checkout Matt’s WorkFor business inquiries: TheDroppingInPodcast@gmail.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
6 Okt 20231h 14min
Making Sense of The Russell Brand Accusations
On today's podcast Charlie from Charisma On Command talks about the Russell Brand Allegations, Dave Portnoy vs. Washington Post and the Andrew Tate BBC and Vice interviewThanks for listening!If You’d Like To Help Support The Podcast:http://www.patreon.com/charismaoncommandIf you enjoy the podcast please SUBSCRIBE and Click the Notification bell 🔔⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰00:00 Intro00:04 Russell Brand Accusations06:25 How Close Was Peace: The Ukraine-Russia War08:42 David Portnoy, Connor Murphy10:59 Russell Brand Victim Speaks Up12:49 Demonetized By YouTube14:01 Andrew Tate Commits Tax Fraud?15:46 Real World App: A Pyramid Scheme?19:10 Character Assassination21:26 David Portnoy vs. Washington Post25:09 Power Dynamic In The Workplace28:02 Victimhood Holds A Special Power33:01 Age of Maturity36:18 What Is Superego?39:08 Consent44:38 We All Want The Truth48:22 Moral Age of Consent50:43 Superego CultureFor business inquiries: TheDroppingInPodcast@gmail.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
22 Sep 202353min
Elon Musk and Shady Origins of Internet Marketing
On today's podcast Charlie from Charisma On Command talks about Elon Musk's traumatic childhood, how to stop being a people pleaser and the shady origins of Internet Marketing Thanks for listening!⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 00:00 Surviving Abuse: Understanding Dissociative Reactions04:28 Is Elden Ring A War And Empire Building Game?07:06 The Physics And Material Science Genius08:25 Elon Musk's Business Decluttering Strategies12:16 Geniuses With Troubled Childhood12:46 John Harris’ The Downing Street Memo14:43 Who’s The Worst President?18:05 Internet Marketing Lies You Need to Know25:33 Our People Pleasing Tendencies30:17 Embracing The Power Of Breathwork35:15 How To Nurture Healthy Self-Ownership41:23 Firm Sense Of Ownership47:02 The Burden Of Carrying Stress AroundFor business inquiries: TheDroppingInPodcast@gmail.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
15 Sep 202348min
Chatting With A Professional Dungeon Master
On today's podcast Charlie from Charisma On Command interviews Professional Game Master Timm Woods. Timm is an educator and storyteller who specializes in game-based education. He uses Tabletop Role-Playing Games, like the popular Dungeons & Dragons, to educate students and adults in social skills and critical thinking.Find Timm Online:https://www.timmwoods.com/https://www.instagram.com/timm.woodsThanks for listening!If You’d Like To Help Support The Podcast: http://www.patreon.com/charismaoncommand If you enjoy the podcast please SUBSCRIBE and Click the Notification bell 🔔⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰00:00 Crazy Intro01:34 What is D&D? (Dungeons & Dragons)04:06 How Timm Makes $100+ Per Hour Playing D&D05:41 The Subtle Art of the Game Master08:46 How Timm Designed His Own Dream Job13:59 Timm’s Life Changing Psychedelic Experience15:43 Timm’s Biggest Fear While Pursuing His Dreams17:12 Does Making Money Ruin the Integrity of Art?21:06 Following Your Dreams When No One Believes in You26:26 What Will the Audience of D&D Look Like in the Future?29:22 The Difference Between Male and Female D&D Players32:28 Making D&D Accessible to a Wider Audience36:40 The Ultimate Flexibility of D&D42:13 Timm’s Dissertation on D&D: The Value of Play51:34 The Danger of Losing a Sense of Play in Life54:06 What Makes a Perfect D&D Game?55:41 The Secret World of LARPing1:01:03 What Makes Games More Fun Than Life1:05:50 Why D&D Is More Exciting Than Video Games1:07:55 How to Create a Compelling Story1:10:40 Timm’s Worst D&D Experience1:15:40 How to Book Timm1:16:24 The Best D&D Show in the GameAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
8 Sep 20231h 17min
Stop People Pleasing, Set Boundaries, And Find Your True Self - Ft Holistic Psychologist
Dr. Nicole LePera is a clinical psychologist and owner of the Holistic Psychologist.We chat about the three core human needs, the subtle ways people compensate for not having those needs met and the steps that anyone can take to feel more authentically confident and connected to their true self.Thanks for listening!TIMESTAMPS00:00 Intro00:17 3 Core Emotional Needs05:27 Becoming Self-Aware11:07 Generational Empathy14:14 The Struggle OF Well-Meaning Parents18:59 Breaking Free From Repetitive Patterns23:02 Listen To Your Body28:33 Noticing Stress And Its Needs32:51 Rooted in Familiarity34:53 Craving Authenticity38:57 What Alone Time Signifies45:32 Trigger Points: What Do You Respond To?48:19 In Self-Preservation Mode52:42 Trapped in Outdated Notions59:05 Respectful Expression Of Your Perspective1:02:40 Embracing Flexible Boundaries1:09:34 Childlike Tendency To Personalize1:15:20 Grounds for Seeking Personal Space1:20:59 Emotional Gaps In Adults1:28:13 The Dynamics Of Secure Relationships1:32:06 The First Step To Ultimate Healing1:36:02 Our Ties to Everything1:41:32 Learn More About SelfHealers CircleFor business inquiries: TheDroppingInPodcast@gmail.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
1 Sep 20231h 45min
Divorce Lawyer Exposes The LIES We Tell About Love & Marriage
James Sexton is a divorce lawyer in high-conflict cases. He wrote the book How To Stay In Love based on his nearly 3 decades of inside access to the explosive end of relationships We chat about why people grow to hate the ones they love, why marriage is a broken technology, how to craft the perfect prenup to avoid financial ruin, and the most important rule for not having your relationship end in a divorce.Thanks for listening!Subscribe to James Sexton:https://www.instagram.com/nycdivorcelawyer/http://www.nycdivorces.com/If You’d Like To Help Support The Podcast: http://www.patreon.com/charismaoncommandIf you enjoy the podcast please SUBSCRIBE and Click the Notification bell 🔔 ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰00:00 - Intro00:24 Divorce And Death06:28 The Inevitability of Mortality08:12 The Significance of Your Choice10:22 The Role of Marriage17:00 What's Worth Holding On To?22:54 The Anti-Cheating Factor28:20 How Sex Drives Successful Relationships30:40 The Perfect Prenup: Yours, Mine, Ours39:16 Men and Marriage48:38 Winning an Unjust Court Case58:20 Wealth's Influence on Justice1:00:04 Child Support: Legal Obligations Explained1:04:01 Making the Uncomfortable Your Ally1:07:52 Relationship Advice: Disappoint Your Partner1:11:43 The Threat of Inner Insecurities1:13:48 Core Needs1:18:00 Where James Learned Charisma1:25:01 How Conflict is Good For Couples1:27:21 Arguments1:34:37 Learn More About James SextonAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
25 Aug 20231h 39min
Jordan Peterson’s Mental Model For Betrayal and The Blind Side Lawsuit
On today's podcast Charlie from Charisma On Command talks Jordan Peterson’s Mental Model of Betrayal and the “Blind Side” LawsuitThanks for listening!If You’d Like To Help Support The Podcast:http://www.patreon.com/charismaoncommandIf you enjoy the podcast please SUBSCRIBE and Click the Notification bell 🔔⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰00:00 What Are Mental Models?04:41 Processing Hurt From Others09:59 Tears: Manipulation Tool Or Genuine Emotion?12:12 Regrets Of An Elderly Man17:04 Finding Peace in Non-Achievement20:01 When Doing Nothing Speaks Volumes21:41 Transcending Fear of Death24:47 Michael Oher Speaks Up About Adoption Lie29:36 Exploiting Opportunities for Personal Gain31:27 Developing Better Instincts in Tough Choices33:46 Logan and Jake Paul’s Clash of Perspectives37:39 Kevin Spacey Got Hard Canceled38:33 Innocent Fearlessness in KidsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
18 Aug 202346min
Psychologist Explains Women's Dating Strategies & Why Young Men FAIL (ft. PyscHacks)
Doctor Orion Taraban is a clinical psychologist and owner of the PsycHacks Youtube channel. @psychacks In this episode we discuss the psychology of dating, the behavioral economics of dating and how those two things make men and women have very different incentives and approachesThank you for listening!Subscribe to PsycHacks:https://www.youtube.com/@psychacksIf You’d Like To Help Support The Podcast: http://www.patreon.com/charismaoncommandIf you enjoy the podcast please SUBSCRIBE and Click the Notification bell :bell: TIMESTAMPS00:00 INTRO00:14 Why Women Go to Therapy 3 Times More Than Men03:27 Is Therapy Better Fit for Women?05:58 Men Find External Solutions to Internal Problems10:55 Why Modern Men Are Struggling in Dating13:30 Learning to Deal With Rejection15:50 The Romantic Ideal: Men Have Been Lied To20:53 Society’s Definition of Love Is Toxic23:22 Jesus: How Much Sacrifice Does Love Require?27:59 Loving Without Expecting Anything in Return30:23 "Love People Like Cats"32:29 Wounded People Recreate Their Traumatic Relationships35:05 The Crossroads: Where Decisions Really Matter37:14 How to Avoid Being Blinded by Emotions39:27 Stopping Negative Thought Cycles44:23 The Core of Mental Disorders: “Self-Focused Attention”45:34 The Surprising Power of Stepping Away From Alcohol47:22 The Black Pill: Young Men Giving Up on Life51:46 The Antidote to Hopelessness53:10 Being a Young Man Is Tough54:49 Should You “Grind Out” Your 20s?57:11 What It Means to Be a Man in 20231:01:19 The Changing Definitions of Masculinity and Femininity1:05:05 Masculinity: “To Have a Spine and to Have a Pair”1:07:40 Covid and Conformity1:09:56 Having a Healthy Level of Self-Doubt1:11:21 When Should You Stand Up Against the Crowd?1:13:54 Is “Masculinity/Femininity” a Productive Framework?1:17:30 Why Women Are Frustrated With Modern Dating1:20:26 “Women Are Still Waiting for the Offer”1:22:12 Why 99% of Women Will Be Disappointed1:26:23 Can Evolutionary Psychology Explain Dating?1:28:15 Forming Relationships: Can Compatibility Beat Status?1:30:24 Beauty Doesn’t Make a Happy Relationship1:32:04 “Find Your Ugly Duckling”1:33:26 The Dark Horse Strategy1:35:41 Debate: Do Looks/Finances Really Matter That Much?1:39:16 Personality Disorders = Childhood Coping Mechanisms1:41:39 Uncovering Internal Wounds Without Becoming a Victim1:47:33 Can You Take on Too Much Responsibility?1:48:59 You’re Not Always the Problem1:51:16 The Pros and Cons of Spirituality1:54:22 The Point of Religion: “A Felt Connection With the Divine”1:57:37 People Never Love Each Other Exactly the Same Amount2:00:05 Check Out PsycHacks on YouTube and oriontarabanpsyd.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
11 Aug 20232h 1min
